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What should I do?
Well okay I have this best friend whose a guy named Joe.. me and him went out before well a lot? and actually a few weeks ago we liked eachother (and i'm like still madly in love with him) until this other girl came into the picture.. her name is brooke (i dispise her) well see the thing is me and him talk 24-7 and stuff and we still hang out and he flirts so much but him & brooke are together still =/ but he doesn't really seem to like her that much? he considers me and him bestestest friends forever.. we even share secrets together? but i am in LOVE with this kid =( .. well last nite we had a school dance (he slowed danced with her obvisioly) and like when the fast songs were on i was like getting low and stuff tehehe =] and he was all near me i loved it =] and brooke and all her friends were like ugh but oh well for them? but idk what 2 do..? hmm what should i do
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sounds to me like he likes you but is afraid to lose your guyss friendship...talk to him about it
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You should tell him how you feel before it's too late and you'll regret it later on. If you two are as close as you say then it shouldn't be a problem. As for Brooke well that all depends what happens between you and Joe. But whatever still stay as friends.
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You count the times you guys got back together. I'll count the times that you and Joe broke up.
I'm going to guess at this and say that he broke up with you? (Maybe you broke up with him. I don't know.) but either way, there had to be a reason for the break up. And that reason, if it hasn't gone away, is keeping you apart. And even if it isn't, there's another reason. He has a girlfriend.
If he wanted to be with you, wouldn't he be single, trying to ask you out? I mean, you can excuse him and say he doesn't know, but I think you're giving some pretty obvious signals. If you doubt me, you can tell him you like him. Find out for yourself that he'd rather date Brooke than you. (Ok, that was a little harsh, sorry..) but seriously, don't be this pimp's hoe. Please.
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I think that you should tell him how you really feel, ask him how he feels about Brooke, if he says he likes her, then tell him that you like him and you would like a relationship with him because you guys are so close, just be honest with him! See what happens from there!!
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I wouldn't give a guy what he wants because like he is probably feeling pretty pimpish right now he got 2 chicks maybe more coming after him, ya know? But as you say your *Madly* in love with him I would tell him you still have mad feelings for him and ask him what he feels for you. Say something like we have been bestfriends almost all our lives or (whenever), and I know you the best out of Brooke. I really like you and I want to be with you and I know I will make you happy. Or something ya know? Just ask him to be honest of what all he thinks of you and if it's rejection then just say to yourself "Fine I can do better". Hope I helped! Sorry if I was a little rough around the edges.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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ask him straight just be honist and be youself it will be hard but if he likes you then its better for him to know the truth,tell him you feel for him so much and you have never felt like it with anyone else before dont put him on the spot tell him that he doesnt have to rush into things if he doesnt want to and tell himk you will give him time to think about thing he sounds like he really likes you aswell so i say go for it you havnt got anythink to lose you and him hit it of before then broke up and your still really good friends so that tells you that if it doesnt go well like before you can be friends again
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