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okay you all say will some of you say that if your ready to have to sex you should talk to the person about it well see i love this kidd lets call him joe like a friend adn he is so great and we plan on having sex we talk to eachother about it and it doesnt seem werid does that eman i am ready and also when me and my old boyfriedn wanted to it was weird talking to him about it but its not weird when i talk to joe what does this mean i am so confused i would really like some feedback becaseu i mean its weird me and joe have gone out before like on and off but i dont really love him but when my other boyfriends want to it feels so weird and unusual ahh very sconfused what should i do any advice???????????????????????????????/////
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you are right "wow"!! here is my advice about your question .. it is great that you talk about having sex with this guy that you dont feel weird or you dont feel like he is forcing you or you dont feel uncomfortable...but ask your self these questions .. why do I want to have sex? is love your answer? well from your problem that you have explained .. you say that you dont really love him .. are you doing this so you can say you have already had sex? are you doing this for boy pleasure? if all of your answers come down to the word love .. meaning i want to have sex becuase its the love we have and the friendship we share .. sex is right IF YOU REALLY WANT IT.. my mother told me about sex and said you dont want to have it young but i dont no how old you are .. but if you are kinda of young to be having sex .. listen to this .. you have sex with the guy ok .. then he starts being weird maybe you did something wrong who knows it was your first time but then you feel like hey we had sex and your being mean to me .. you dont want to do that.. you want to make sure you save sex for someone you can depend on and who you truely love
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hmm....well i think it's a good sign that you can talk about it, but you still havta talk about what would happen if you got pregnant and if you are both ready for that. I personally believe in waitin till your married to have sex, but I know it's hard to do that. If you're sure you want to have sex, it sounds to me like Joe would be a much better person to have it with, other than your bf's who you couldn't talk to about it. Hope it helped :
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ok..planning it isnt the part..having sex and planning it is different. People say things, but dont do the other. What you have to ask yourself is: Am i ready to have a kid if i do get one? Would i be able to take care of the kid? Am i ready to have a prosability to have a disease? Am i ready to break down to my mom and tell her that i might be pregnant? Am i old enough to have a kid? Think about it, and if you answer yes to all those questions..you god ahead and have sex, but if the answer is no, you know that your not ready. Hope i helped some
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Kristi
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ok.... first of all......... havoing sex.... its not planed..... it just happens.... talking about it isn't the same as doping it.. i mean would you be comfortable getting naked in front of him?? and possibly getting pregnat?? think. how old are you?
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evnt though you dont really love him you feel good around him cuz you may have of known him longer or that maybe hes nicer than the avrage guy but even though your ready and you wanna do it with him i dont think you should cuz you should break your virgenty (sp?) to someone you love well hope i helped and if you have ne more quistions just drop em in my inbox
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