13/f - Yesterday I think my mom walked in on me and my BFF watching porn on my computer. Im not positive if she saw EVERYTHING because we clicked out fast, but its been akward between us all morning! I dont know what to do/say or if im just being paranoid and she didnt see. What do i do here?! My friend just went home, but still my mom hasnt said a word about it. i feel SO AWKWARD! HELP ME PLEASE
alexd3355 answered Sunday May 8 2005, 3:55 am: just play cool like nothing happend im sure if she had seen anything she would have talked to you about it by now just forget about it act like it never happend pluse tomorrows mothers day you dont want to act weird and ruin mothers day for her do you? [ alexd3355's advice column | Ask alexd3355 A Question ]
phil314 answered Saturday May 7 2005, 11:50 pm: Um, why were you and your boyfriend watching porn together? Porn is something that should only be watched by people who share the same sexual preferences. If this was gay porn with a bunch of naked guys, I'd seriously worry about your boyfriend. Otherwise, I'd worry about yourself. [ phil314's advice column | Ask phil314 A Question ]
hitler_the_goat answered Saturday May 7 2005, 6:35 pm: she's kinda shocked that you were watching porn WITH A FRIEND. thats it really. was the porn oriented towards heterosexual behavior, or was it hardcore stuff? if it was looking at a member of the opposite sex, then she knows that you're not gay, but if you were watching some hot lesbo erotica, then i can understand where she'd be a little freaked out. act like it never happened.
-hitler [ hitler_the_goat's advice column | Ask hitler_the_goat A Question ]
OrionsFire answered Saturday May 7 2005, 6:27 pm: Chances are, it's just your guilt making you feel like she saw and is mad at you. If she didn't say anything, which I bet she would, she probably didn't even notice. Not to mention, it is normal for girls around your age to be interested in sex. Looking at online porn is much better then experimenting in real life. [ OrionsFire's advice column | Ask OrionsFire A Question ]
blujay answered Saturday May 7 2005, 5:39 pm: just tell your mom because she is going to find out someday anyway that you are growing up and have raging hormones and your horny so just tell her [ blujay's advice column | Ask blujay A Question ]
Spark120 answered Saturday May 7 2005, 3:36 pm: 1.) YOU'RE 13! WHAT R U DOING?!?!?!?!
2.) you need to ask your mom if she mad, not at you- but like... "whats wrong?" but, casual! If she talls you she saw that. Then, TALK bout it. No excuses or anything like that. Just the truth. Then, your mom will be proud of you teling the truth!
AshleyZ416 answered Saturday May 7 2005, 3:35 pm: lol sorry but thats funny. I would have felt like a dork if my mom walked in. Well jus tact like you always act dont let her think there something up just in case she didnt see it. And if she seen it beleive me i think she would have said something lol. I hope the porn was good!! Maybe next time like make sure she aint around to see.
Derfel answered Saturday May 7 2005, 2:23 pm: The fact that you're mom hasn't said anything either means she didn't see or she's a pretty cool mom. A lot of parents would have made a huge fuss and been totally ridiculous. Ask your mom 'Have I done something to upset you'?, or ' is there something wrong, you've been acting strange with me' - if she then reveals she did see, the fact that she didn't say or do anything means you'll probably be able to have an adult convocation about it and clear the air. Enjoy your porn! Derfel Xx [ Derfel's advice column | Ask Derfel A Question ]
Casey answered Saturday May 7 2005, 2:12 pm: if she hasn't said anything then she probably didn't see and your just feeling guilty. Or she could be the type to wait until you confess and then punish you or maybe she doesn't care. Your only 13 though come on you too young. What kind of porn were you watching. That's not too attractive you know. Just helping. Well this is Casey and out. [ Casey's advice column | Ask Casey A Question ]
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