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Surprise Party
I am throwing my best friend a surprise party. She's a girl, 16. I already sent out the invitatations to all of her girlfriends, but I can't decide if I should invite boys or not. She is not friends with very many guys, and the 3 or 4 she is friends with may not even all be friends with each other (I don't really know all of them well). I don't know if I should invite them or not, because they aren't even people she hangs out with outside of school, and I don't know if it would be awkward for them to be there. However, I think that the party should have boys, I mean we are 16 years old. What should I do?
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Invite your friends guy friends and the birthday chicks guy friends. and invite all the ones inbetween then maybe you can have a good time and make a couple new friends.
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I think that you should invite them. I mean it would give her a chance to make some guy friends, and if there's anyone she has a crush on, INVITE HIM! Plus, it'll be a lot more fun, because you guys would be able to dance and stuff. Unless you were planning on doing girly stuff like makeovers and stuff. In which case you can still invite guys, just wait until they go home to do that stuff. Hope I helped!
Tasha
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maybe you should invite your friends friends that are guys so then they can start hanging out outside of school .. maybe tell the girls to bring like a guy to the party so that way there will be more guys and the girls have guys they can hang out with
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i think that you should invite guys. if anything your friend having the birthday party might get to know one or one of them might get to know her. something good could happen that day. also its the thought that counts.
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It is a party for your friend. If you feel like she would be uncomfortable then don't.
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well if she doesnt have that many guy friends i think it should be an all girl party and have a big girly fling i mean it is her party and she wants to be surpised but you dont want her to feel uncomfortable with guys there...you know so i think you should just have an all girl party for her.
hope i helped
<33 Lexi
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partys are fun with just girls, i mean you guys can talk about girl stuff, and if she only knows 3-4 they would feel weird. my friend did that once, and you could just tell they were bored! anyway you will have planty of time to have boy/girl partys in the futer!
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Invite The Guys! You'll Have Fun With More People And Guys! lol...and have like a dj okay sorry lol
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Girls can have a lot of fun without boys ;)
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INVITE EVERYONE THAT YOU BOTH KNOW! SINCE SHE DOESNT KNOW THAT MANY GUYS INVITE YOUR GUY FRIENDS AND THOSE 4 SHE KNOWS. THEY CAN HAVE THEIR FRIENDS COME. JUST HAVE A BIG PARTY WITH EVERYONE THERE. IT WOULD BE A LITTLE FUNNER WITH THE GUYS SO JUST GO FOR IT! =D SHE DEFENETLLY WONT BE ANGRY OR ANYTHING IF YOU INVITE THEM! SHE WILL BE EXITED THAT YOU THREW HER A SURPRISE PARTY!! HOW FUN! [[ ♥ ]]
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ok invite guys but you should ask her dont tell h er anout the party just be like who are some people you are friends with
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Well If she has a sister or brother that are close to her age you should ask them. But I think that you should just invite everyone that she is cool with. Or kinda ask her who she likes so you could invite them.
Well this is helpfull.
If your paents let you then you should just have an opend party.
You and her will have a blast
Just make a couple of fliers about 100 so you have xtra.
I think that your old enough to have a flier party.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Chelly~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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Well, think about what your friend would do. Would she want guys there? Is she comfortable around them? Then ask yourself, Are you comfortable around these guys? Well, if the answer is yes, go ahead and invite them! Just invite a couple of her close guy friends, not like the whole school. lol
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hmm yeah make sure they kno each other and make sure she knows them boys should come i think cuase your right your 16 just invite a few like deoneding on how many you have if you have 15 people invite 5 guy i guess
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i agree that the party should have boys so definately invite some and i think it would be a great chance for her to hit it off with these guys and meet new people. if they dont know her enoough, they wont show so its no biggie..if they do show they will come to have a good time and partyy so no awkwardness there!
-melissa-
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before you invite any of them you should chek and see if they all know each other cuz if you invite them and they dont know alot of people there than they are most likly to leave well hope i helped and if you have ne more quistions just drop em in my inbox
-kelly
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