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how to down load lime wire songs to ipod (link)
I'm going to assume that because you have an ipod, you have itunes. open it. simply click and hold the song you want on limewire. drag it to the bottom screen where it shows the itunes window. when your mouse get on it (make sure you don't let go of the left button on the mouse) it will automatically open itunes. then move your mouse over to a playlist. it will show up on the playlist, and then you can simply download it from there. It may take a try or two to get the song to register, but that's how i've always done it so it should work for you.


Hi, i have had a girlfriend for a couple monthes now and i think it is time for us to move a little further in our relationship. So i wanted to get her wet and give her some pleasure, but how could i do this outside of the panties? And i am seeing her soon i would like to try anything new next time i see her. So any suggestions on how i can give her some pleasure?, anything will help, thanks, prefered experienced answers (link)
fairly easy answer. if you want outside the panties, then try rubbing, soft at first and watch how she responds, if she's ok with it, then try faster, and harder. to know what she likes most you have to watch her, but rubbing works really well, not for too long though cause after a while it starts to hurt, but ten seconds then give hera break then again. trust me she'll love it.


I am 14 almost 15 and I'm a girl who just started high school this year ya a freshman and this kid mike I met him at my elementary school but only talked to him once so he decided to sit with me and my friends at lunch this year and I have decided I lke him, but I keep asking him who he likes and he says oh a couple people and you dont know them either so I dont think he likes me but at lunch he sits across from me and always laughs at my jokes and flirts with me I cant tell if he likes me or hes just being a guy?? I need some good advice!!!

I REALLY LIKE THIS KID THOUGH!! (link)
ok first off of course he's not going to say he likes you. this guy sounds kinda shy. most guys are, even if they don't realize it. his vagueness means he probably does like you. he says other people you don't know, that means either it is you, or it's someone you know and he knows you like him and doesn't want to hurt your feelings. from what you said there's at least a 90% chance it's you he likes. if you want some proof about whether he likes you or is just a flirt, look at how he is around other girls. see how he acts around them and compare it to how he acts around you, and you'll have your answer.


I've never made out before and I'm worried about and I really don't know how to do it.
Do you have any tips?
And if you don't mind me asking, what was the first time you made out like?
Thanks in advance, xxx (link)
first off, i know what youu're going through. i had the same issue with my boyfriend. i was nervous as anything. the only advice i can offer is just follow his lead. DO NOT use a lot of tongue unless he does. if he sticks his tongue in yor mouth, massage his tongue with your. one of the most akward things about it is not knowing what to do with your hands. rest one on the back of his head or neck. maybe wrap your other one around his back. the main thing is not to try to hard. you really need to just relax. the main thing really is to just follow his lead


ugh. my parents think im some good girl who knows nothing but i do a lot behind their back and im proud of it. but they make me so mad because they dont let me do things that other kids get to do. ive talked to them about it but they just say ill thank them when i get older. so im always trying to go to friends houses casue their parents let us go out. but what can i do to stop being so mad at them or to make them let me go out more?

15/f btw. (link)
first off i know what your going through. just about exactly. i'm fifteen too. my mom used to be majorly overprotective. not sure what made her back off, but she did. i think she just realized i'm growing up. parents are going to be protective. it just means they love you. i know that's cheesy, but it's true. it doesn't make them right. you're growing up, and they need to realize it. from the sounds of it, you manage to do the things you really want to do. there's not a whole lot you can do about them being overprotective. they need to come to grips with that on their own. until they do, they're going to keep treating you like you're three. the only advice i can give you is to try and keep your life going as honestly as you can, though that can be fairly difficult at times


well see ive been with my boyfriend 4 almost 8 months. I love him 2 death. I hope he loves me i mean he tells me he does but i dont like him goin to the mall or anywhere without me. im afraid that he might find someone else.
idk im jealous i guess. will someone please help/
WHAT DO I DO??? (link)
The situation you're in is not that odd. i've been in the same situation. in fact it was only a few weeks ago i was feeling the same way you are now. the only way i could find to get over it was to ask myself if i trusted him. did i trust him to be faithful. do you think he cares enough about you not to look seriously at anyone else. if you can answer yes to that question then you have nothing to worry about, but you may need to remind yourself of it every now and then. if you can't honestly say yes to that question, then maybe you should think about a new relationship, or trying to get closer to the guy till you can say yes.


how do you know if a girl likes you? i really like this girl and i dont know if she likes me back. what do girls do if they like a guy? any signs?
advice would most likely be appreciated.
thanks in advance. (link)
You want to know the main reason guys can't read a girls mind, is because they try and lump us all in together. each girl reacts her own way, there is no fail safe way to tell. some girls will take the kindergarten route and pumch you, others won't talk to you, they'll avoid you completely. some really bold ones may come up and tell you to your face that they like you, but those girls are hard to find. Personnally i try and make friends with the guys i like. there is no real way to read the minds of all girls. if you get to know one really well, you might get an idea, but it doesn't work for all of them.


i'm 17/f. if i have a boyfriend, and we've been together for a long time, is it cheating if i hold hands with another boy? (link)
It depends on how you think of this other boy. do you consider him just a friend, or are there other feelings there. if there are then either follow them and break up with your boyfriend, or stop holding this boys hand, because it can, and probably will lead to other things. but if you do consider this other boy just a friend, then holding his hand isn't cheating, but i would recommend telling your boyfriend about it, so he isn't surprised if he ever sees you two together.


Was it bad for me to ask my boyfriend to get condoms? So that he could try them on. He said he knows how to do it but he never tried.. So I made him buy some to practice putting on so he doesn't rip it or anything.

It seems a little weird.

Can the condom tear when you put it on? (link)
It is not ridiculous at all to want your boyfriend to practice. in fact it seems like a very good idea. if he has a problem with it, ask him how it would be if the condme did break. is it worth it to pratice a little to avoid something that huge. Condems can tear when you put them on, speaking from experience, somethings that can help are praticing like you told him, and gettting good condems. don't try to save a little money, get the good ones. i recommend trojan.




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