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soo will ya help me?
well see ive been with my boyfriend 4 almost 8 months. I love him 2 death. I hope he loves me i mean he tells me he does but i dont like him goin to the mall or anywhere without me. im afraid that he might find someone else.
idk im jealous i guess. will someone please help/
WHAT DO I DO???
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The situation you're in is not that odd. i've been in the same situation. in fact it was only a few weeks ago i was feeling the same way you are now. the only way i could find to get over it was to ask myself if i trusted him. did i trust him to be faithful. do you think he cares enough about you not to look seriously at anyone else. if you can answer yes to that question then you have nothing to worry about, but you may need to remind yourself of it every now and then. if you can't honestly say yes to that question, then maybe you should think about a new relationship, or trying to get closer to the guy till you can say yes.
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well that was the way with my girlfriend she tought the same as me if he says he loves u and he means it he wont leave u
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Well, everyone else has given you some very good advice, so I only have one more thing to add. If you act jealous and over-possessive, and keep your boyfriend on a short leash, you might end up driving him away. Let him have some freedom. If he loves you, he'll stick with you.
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I was just like you. You're totally insecure but don't go overboard or let him see it. If he found another girl he likes, he'd let you go, but if he really means 'I love you', then believe him. Not ALL guys are bad guys.
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First off, please stop placing numbers in replacement of words that you don't wish to spell out. It's a lot easier to spell out the word than it is to abbreviate it or replace it with something else. Trust me. It looks a lot better.
Now to the advice: If you & your boyfriend have been together for 8 months, then why are you jealous? Obviously he loves you if he's stuck around this long. If he didn't love you, he would've broke off the relationship after a few weeks rather than stick around. You need to trust your boyfriend. I'm sure he would trust you, so you need to do the same. You owe him that much, right?
Just let him go to the mall by himself with his guys & if nothing bad happens, then you know you can trust him [you should anyways] & your relationship can return to normal. You don't have jealous issues, you have trust issues. There is quite the difference, sweetheart.
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Ok well you should let him have his freedom ,but don't worry about him dumping you because if he says he loves you! You should believe him and trust him enough not to be worried he is going to find someone else! Hope I helped!
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ok i think ya need to let lose a lil and alow him to go places without you unless its to disneyland or somthing lol......hope i helped bye
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