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I'm 13 and i wanna help you guys as much as i can please let me have your questions i hope i can help
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Ok please dont anyone make fun of me! I am 16 yrs old and weig 200 lbs. i really need to loose as much weight as possible bfore school ends which in like 5 wks! please i will do ANYTHING! i rate 5's!!!!!!
~*Nikki*~ (link)
well, You could drink lots of water. It does help and eating right like eating fruits and stuff and running and stuff daily. If you do that for all the weeks till school is out, you'll lose some pounds. I promise. But if you want to still lose some during the summder, swimming is the best way to lose weight. I hoped I helped


Ok this is serious and I'm really scared. Please answer this truthfully. So today I was with my boyfriend of over a year at his house. He was fingering me and then he stuck his penis inside of me...without a condom. = ( I didn't realize that it was his penis. I quickly got it out, less than a minute. Then he went and got a condom and he put it in there for about five minutes tops. He wasn't being the rough but what are the chances of me getting pregnate? oh and by the way i'm only thirteen, but i've had my period. what do i do if i am pregnant and what is the earlyest i would be able to tell? i rate really high (link)
Woah woah woah, calm it down some. You have a right to be sacard. 1st off if your bf is 13 or 14 too then he had no right to be fingerin u or stickin his penis in you or asking you if he could. And you need to go with a freind and get a test to see if your are pregnant. And before you do that. TELL YOU PARENTS RIGHT AWAY! They'll be able to help you by letting you see a doctor to see if you are going to have a baby. But if you don't want to see a doctor still TELL YOR PARENTS! You'll be able to tell that you pregnant about a month or so. I really hoped i helped. Oh one more thing. Break up with ur bf. He, and you too, are to young to of had sex!


I'm 13, 5 foot 9 and 166 pounds [All my weight is on my stomach].

I was wondering how much weight I could lose in a week if, every night I do 300 crunches, then on Tue. and Thurs. morning I swim and do about a 20 min dryland[Ab work, push-ups,jumping jacks, etc.]

Then on Monday Wensday and Friday I go in the morning and do weights for an hour.

But I also will swim for 2 hours every day in the afternoon plus more drylands and running[When we run, we run about a mile and a half] and such. I swim on a team so the swimming is hard swimming, not just laps.

But my question again is if I did that for a week, how much weight do you think I could lose at most. My goal is 7-10 pounds.

Thank you in advance :]. (link)
I'm really sure that you'll need to do it longer ot lose 7-10 pounds...but maybe like 2 or 3 or 1...Instead of pushing yourself like that. Start off easy so you won't hurt yourself and then make it more and more as you go. And if you really wanna lose weight. Do what you said you wwould do up there and eat really really heathly and then drink as much water as you can ( it works. Did you know hunger could be dehidration? And I think I spelled that wrong but you know what I mean right?) anyway..hoped I helped


how do you make the n with the ~ over top in word? no it isnt uder the symbols either .. thanks everyone !! =] (link)
you don't have to have that when you are going on-line you just put

www.the-n.com

and you'll be there


hi i am 17 and i have been taking birth control for three months. um i need help, okay i am getting off the pills and i just got off my period last week and now back on and i know it is because of the birth control, but the first day i did not take it i had sex with my boyfreind and he you know in me and we both asgreed on having a baby well o you think i could get prgnant please help me (link)
well.....yes and no there is a chance since u went off your pill and u didn't have ypur period soo there is a chance...sorry if i couldn't help that much!


is it possible to open your own web page? like one not conected to any other links? and one that is TOTALY COMPLETLEY FREE? ill rate 5's

13/f (link)
yeah it is very possible here i'll give you the website http://www.freewebs.com/orangeandgreen/

when oyu get there scroll down to the bottem of the screen and it'll tell oyu what to do


ok well school atarted back up on monday, and my boyfriend from last year goes there, and we never really broke up! so he started small talk and i'd talk to him back, I just feel kinda weird around him now! and he started ignoring me today and yesterday, and I tried to talk to him but he keeps no walking, and i smiled at him and he just looked away! i I really really like him, and I know he likes me to! so please please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
call him or somthing maybe his freinds were watching and he didn't wanna be a wimp ya know i hate it when guys do that


what does pure soul mean? cuz someone asked me Who is the person you know with the purest soul? what does that mean (link)
a lot of people mean that its a soul that does nothing but good and allwas has other people before him or her self never do they think of others before them self..thats what some people say.


ok so i start soccer practice tomorrwo.but it says something about scrimmages being scheduled.what are scrimmages in soccer. (link)
it means a fake game like u play another team but it is just for fun i played soccer for nine years so i kno these things :)


Ok it all started when i was in 5th grade. There was this kid a year older then me and he was really cute!!! he went to my school and he imed me and i said hey!! and we were talkin then i started to talk to him and one day he must have gotten annoyed by me or something and so we stopped talkin to eachother. then like a few months later everytime he seen me he'd like always look at me and stuff. and i was in a school play and i was putting on my shoes and in the corner of my eye he was looking like right at me but he tries not to make it obvious. Does he like me or what??? Thanks! (link)
ok a guy does this to a lot of girls too but diffrent here ok anyway he maybe does like u if ur tight with one of his freinds ask to see if he does thats what i do..it works everytime!


my mom is always saying im ugly. last sunday for church, i let my hair dry into natural curl/waves and she said it was ugly and i should brush it (badddd idea) and wear some makeup because my face looked "bad". i didnt wear earrings & she always says i look bad when i dont wear them. when i do wear makeup for other occasions she says i look like a prostitute. i dont know what to do anymore! i cant always be best dressed and miss cheerful like she was when she was my age. shes always telling me how thin she was and how everyone liked her figure just to rub it in my face that i have no womanly shape. my dad says i look ok because he sees what it does to my self esteem. everytime i get the slightest blemish, shes the first to point it out. i hate it! someone please help me! any advice will help! ill rate 5s... (link)
OMG I'm so sorry. Tell your mom next time this happens say ' Mom I don't care what you think how I look I think I look nice so I'm going out like this your my mum ur suppose care for me not make me sombody I'm not. I don't want to be like dirt so stop.' if she doesn't ask a freind or faimly member near by if you can stay with them for awhile and tell y hope i helped


O.K. My boyfriend cheated on me like... 3 weeks ago. I forgave him, as long as he never did it again. It was pretty hard trusting him again after that, but I did. After I had THOUGHT I had gained nothing but love and respect for him again... he CHEATED ON ME AGAIN with my sister! I know it's pretty weird but I don't trust EITHER one of them. How can get over the fact that my OWN sister could do that to me? I miss my boyfriend but I have been hurt enough and don't NEED him in my life. I love my sister but what she did was wrong and I have still not forgiven her.
I can't believe this could ACTUALLY happen to me! I'm so depressed all the time and I have lost hope in ever finding the right guy again! I really thought he was the one for me. He was so right for me, so perfect and then, BOOM! He's sleeping with my sister! I don't know what to do! I'm so confused. I'm so depressed that I'm throwing up and crying non-stop. It's really sad for me. My sister keeps telling me she's sorry but I still have not forgiven her. I haven't even talked to her! Please help! This is really devastating for me and I need someone to tell me what to do!

I rate high!
Katie Marie Sanchez- age 17 (link)
ok my friend liek everyone said once a cheater always a cheater but you really liked him so you thought he wouldn't do that. Don't worry somone will come soon. God knows what He is doing. So have faith in Him. Maybe you can aska freind to say hi to one of her cuz's ;) hoped I helped


I have these friends of mine. They were my best friends. Even though we go to different schools, I still spend lots of time with them. I really loved them, no matter what happened between us. Some people said that I was so stupid that I trusted them so bad that I have never thought bad things about them.
Few days ago, one of my friends came to me and told me that all of my friends were talking bad things about me. I did not trust him, of course, cause I believed that my friends would not do such a thing to me.
Then, when I checked my e-mail, I found a message for me. It was all bad things about me. It was from my friends. I was so shock that I spend my time crying with my boyfriend. My boyfriend, which was my closest best friend too, told me that even though my friends hated me, he would stay with me. But actually, his words did not calm me down. I still worried about my friends. I did not hate them, and I would never do, but I could not forget what they said about me. Now, I'm avoided and hated by my friends. And they avoid my boyfriend in their school too!! I really don't know what to do... Please help me!!!

-brokenheart girl- (link)
don't worry this happened to me before (a lil diffrent but oh well) look what they did was low ok like some of the people said make them think that didn't make you sad and ask them why they did that cuase rumors (Those things must die) maybe did that like somone told them that you said blah but if they say that that they don't like you remind them everything you have done for them and leave maybe 1 of them will get a brain and find out what they did was wrong


Hello*

Well, here's my question...(this might sound like a dumb,slow,or whatever u wanna call it question.) But how can u figure out if your really in love with a person.(boy,in my case). I have this boyfriend and i think i'm falling in love with him (sorry if this sounds corny).He's so sweet.And i can't stop thinking about him.Please tell me.

Brenda*** (link)
the way you feel around him makes you wanna dance scream and shout and such you wanna hold him and (hopfully) him you forever you day dream botu him so much you sigh alot you look at him alot

that help


For a musical I am doing with a lot of dancing, I need to wear character heels. My parents are "opposed" for some reason against my character heels because they think it's a health problem for me, even though the heel is only one inch and the whole thing is built for dancing in. They want to buy me other shoes, but I need to wear my character heels! What can I do to convince them? They are CONVINCED that their way of thinking is right without listening to me, too. (link)
sit them down and tell them just that and if they don't say mom dad listen to me I listened to you now please listen to me tem then show the shoes maybe that will help


OK....i want to do gymnastics and im not very flexible. I am but not as flexibale as other ppl....anyway do you hav to be flexible to do gymnastics? And is it hard to learn to do gymnastics?? Plz help i rate high! (link)
hmmmmmmm u do kinda of but u can still be flexablie ok run jog strench (spelling) and you'll able to do lots of stuff soon


hi well my mom works with this woman named Faith.And she has 2 sons and there in a band.And they heared I sing.And they need a lead singer.And I would like to now different warm up exrssies to get ready for my try out got any ideas? (link)
ok this is really good cuase I sing so this will help ok

1. For a warm up Start with bright HA's like Ha Ha ha really kinda of hi ok then then low ho ho then after doing that do low ho then high ha.

Ok then I do do re mi and stuff low and then after that high and things like that ts really good


ok...well this is really bothering me..cuz my brother told me i was spoiled and and i told him i do work around the house for my mom...this is the convo...

ME: i help my mom around the house i wash the dishes i clear n set the table i clean my room and make my bed daily and i always put away the groceries
HIM: how much do you get for all that?
ME: i dont get money i earn the stuff i want by doing that.
HIM: you are definetly spoiled.

please tell me if you think i'm spoiled...this is just gonna bother me alot((he's a half sibling))
different moms (link)
ok 1. that isn't spoiled ok you are doing work and getting somthing for doing that. 2 maybe he is just mad that that isn't him getting that stuff I dunno but that isn't spoiled that is a mature nice person


I am throwing my best friend a surprise party. She's a girl, 16. I already sent out the invitatations to all of her girlfriends, but I can't decide if I should invite boys or not. She is not friends with very many guys, and the 3 or 4 she is friends with may not even all be friends with each other (I don't really know all of them well). I don't know if I should invite them or not, because they aren't even people she hangs out with outside of school, and I don't know if it would be awkward for them to be there. However, I think that the party should have boys, I mean we are 16 years old. What should I do? (link)
hmm yeah make sure they kno each other and make sure she knows them boys should come i think cuase your right your 16 just invite a few like deoneding on how many you have if you have 15 people invite 5 guy i guess


16/f
i am going to camp this week, and my ex boyfriend will be there.
we broke up in april and we haven't really talked since.
he came up to me at chruch once and apologized for what he did, but i don't think he really meant it because he still acts like a jerk towards me.
my question is, how can i have an awesome time at camp without thinking about my stupid ex?
thanks in advance (link)
ok like the others said don't talk to him and just pretend he isn't there if he tries to say sorry again say last time you said that you were a jerk to me and walk away and like we say pretend he isn't there hoped i helped




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