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my boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months and we're both religious and waiting for marriage before we have sex. recently we've been really open and getting comfortable with eachother. we've been talking about sex a lot on the phone, not us doing it, just positions and what feels good. last weekend I jerked him off, and afterwards I got really upset. then yesterday we had dry sex. it was just like the real thing just with our pants on. After every time we do that stuff we promise eachother we won't do that again, but everytime we're in a bedroom it happens. Please help I'm so upset & disappointed in myself and it's so hard to not do these things with him cause I trust him so much. But we're only teenagers and I dont want to do it, plus its against my religion. He never forces me to do anything, I just do it... help =[ (link)
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how about when your with him you stay more entertained like playing sports so then your not in a bedroom doing it ... or maybe if you just in your room to watch tv .. watch tv in a living room so your not tempted to do things because your family may be around
hope i helped
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I just got my period last night for the first time. Could you guys give me some things I might need to know like ..
Can i wear a regular pad overnight
How can I shower without gettin blood all over.
What pads work best. Those kinds of things.
I'll rate :D (link)
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of course u can wear a pad over night and dont worry about getting blood all over because it shouldnt leak when your taking showers i personally think that the "always" pads work great .. hope i helped
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okay i really really really want to be an actress and i am very good at it ((not bragging or n e thing)) but i dont know how to get a job! do yew know any body i could talk to?? thanks!! (link)
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well if you want to pursue your dreams of being an actress and you and your parents both know that your very good at it .. i suggest that you maybe look around for agentcies and get an agent and they will be sure to probably hook you up to what ever is the next step you can take to become and actress
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Ok. so my boyfriend just told me that he didn't want to have sex tell he is married but I really don't want to wait me and let's call him stuart have been dating a while and i'm in love with him so much but I really don't want to wait. What do I do? (link)
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you should respect stuarts desicion and maybe try and entertain your self with something else... but dont dump him over it because that would be stupid.. respect him for who he is and his decisions
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Hey i'm 5'4 and 135-140 pounds. I'm not really chubby hust a little cause i have a 36c chest. I wanna tone my stomach up so instead of a tankini when i go to the beach in auguest i can wear a bikini. i already run 2 miles a day, what else can i do? is there enough time?
-thanks! (link)
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doing sittups is not a bad idea .. keep your slef active by playing outside like basketball , soccer or any other sport and that shoule get u the stomach that you want
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Hi me and my boyfriend are together but now we have ti keep it a secret cause his parents say im to young for him but i dont want to keep it a secret anymore but everytime i try to call him he never pick up cause i wan to tell him im not going to do this anymore. But now i grew to be very attracted to his friend and i want to go out with him but he says he will not go out with anyone my age and were only 2 years a part wahta shoudl i do to get rid of my ex and go out with the new kid i like. (link)
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I think that your boyfriend and his friends are immature for saying that your to young and only 2 years apart .. look at some of the celebritys there was like 13 years apart! and these boys wont even go out with you when your only 2 years? Maybe going out with this new kid is a good idea .. you shouldnt keep your relationships a secrect if you dont want to and you shouldnt have to.. you will probably have a better time and a relationship with the new guy
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does anyone noe a song that "what do you like me on top u on the bottom..." it is an old song and i wanted to know what it is called. thanks! (link)
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Im not sure but i think i have an idea .. is this song a slow or a hip-hop song? if it is hip hop i thinkit might be called "Freek-a-Leak"
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I am throwing my best friend a surprise party. She's a girl, 16. I already sent out the invitatations to all of her girlfriends, but I can't decide if I should invite boys or not. She is not friends with very many guys, and the 3 or 4 she is friends with may not even all be friends with each other (I don't really know all of them well). I don't know if I should invite them or not, because they aren't even people she hangs out with outside of school, and I don't know if it would be awkward for them to be there. However, I think that the party should have boys, I mean we are 16 years old. What should I do? (link)
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maybe you should invite your friends friends that are guys so then they can start hanging out outside of school .. maybe tell the girls to bring like a guy to the party so that way there will be more guys and the girls have guys they can hang out with
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ii have a seriously bad habit of biting my nails ii would love 2 have some long nails by the time school starts, does ne1 know of some really good tips and/or products or something that would get me 2 stop? -[(nail polishes? medicines?)]- any good answers get 5!! thanx loads! (link)
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maybe there is something that you can put on your nails like nail polish that taste really bad that will get u in the habit of not bitting them because it taste bad? .. hope that helps
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Ok, me and my boyfriend Cory have been going out for 9 months. Well, there is this girl named Stephanie who has been hitting and flirting with my boyfriend ever since we started going out. I have always hated this girl, so it makes the situation worse. She'd do it in my face, wherever.. she doesnt care. Once, i saw her, her friend, and Cory at this baseball field playing baseball with some younger kids and i got pretty mad about it. I forgave him and we went on with our relationship. He always compares me with her, like ill do something, and hell say, "Stephanie wouldnt do that!" then i get pissy, and he goes im sorry baby, im sorry blah blah blah... well, yesterday he was here, and i havent seen him for about a week, so i was talkin 2 him and he jus wanted to watch tv. Then left 20 minutes after he got here because I was being annoying. Well, now, i just learned that him, Stephanie, another girl, and another boy are at this other boys house. It really pisses me off because he is controlling, and I wasnt allowed to go to my friends house (a boys house), because he doesnt like the boy. So i said fine, i wont go. I really think hes cheating because he lets her flirt in my face and hes been acting really strange around me. So, do you think hes cheating? SHould i give him another chance? Should i call him? idk what to do because i dont want to overreact and i dont want to throw away a 9 month relationship! I would want to sit and talk with him but im scared he will hurt me physically and i dont want to lose him, im 14 and hes 15... what should i do?? (link)
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its grat that you dont want to lose a 9 month relationship but your better off dumping him!! look at the way he is treating you .. dump im and get it over with
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I like this kid named lets say bryan and i think he likes me back. I mean i think i know this because out of all my friends we asked him who he would go out with and he picked me. Does this mean he likes me? I want a relationship but don't want to be the one to ask him out. What should i do? (link)
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you should tell your friends to tell him to ask you out .. just say your reason is that your shy and yur afraid he would say no and he what he says to that .. hope i helped
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I just inserted my first tampon about an hour and 15 minutes ago. Well, half of the string is covered in blood and i still have blood dripping out into a pad. Why is it doing this? IS the tampon full already?? I used a playtex gentle glide regular if it helps. I also have a heavy flow. Should i take the tampon out or what? (link)
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hey i just started using a tampon to so Im as worried about it as you are .. if it is leaking like that then you need a bigger tampon .. if you have a heavy flow you just need a bigger one .. using little ones are good for startes but once you get used to it you should really use one that fits you with out having to change it every hour and a half
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Well okay, I've seen my boyfriend twice in my whole life. I met him like 2-3 weeks ago. And then we met up again at some fireworks like a week ago. He asked me out there. I didn't wanna say no though because like I was like hmm what the heck, Ill give him a chance. So the day after he asked me out. He went away for two weeks*he comes back this coming Sunday* and he calls like 3 times a day. He kinda gets annoying though and everyboy that knows him thinks he's annoying too. Also he is a jerk at times. Like he'll make fun of me and my music and stuff. But i noticed he has a really sweet side underneath it all. No one else knows about this sweet side of his. So when I tell them, they think im crazy. Another thing is that he cant even say "I love you!" When he says it, it just doesn't sound like he means it. Well.. i guess I love him, but it's just hard ya know? I have no clue what to do. So please help.
P.s. To add on to this all, he's friends with my x-bf and my x-bf wants us all to hang out but whenever me and my x are together we're all like close and kinda act like we're goin out. because I love him still *he broke up with me because I kinda cut because of him* and he apologized for it and said it was a mistake. But it's kinda late now.. i dont knwow.... we're all gonna hang out when my bf comes back. But im afraid its gonna be weird. Please help me.
Sorry this is sooo effin' longg. (link)
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Looks to me like your better going out with your ex boyfriend .. ask your self .. who has a boyfriend that you only see 2-3 time ever!!? even though he is sweet and calls you, you still get annoyed by it .. being in a relationship means you see eachother and you love being together .. seems to me you have better luck with you ec boyfrind honey
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is it normal to get a cold in the summer? because i think i have one i have a really soar throat and my nose is sooo stuffy! also what can i do to help get my nose unstuffed? (link)
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did you no that you dont get a cold from being cold? thats true getting a cold is like a bug that just goes around and basically everyone catches it. Its perfectically normal to get a cold in the summer. Or maybe its not a cold .. maybe your allergect to something but you just havent found out what yet? To get your nose unstuffed, you should probably try medicine if you arleady havent.
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I'm like a hugeeee tomboy. Like I wear long shorts and football jerseys. Im 14 and going into highschool, never had a boyfriend. Will i ever get a boyfriend. I mean, i dont wear makeup, and im big bulky and muscular. I want a bf, but i think maybe they are intimidated by me. Changing the way i am is NOT an option, i like who i am. PLEASE HELP. (link)
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have you ever seen the series "made" on mtv? your question is the exact same one as a girl who got made into becoming a girly girl. Sense you dont want to change i think you should go up to you guy friends and ask them hey what do you like in a girl and stuff and if you hear something maybe you can do to maybe attract your self to boys you should do it .. try and get advice from the guys you hang out with and you should be fine
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okay you all say will some of you say that if your ready to have to sex you should talk to the person about it well see i love this kidd lets call him joe like a friend adn he is so great and we plan on having sex we talk to eachother about it and it doesnt seem werid does that eman i am ready and also when me and my old boyfriedn wanted to it was weird talking to him about it but its not weird when i talk to joe what does this mean i am so confused i would really like some feedback becaseu i mean its weird me and joe have gone out before like on and off but i dont really love him but when my other boyfriends want to it feels so weird and unusual ahh very sconfused what should i do any advice???????????????????????????????///// (link)
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you are right "wow"!! here is my advice about your question .. it is great that you talk about having sex with this guy that you dont feel weird or you dont feel like he is forcing you or you dont feel uncomfortable...but ask your self these questions .. why do I want to have sex? is love your answer? well from your problem that you have explained .. you say that you dont really love him .. are you doing this so you can say you have already had sex? are you doing this for boy pleasure? if all of your answers come down to the word love .. meaning i want to have sex becuase its the love we have and the friendship we share .. sex is right IF YOU REALLY WANT IT.. my mother told me about sex and said you dont want to have it young but i dont no how old you are .. but if you are kinda of young to be having sex .. listen to this .. you have sex with the guy ok .. then he starts being weird maybe you did something wrong who knows it was your first time but then you feel like hey we had sex and your being mean to me .. you dont want to do that.. you want to make sure you save sex for someone you can depend on and who you truely love
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