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tomboyyy
I'm like a hugeeee tomboy. Like I wear long shorts and football jerseys. Im 14 and going into highschool, never had a boyfriend. Will i ever get a boyfriend. I mean, i dont wear makeup, and im big bulky and muscular. I want a bf, but i think maybe they are intimidated by me. Changing the way i am is NOT an option, i like who i am. PLEASE HELP.
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Hell no! Dont you DARE change yourself. You'll find someone for yourself, who likes u the way u are! DONT worry! And guys think it's cool ( i think ) when girls like the same things as they do.
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well everyone is telling you to look on the MTV made and the difference is that girl wanted change into a girly girl .. you dont. And the only way you are going to get a boyfriend is really if you do. You dont have to change much, just ur clothes hair and wear some makeup , you will still be yourself inside but just guys will find you more attracted
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have you ever seen the series "made" on mtv? your question is the exact same one as a girl who got made into becoming a girly girl. Sense you dont want to change i think you should go up to you guy friends and ask them hey what do you like in a girl and stuff and if you hear something maybe you can do to maybe attract your self to boys you should do it .. try and get advice from the guys you hang out with and you should be fine
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well i would never know the real answer because i am not a tomboy but if a guy really likes you for who you are they wont care what you wear or if you wear make up. Yes you will get a boyfriend you just have to find the one you like and go after him!
hope i helped,
<3 Lexie
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you will dont worry. Guys will start liking girls like that and will get less intimidated. also chances are you will become more and more girly through highschool. even if you dont youll find someone dont worry
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Be who you are, and if he's a gentlemen, he will love you for whats inside and not out.
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you will get a b/f just give it time........
everyone has their one special someone out there wauting to be found....
and trust me you can meet them in the most funny ways but will be worth the wait......
i hope i made you feel a lil better
~kashia
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well maybe the reason you can't get a boyfriend is because they see you as one of them or as one of their pals.. hopefully a guy withh fall for your personality and just open up to who u r on teh inside not on the outside.. hope i helped=]
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the reason you cant get a boy friend is because they consider you basicly as a boy they dont consider you girley or there type you basicly a guy with long hair to them [ if u have long hair but you know what i mean ] hope this helps <33 alyssa
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jsut find a guy who excepts who you are. and maybe a guy that even likes the tomboyish personality of you.
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if you saw the newest made( MTV ) , you can get tips from sam the man, to get guys attention, you cant be like them, that makes it a friendship. you gotta go gurly to get attention. ( this is from a guy so take it a little serious)
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Just because your a tomboy doesnt mean now one will ever liek you and if you like the way you are you shouldnt vhange. Boys probably like it that you hang out with them and do the dsame things as them. Boys are probably shy to talk to you about liking you. If you like a boy and you think he likes you its not againist the law to ask a boy out. I've asked a boy before. If they say no it doesnt mean you have to hate them. You could still be really good friends.
Hope I helped,
Blondatheart2194
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its just how boys feel abt u and dont worry because everyone finds that one special person when they get senior in high school or when u get to college
Seth:)
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you'll get a boyfriend.. you just have to be patient there is someone out there for everyone.. and you dont need to change for any guy if they dont like you for who you are then screw them.. but keep your eyes open there is a guy out there for you.. hope you find him soon!
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You should'nt have to change who you are for a boy. Don't worry you will totally find a guy that likes you for who you are. Just be pacient. If you think a boy is intiminated by you then you have to find a way to show him the sweet sensitive side of you. Like be nice and complement him and stuff. I REALLY HOPE I HELPED!~!~!
-BabiK
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You'll get a boyfriend. Don't worry. Not all guys go after the same thing. Make friends with guys, show that you have a girly side as well (and don't deny it, you do have a girly side. you're worrying about guys, after all). But whatever you do, don't waste all your time looking for a boyfriend or whining about how you don't have one. High school will go by way faster than you expect, and you want to make the most of it.
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I was much the same at your age,very Tom Boyish.I loved being that way too.I did grow out of it (some)eventually,but that when I was around 16.My first boyfriend was from out of town,he didn't really know my boyish background..Maybe that is where you should be looking? Just a thought.Hope it helps.
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dont change!! im 14 also and iv never had a b/f.. were still young (yet i hate to say it) dont worry, they right guy will come along for you
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I think boys are going to start to like you real soon because I know alot of girls who are tomboyish and they all have boyfriends. Alot of guys out there do like girls who are sporty...You should look for someone that shares the same interests as you. Chances are, theres someone out there that likes you already, you just don't know it. Be what you want to be, not what others want to see. :)
Much Love <3 -Johanna
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So don't change who you are. If you stay genuine and real, then eventually you'll find someone who cares for you the way you are.
If you were to change, you'd only find someone who liked the person you were pretending to be.
Many people going into high school have not had a relationship; take your time, enjoy all the new people you're going to meet, and try to find some you can be friends with. One of those people might be the right one for you!
Best of luck.
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As hard as it is to believe, 14 is way, way, WAY too young to worry about not having had a boyfriend. I can understand that you want a boyfriend, and I am telling you now that you will definitely have one in the future, but you shouldn't be worried about it at your age. Please try to enjoy being a teenager and just having fun with your friends, because trust me, by the time you're in your 20's boys will be on your mind so much that you'll wish you'd never even thought about them while you were younger! Good luck with everything and it is fantastic you like the way you are, not many people are fortunate enough to have such self assurance. Best of luck to you on finding someone, but don't fret about it, because you definitely will. :D
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Thats really good that your not gonna change for somebody else.........and your right, you are who you are,and someday mabye if it's not tomarrow or next week there will be a guy for you that loves you for who you are!!!
**Dont Give up!!**
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wow thats really cool that your not gonna change for anyone! of course you will get a boyfriend! someday i promise. it may not be in high school, but you will. join some clubs at your school and you might meet some guys there with your same interests! some guy will eventually love your tomboy style and your personality.
hope this helps!- :)
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In high school there will be a bigger selection of boyz. Dont change who you are cuz you sound really nice find someone who will love you just the way you are!
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Joining some kind of club you like may help
-iCaNrEaLLyHeLp11
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dont ever change who you are to get a bf..you have the right answer..dont change at all..dont do a thing! just be friednly and meet new people and eventually you will find the righr guy who likes you for ou..now that makes you a lot better right? finding a guy who likes you for the way U are...not because you changed.
Did i help you out at all? inbox me if you have more questions :)
-meliss
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