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Member Since: January 22, 2005
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I have not had sex but I have masturbated and fatasized about sexual things. I know I have sined and I feel so completly horible about it. I wish I had never done it. I did not know it was wrong at the time though. I pray and pray about it. Ive stoped doing all of that stuff but I still have that gut feeling that Im a really bad person. I have not had sex or a first kiss or even a boyfriend. I just feel so completly horribly horrible! How do I deel with this and will God ever forgive me for all the bad things Ive done such as the masterbating, Fatasizing, listing to music with sexual lyrics, and looking at some porn? I just feel like a horrible person and that I should just die and go straight to hell for it. What should I do? (link)
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http://www.chastity.com/chastity/index.php?id=7
i believe somewhere on that page tells you how to be forgiven.
also, don't feel so bad... many, many people have done worse.
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how can i tell if my boyfriend of 1 month (sat.) is going to break up with me. my friend is saying im over reacting. cause he doesnt always text people back. but lke all this 3 day weekend i barely talked to him. he either didnt text me back. or he didnt text me first. and im so scared hes going to break up with me.so i say im not going to text him or anything so he wont be annoyed but then it kills me. cause i want to talk to him so bad. and i get all these jealous urges. and im really working on them. so someone please tell me what are some signs he is going to breakup with me. am i thinking too much? or what? please! and thankyou!! (link)
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he might just need some space ... no guys like any clingy girls, i don't know if you're being clingy but with every guy it's a different definition.
don't worry too much until stronger signs occur that you can't miss.
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So, I used to be like a real girly girl. Like I wore all abercrombie and bright makeup. But Im starting to like the dark look now. Not like Gothic but like just black clothes. Im wearing ALOT of black makeup, my nails are black and My myspace has changed to all black and an intense song. I am pretty happy with this change but the only problem is my clothes. They are still all abercrombie and I don't like it. So does anyone know a good store that has like alot of black clothes? I don't want like black chains and all that, Cause I don't wanna go too intense. Like Just regular black Fashionable clothes? Thank you (link)
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Aeropostale usually has some cute basic shirts.
Charlotte Russe has adorable graphic tees, and so does Forever 21.
If you're looking for something more, I recommend Delia's, Zumiez, PacSun, or Hot Topic, but they're pretty expensive.
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Well i've liked this guy forever, And I am pretty sure he liked me too. We always flirted like non stop. But now summer is coming and I can tell we are trying to keep in contact with eachother (it's hard considering he doesn't have a phone) Anyway We talked online EVERYDAY Since schools let out. Then one night, I imed him and I was like "Omg joshh!" And he was like "yo" And then I was like "Omg, I just watched the scariest movie and I'm home alone and freaking out" And he was like "cool" And i was like "not really" And then he just signed off. It was so odd, he's never like that and he always says bye to me and i figured he would be there for me or something. So I just thought to myself, 'okay I don't know what i did for him to act like that so when he is ready to talk I will let him I/M me next time' Well, We haven't talked in 8 days because he Hasn't imed me. Honestly, he used to always i/m me until that ONE NIGHT I IMED HIM! What the heck did i do? And what the heck do i do?! help! Thanks so much (link)
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I agree with the other answer, something is probably going on in his life. My boyfriend of three months broke up with me because of family problems he didn't even tell me about until later, so guys don't usually explain what's wrong. They tend to throw things off without really meaning to, it's kind of what they feel they need to do. So yeah, when he's online just be like, Hey, long time no talk. and act casual. I don't suggest bringing up the topic of him not talking to you for a while until a little later into the conversation. hope I helped!
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im a 14/f and i know if youre gonna read this youre gonna be like wow
but i was wondering how i can convince my mom to have a sleep over with a guy
i probably wouldnt have it alone just us two cause i know my mom would say no right away
but im almost 15
and and seeems like all the other people get to
me and my mom have a pretty good relationship
but i was wondering how i can convice her?
oh and im not the type of girl that would be fucking him either haha
its just like a friend kinda thinggg. (link)
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All right, well since you're getting older, your mom's probably getting more worried.
You should tell her you're just friends with him, and he happens to be a guy. Joke with her or something, try to have some humor and say, "We're really good friends like me and my girlfriends. I'm gonna do his nails and he'll do mine." or something like that.
My mom thinks I'm already too old to even have a sleepover with a guy even if she KNOWS we're friends, and I'm a year or two younger than you, but she's still iffy.
I'm not guarenteeing your mother's going to agree with this, btu tell her she's allowed to have 'check-ups' on you guys if she doesn't believe you.
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okay so i started cutting myself in 8th grade and now im going into 10th. half the time i dont even know why i cut. i just get the worst urges and if i dont cut the urges just keep getting worse and worse. i really want to stop but i just cant. i hate that i cut myself but it seems like theres no way i can ever stop. and no im not doing it for attention. please help. (link)
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Okay, when you cut yourself, is it somehow pleasurable when blood oozes out? Kind of morbid, but that's how it is.
I used to do that in sixth, but now I'm in eighth, and I think about it sometimes, and I think about how horrible it was. I mean, it wasn't for attention, but think about it.
Do you think it's really good? What if you get scars? Any time you feel the urge to cut, just out of nowhere, just stop yourself from getting whatever you use to cut (and if it's your nails, clip them.)
There are a lot of bad consequences when you do this and don't stop. It might seem hard, but you really have to think before you do so, and if you don't, realize that you're putting a sharp object to your wrist or arm or whatever, and think about how you're torturing yourself, physically and mentally.
I hope I helped, somewhat. =P
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well see ive been with my boyfriend 4 almost 8 months. I love him 2 death. I hope he loves me i mean he tells me he does but i dont like him goin to the mall or anywhere without me. im afraid that he might find someone else.
idk im jealous i guess. will someone please help/
WHAT DO I DO??? (link)
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I was just like you. You're totally insecure but don't go overboard or let him see it. If he found another girl he likes, he'd let you go, but if he really means 'I love you', then believe him. Not ALL guys are bad guys.
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im 21,but when comes to talking to boys im always blur.how can i attarct their attention?what kind of topics i can talk to them?
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Be sexy. Heh.
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if I TAKE MY TIME WITH MY EX DO U THINK WE COULD GET BACK TOEGHTHER? (link)
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Why did yuo break up in the first place?
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I just started talking to this guy. I thought he was going to be ok to hang out with, but he knows I have a BF, and the other day he started to kiss me. It kinda my fault in a way though, he was crying so I hugged him and kissed his forehead. Then he stoped crying and started to kiss me. I dont know how to make him leave me alone, and im afraid he will bother me at school.
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Well, you DO have a boyfriend, but you should tell him to quit it...or, dump one of them. Which do you like more, personality, attitude?
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My birthday is coming up soon and I was just wondering if anybody had any ideas on what we could do for fun...I'm turning 14 if that helps at all!! =) I rate for good ideas!! =)
signed,
Birthday Girl (link)
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Pool Party? Hawaiian. Have a buffet, are you inviting boys? If so, DEFINTELY have a buffet!
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I'm 16/M... i never had sex before (im waiting til im married) but i get erections WAY too much...like 6 times an hour and its really annoying, i get them when im not even thinking about anything close to sexual. i dunno what my problem is but i was wondering if its normal or not? please resond. (link)
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Normal! Don't worry. And I'm waiting until I'm married too to have sex.
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I'm like a hugeeee tomboy. Like I wear long shorts and football jerseys. Im 14 and going into highschool, never had a boyfriend. Will i ever get a boyfriend. I mean, i dont wear makeup, and im big bulky and muscular. I want a bf, but i think maybe they are intimidated by me. Changing the way i am is NOT an option, i like who i am. PLEASE HELP. (link)
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Hell no! Dont you DARE change yourself. You'll find someone for yourself, who likes u the way u are! DONT worry! And guys think it's cool ( i think ) when girls like the same things as they do.
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hey i want to pierce my belly button by myself and i want to no where u could by a clamp and how to do it i cant go to a professional because my mom doesnt want it done thanx (link)
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Careful -
You can get a body infection. But if you're really this positive, ask a professional 18 or older, sometimes they have it at Claire's in the mall...
But i think they only pierce ears.
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does anyone know of a site where i can get free music without having to download anything?
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starlightmks.com
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What should I do when my girlfriend gets HYPER? (link)
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Go with her! LOL, but try to like calm her down without it being to obvious.
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I like this guy who likes my friend... but she doesn't like him. What can I do to make him think of me that way?? =/ I'll rate high for quick effective answers, I'm hanging out with him and a few others tonight!!!! ThankSSSS! (link)
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Laugh, and act cute. :)
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What's the best way to tell a girl how you feel about her? School's over so I can't tell her there. I could get her screen name from one of her friends and tell her over IM but I'm not sure if that's a good idea. Please help. I'm 14 and a guy. (link)
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Well, you can write a note to her. :) That's always touching. Or ask her friends, and stuff...send her somethign. Girls LOVE that!
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I'm super smart and I've even been moved up a few grades but I can't join certain websites because of age. What should I do? (link)
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Well, I hate it when it happens. But your going to maybe have to put the year your in grade. Like, if you're in 7th, Say you're born in 1992. That's 12 years old. You may have to lie about it. You could also contact the owners of the site and explain it, except I doubt they'll believe it. So just fake the year. I know it's bad...but, you know.
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How exactly do you hook up? And what is it? (link)
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Hooking up is either hanging with a cute guy/girl, or hooking up with your friends. Like if your friend says, "So, a few friends and I are hooking up after school today. Wanna come?" It means hang out.
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