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i really wanna work it out.....
okm my best friend is mad at me because im goin out wth this guy that i really like alot and she thinks im making a big mistake.
should i break up with him or will she gradually begin to stand by with me and my decision
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i would think about why she is mad at you and why she doesnt like the guy. i remember once i was mad at my best friend because i thought she was making a big mistake by going out wit a guy that i knew really didnt care about she didnt listen to me and in the end i was right the guy never liked her he was going out with her because his friend payed him 50 dollars. you need to think about this. think is this guy worth more then your friendship? do you trust this guy more then your friend? i dont know which you should choice beacuase you shoul;d fallow your heart and do whatever you think is right. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*
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You may be "blinded by love" and your friend can give you an objective perspective. Ask why they disapprove. Keep their advice in mind.
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I think you should talk to your friend about the situation ((in person)), and try to get her to understand where you're coming from. While you're talking to her stay chill, dont blow up on her face if she says something you dont agree with. Also, be open minded when she says things and try to see things from her point of view, because often when people like someone alot they block out the bad things in the person. I think your friend is just trying to help you but you should talk to her about it so everything ends up okay.
I hope I helped!
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if you love him truly dont because i know a girl her sister broke up with this guy because of the same reason and now she really likes him soo no thats her problem if she doesnt like him or w/e
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your friends tend to know you the best why does she dislike him talk to her about it and if shes just worried about you id think about it but if you really like the guy then i say stick with it for a while but guys come and go if shes a really good friend make sure you hold on to those theyre hard to find. hope i helped!
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you need to tell your friem=nd that its ok if you get hurt i mean at least once your life you will but you dont think you will get hurt cuz this guy seems really nice ask her if she would like it if you dissed her boyfriend like that (if she dont have one than say how would she like it if she were to get a bf and you just dissed him) tell her that if she doesnt like your bf than she doesnt like you well hope i helped and if you have ne more quistions than just drop em in my inbox
-kelly
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i have done this! its frusterating! Anyway, my friends did that. And i just had to let it out and say "why cant you just be happy for me. I like him. Why can't you?" if she says "well i just think ur making a mistake" then say 'well, i think i'm not." And go from there. dont take that kinda stuff! Stand up, and work it out.
hope i helped,
SAM
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Ask her, exactly why she thinks its a big mistake. Also, take a look at your guy and find out why you really like him. Tell your friend about the qualities that he has, that makes you attracted to him. And its hard to tell, whether she'll eventually like him, or whether she'll ditch you because I don't know her... but if she does give you the whole "if you choose him, i won't be friends with you anymore" bit... you have to realize whats more important, your boyfriend or your best friend. Hopefully it doesn't come down to that, but if it does, I hope you make a good decision because of good reasons.
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i think that best friends know best and even if you think their wrong their almost always right.
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