theres this boy that i've liked for a long time but since i havent kissed a boy before he calls me prude and says he wont go out with me cuz of that. then he says well show me that you're not prude but i dont want to kiss/make out with him just to prove that to him but i really like him alot and i hate everyone calling me prude. what do i do?
xBestAddiction answered Sunday July 10 2005, 11:33 pm: Okay this happened to my friend, everyone was calling her prude because she hasn't madeout before. I don't think you can change anyone's mind about you, on being prude, without actually doing something with a guy. If he won't date you because your so called 'prude' then he is not good enough. Obviously all he is interested in is fooling around. So try to get over him and just tell everyone to screw off because they are all sluts and your not. good luck! [ xBestAddiction's advice column | Ask xBestAddiction A Question ]
poetqueen answered Sunday July 10 2005, 10:35 pm: dont do anything your not comfortable with. if he doesnt respect that and everyone is calling you prude then maybe it hasnt crossed your mind that its not that your prude its that there all easy sluts if you dont want to kiss him then dont you need to feel comfortable with someone before you do anything theres alot of pressure on teens to just be like everyone else you dont have to follow the crowd find your own pace that your comfortable with find another guy who likes you for you then that guy will be sorry he didnt give you a chance and youll be alot happier.hope i helped! [ poetqueen's advice column | Ask poetqueen A Question ]
akissintheshapeofabullet answered Sunday July 10 2005, 8:28 pm: I think its important to stick to your morals, or whatever. If he is going to say things like that, he isnt worth your time and obviously doesnt know that you're a million times better than any girl who would makeout//kiss him just to prove they arent a prude, or whatever. on the flip side, if you're not going to do anything with a guy then sure, people are going to call you a prude, but i dont think you should comprimise what you feel is right for the simple reason people are calling you a name. sure, it might be annoying, but kissing him to prove you're not, is like jumping off a bridge because someone says to. but then again, he could WANT you to kiss him because he likes you back, and wants to be your first kiss, and then will ask you out. boys are confusing. =/
jTsCeLlMaTe answered Sunday July 10 2005, 7:36 pm: if he doesn't want to date you cause your "prude" he is a waste of time but if you really like him maybe you should comprimise with him like if he'll date you for so long you'll kiss/make-out with him.
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