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sleepover
im a 14/f and i know if youre gonna read this youre gonna be like wow
but i was wondering how i can convince my mom to have a sleep over with a guy
i probably wouldnt have it alone just us two cause i know my mom would say no right away
but im almost 15
and and seeems like all the other people get to
me and my mom have a pretty good relationship
but i was wondering how i can convice her?
oh and im not the type of girl that would be fucking him either haha
its just like a friend kinda thinggg.
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As you notice, your mother is concerned if you will do anything other than hang out. To convince your mom tell her many times that you will not do anything other than hang out. Tell her what your going to do. The first time going to a boy's house at this age, mother's will freak so tell your mother everything your going to do. This will let your mother understand and she might change her mind. Explain!
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All right, well since you're getting older, your mom's probably getting more worried.
You should tell her you're just friends with him, and he happens to be a guy. Joke with her or something, try to have some humor and say, "We're really good friends like me and my girlfriends. I'm gonna do his nails and he'll do mine." or something like that.
My mom thinks I'm already too old to even have a sleepover with a guy even if she KNOWS we're friends, and I'm a year or two younger than you, but she's still iffy.
I'm not guarenteeing your mother's going to agree with this, btu tell her she's allowed to have 'check-ups' on you guys if she doesn't believe you.
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It is highly unlikely that your Mom will allow you to have a sleepover with a guy. My eldest daughter is 20 and I will not allow her to have her boyfriend in with her over night. He is allowed to stay but in a separate room. I know that they are together but this is my house and she obeys my rules. I also have a younger child to consider in all this. Having said all that though, your Mom may be very open-minded and will allow it to happen. However, the chances are extremely slim. There is nothing I can say that will enable you to convince her to allow it so you may have to be a little more patient before it happens.
Perhaps if you had a sleepover with a lot of people in the same room which would be more acceptable.
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Im not sure how to take the HaHa, but i wouldnt jump into an overnite thing, have a late night get together with a few friends, make smores, have a campout theme, scare each other, that way you and your friend get to spend some time and have a great time, dont see it as the end of the world that you cant be like others see it as a chance to do something different. Brie
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