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guy problem---help
I'm 15/f. There's this guy that I like, but I'm afraid to try to talk to him, b/c a friend started saying things about us that aren't true. So I don't know what he thinks about all of it, so it might be a little weird for me to talk to him. But I really like him. What should I do? I'll rate 5's for good advice.
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I think you should ask your friend nicely to stop saying these things that aren't true because they are annoying and embarrassing you. Then after she does, start to talk to the boy that you like, say something like, " Hi, Have you noticed that my friend keeps saying all these things about us, It's SO annoying isn't it? " and maybe start a conversation with him about it. If you lke him then you will never know tif he likes you back or not until you talk to him, so it's now or never if you ask me.
Good Luck and I hope this advice helps
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For one thing you need to have a little chat with the rumor starting friend. Let him/her know it isn't something you feel one friend would do to another.
Don't let rumors keep you from talking to your guy. Talk and ask what he thinks about the rumors going around. You should be able to talk to your boyfriend about anything and everything. :)
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if you know it isnt true, chances are he'll know it isnt true as well.
if you really like him, tell him how you feel. if he feels the same way about you, ask him out.
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Not much of a friend would start rumors about you, but that's a different subject alltogether. You should sit him down and talk. Disspell the rumors, he should understand. Believe it or not, guys hate rumors and alo of us don't believe them untill we see it for ourselves. Besides, if he's involved in them too, he knows it's false and will want it to stop also. Just talk with him, he won't be too odd, trust me.
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First thing you should do is sit down wit him and clear up any rumors. Make sure he knows that your aren't starting the rumors and it's a friend. Hopefully that helps.
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Talk to him and clear up any of those rumors people started about you. Rumors and people saying stuff that aren't true are NO fun to go through (trust me I know). Talk to him and clear any of it up and then just keep talking to him, tell the truth about it. But definately talk to him and after you clear everything up, get to know him better and try and be his friend, maybe try and find out his feelings and if he likes you, great! Now you can tell him you like him and take it from there.
Hope this helps and you talk to him and clear up those things that person said about you two.
-Ryan
P.S. Also talk to that friend who said that crap, because that isn't what a friend would do. Confront them and find out why they said those things. Then do what you think is necessary.
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just tell him the truth if he is as good as you think he is then he'll believe you and if he dont he isn't worth your time!!!
*-*Pam*-*
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just tell him about the freind thing and say none of it was true..then when he says something back after that..just start normally talking to him..like..talk to him for maybe..2 weeks..and then ask him for his number..good luck..hope i helped yah :-D
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