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So on my Myspace profile I have a long list of my favorite music.

An I'm having a hard time finding an HTML code to make it not stay into a paragraph and all listed

It's like this:

All Time Low The Beatles Blink 182 Bloodhound Gang Boston CKY David Bowie Fall Out Boy Frank Zappa Green Day I Set my Friends on Fire Jamie Kennedy James Blunt Jimi Hendricks John Lenin Joe Satriani Led Zeppelin Linkin Park The Medic Droid Metallica Ok Gp Panic at the Disco Paul McCartney Ryan Higa The Slip Smashing Pumpkins Smosh Sublime Three Days Grace Vampire Weekend Three Days Grace We The Kings Weezer Weird Al Yellow Card

When I want it like this:

All Time Low
The Beatles
Blink 182
Bloodhound Gang
Boston
CKY
David Bowie
Fall Out Boy
Frank Zappa .. etc

But without a scroll box

So don't just tell me I need to find a code. Can you post one or give me a link to a site that has that code?

kthnxbi :D

oh thats an easy one. :) after each band put < br >
(with out the spaces).
viola!

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So i met this guy like three months ago at a pool hall and he had one of his friends come over and ask me for my number. i gave it to him because he was amazingly sexy, and he texted me later on that night and we made plans for the next day. the next day i realized that i had forgotten to ask him his name. when he told me what it was i realized that i knew him all along because my dad sponsors him in racing. we hung out later that night and he was really sweet. we hung out for a couple of weeks and i heard that he had a girlfriend. she went to my school and i didn't like her so i was like whatever. well after about two or three months of hanging out with him we had sex, and he turned into a tool bag. this wouldn't be a problem if he didn't make me care about him,i care so much and cant help it. the week after his girlfriend and i started hanging out. i kept it from her for a really long time. she started to open up to me and it turns out that he cheats on her all the time. they have been together for five months now and he has cheated on her more times then i can count, and he tells her that she is fat all the time and she needs to go to the gym. he really makes her feel like crap. he also hits her not like really bad but bad enough. like your boyfriend shouldn't hit you. when she tells him she doesn't like it when he cheats on her he says "beggers cant be chooseers." he doesn't care about her at all and is a really big tool. she crys all the time and beets her self up about it. like one time he told her that he would break up with her if she didn't give him head, and she has never done it cause she thinks its gross, but she did it anyways cause she was afraid that he was going to leave her. i don't know what to do i tried telling her to leave him but she wont. she thinks i want her to break up with him so i can have him but i don't and she just wont listen. she is amazingly pretty and not fat at all. help me please.

shit. this kinda happened to me... minus the sex part. (being i'm only 14) i went APE SHIT on his ass. we're still friends, and he changed a lot, but not all guys are the same. if you really want to change it, report him. and if your friend doesn't like the idea, well, what else are you supposed to do? even if you loosed her as a friend in the end, you know you helped her.
:)
hope i helped!

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Hi.
I am 15/f.
I have been having these "attacks" recently. I do not have any illnesses that I am aware of other than an unknown tremor disorder and I am also lactose intolerant. Other than that, I am pretty healthy. I work out regularly and I eat healthier than an average teenager.

Description of the attacks:
- Extreme and sharp stomach pain that just comes randomly and unexpectedly.
- Next, I start getting really dizzy
- Then, I start shaking beyond uncontrollably.

I don't really know whether its because of anxiety (I am not a nervous or shy girl but I do hold a lot of stress) or because of eating too much sugar.

I was just seeing if anyone has had this problem before. I am going to the doctor but I just want your opinion first!

it's an anxiety attack from stress. i actually read a book that was fiction about it. like "the boyfriend list" or something..
in the book she saw a therapist. (mainly because her parents thought she as lesbian) and after the finished seeing her, the attacks stopped.
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my friend wants me to copy her videos on youtube, but i dont know how. she needs me to copy them so they can be seen more. is their any way that i can do that?


you copy and paste that anywhere you want.

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okay sorry in advance for this being so long..
but i really need help with something.
i'm a 13 year old girl and i feel very..worthless right now.i've never had a boyfriend..never kissed anyone.or anything.
the most i've done was hug one.one.
i'm in love with this boy that doesn't really know what i'm like..but he doesn't like me much because as far as he knows,i hate him.and i strongly believe he hates me too.
although maybe he doesn't,i'm not sure.
i keep getting these signs that we're going to date soon.
i keep taking quizes and such that say "his name will start with an a" or "you'll have a boyfriend soon" or something stupid like that you know?
and my friend keeps telling me that it'll happen too.
but me,being unexpeirienced,am kind of nervous about the whole situation.
but i can really really see myself with him and i really want to be with him.
i just realized today how much i like him..
can someone please help me cope with this?
any advice is MUCH appriciated..
:/

okay, let me just tell you this:

you are 13!!

you have your WHOLE life left.

weather you get that guy, or someone COMPLETELY different, you WILL get the first kiss.

you WILL get a guy you would KILL for you.

you WILL get a guy who will get the chills any time he sees you.

trust me.

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hope i helped!!

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16/f. Never had a real boyfriend or real kiss. Yeah, I feel pretty good about myself. Not. The worst part is, though, that everyone always tells me "Oh you're so pretty and nice" or whatever and yet, guys don't even look at me in any way that says "more than friends." I have this guy friend that I have sooo much in common with, and I've liked him for almost two years and I just don't understand why he doesn't like me back; I've been obsessing over it for days now and it's just an enigma to me. I mean, I'm literally the ONLY person I know who has no one who likes them; all of my friends have multiple guys that like them, and since I've started high school, not one guy has been interested in me. I'm not kidding. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. ANy ideas on what I could do to actually make guys want to be more than friends? Or at least any ideas to make me stop constantly thinking about this and feeling so upset; I just feel like I'm missing something important.

I had this same exact problem.

All you need to do to this is you need to act a little bit more flirty. Flaunt what you've got. Wear more skirts. Now, I am not saying go full on slutty, but like I said, flaunt what you've got.

DO NOT change your personallity. Whoever makes you change is a low life, honestly.

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Hope I Helped!!

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i always have these couple of friends that are just basically.. fun suckers. like when i act like myself.. im not a pushover but im nice, and i hate when people try to take advantage of that.. like they'd just act in a way that wouldn't make me feel good. like they'd act like i wasnt worthy or something. like at lunch occasionally i'd ask for fries and like nobody gives me not even one except for one of my friends.. when 2 of the girls at that table always takes my fries at the end of the period without me even letting her do that! the girl who sits next to me she always gives that girl from before and another girl fries.. even when they have their own lunches.. and when i forgot my lunch she didnt give me any. i dont get it.. i mean im thinking that they just arent my friends.. cause the girl who'd give me fries also sometimes wasnt the ideal friend i'd want.. cause she'd just be in these mood swings and stuff sometimes and that really pisses me off because its not as much fun.. when i have problems i dont act all grumpy for a day.. and i hate when people do that! and like those 'friends' i see them alot.. and the year is over next thursday so its not that easy to make new friends. any advice? because then i forgot one of my friend's instrument that she played. i just really thought it was flute and forgot that it was the trumpet. and she was mad at me for like the rest of the day.. except for math when we were all in a group.. and im like "hello? you were just mad at me before and you didnt even apologize or anything" that happens sometimes.. like first we get in a small fight and then later they totally forget about it when i dont. then it starts again.. like that girl cause i've known her for 2 years now like considers me her friend but she doesnt act like it all the time. i hate when friends keep secrets from each other.. its stupid. sometimes i ask what happens if i dont know.. like something happened to this guy and he got suspended at school and she knew what happened but wouldnt tell me.. she told some other girl she said she doesnt like but she hangs around her alot. should i just act like i dont like them when i do like being around them occasionally? or am i just too nice that i wont do that.. also what if they dont want to be my friends back? i mean i have other friends but i dont see them during school often. ive even talked to that girl how i feel that she isnt very supportive at times.. she has alot of bad days.. and shes not the only one with problems but you dont see me all grumpy and stuff on some days.

UGH. and in home ec im only in one group because one of the girls there is my friend, and another is okay, and another girl just acts sooo fake like shes trying to be all preppy and popular when she isnt, and the other is bossy at times and you arent sure if she likes you or not. i hate friends like that but.. are these really my friends? they're just my cooking group.. and i hate being bossed around and stuff but sometimes i dont have comebacks and stuff.. so yeah. i dont hold grudges but i also dont forget things people have done in the past and it just always stays in my mind.

HELP PLEASE for like everything!
are these really my friends & what else can i do to help myself?

Okay, first off, you sound really sweet!! Haha you are really nice, but many a little TOO nice, and I think thats your soft spot. What I would say to do, since I have been through this MANY of times, if to wait until the end of the year. Just put up with it and then, forget about them during the summer. When you get back into school next year, just make new friends. But you always have to be careful about "who" you choose friends with. You don't want to fall into the same type of friends, because then, you will be in the same situation!

Now, you really need to take a stand, and tell these people how you feel. The next time you feel that you are being "pushed", tell them.
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Hope I Helped!!

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how do i make out? i can't just "go with the flow." please help meeee! im so nervous. 29/m

Excuse me? Okay, I tryed to help you. No one can tell you HOW to make out. It HAS to com naturally to you at one point. Hell, you 29 and you don't know? You need help, in more than just one area.
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Bite Me.

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it's going to be long, but please read; i'm desperate!
i'm jackie. 14/f. i was best friends with this girl "jaime". then she just started being a bitch. i knew who she liked, so at this party, i started flirting with "joseph" and his friends. but, they turned me down! they just walked away! so i went and had some fondu and everything was better. but my question is: what's wrong with me? is it because i have kankles? a big nose? helpppp!!!!!!!

Hunn, nothing is wrong with YOU. It's whats the matter with THEM. They obviously didn't want a girl thats probably really nice, and I am guessing very beautiful. I know what you thinking. "Me, beautiful?" Yes. YOU!

Now, you also don't know that they did it on purpose. You really need to find out the story if you can. Who knows? Maybe it wasn't on purpose, and you can start a relationship!
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Hope I Helped!!

p.s. Fondue is always the best! :]

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can i hear your story? do you regret it? thoughts/feeling now? still in a relationship with that guy? or was it a one night stand? I'm just curiouss pleasee && thank you for readingg and respondingg =]

I am 14 and I am a virgin. Yeah, you have to wait forever for someone and you will never know when, but when you do have it with someone you know that you will be with forever the feeling is probably more amazing. I came close to having it once, but I quickly realized that if I do this, I know I will be known as a slut.
If you are thinking about it, don't give it five minutes. Think about it long and hard. What are the consequences? What are the rewards? Will you ever see him again after this moment? You need to know the answers to those questions before you even come near a penis.
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Hope I Helped!!

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i want to get my eyebrows done. but the problem is my mom thinks my eyebrow are fine and she won't let me tweez, thread or even wax them! what should i do to convice her to let me get my eyebrows done?

Sit down with her and say "Mom, this isn't to impress anyone, or even to impress me. I want to know what it's like to do this, and I hope that you appreciate my decision."
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Hope I Helped!!

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My whole life I've been told and thought I'm stupid. Because I'm not school-book smart. I don't get good grades in the "smart subjects" like science, math and so on. I am so sick of believing this. I'm a different type of smart. I know I can make something of myself.

I am especially good at 3 things; public speaking & reaching out to people, languages (I know 4 different languages and intend on learning several more) and I sympathize, more than anything. People always turn to me because of that, I long to help. More than anything.

I've researched at least a hundred different professions in my attempt to find a major that will equip me with the right tools to help save the innocent from the corrupt and ultimatley change the world. I need a profession that will make me come alive. I have a picture of myself speaking infront of thousands of people, touching their hearts, or working at a homless shelter, somehow helping those who have been used, or anything of that kind. But in BIG levels, it wouldn't mean anything to me as a doctor or anything like that. It's not the kind of thing that would make me come alive, it wouldn't matter to me. I don't want to help one person at a time, I want to help thousands.. at once. I want to do something that would end homelessness and stimulate world peace!

I am compassionate and am able to provide stability in people's lives when they are shaken up. I am 16 years old, female, and more than anything.. I want to do something with my life.

No one believes in me, because I am not suited for the typical "good jobs" I will never have the grades to become a Lawyer, Doctor, Journalist or any of the sort.

Help me, what can I become? And how do I get there?

Thank you so much! And please, don't read this and think "what a dreamer, everyone thinks they'll save the world.. this one doesn't even have good enough grades.. she doesn't even know how to spell" Please, I have enough people thinking that way, if you can't help me, fine. But I'm begging you, don't think like that.

Let me start off saying I am in awe that you feel this way.

Forget the people who say no one can change the world by themselfs. Martin Luther King JR. changed the world by his powerful speeches and his power of will. You, sweetheart, can be that, as long as you forget the people that say you can't, and remember the people who say you WILL. This is not a matter of maybe, or even probably. This is a matter of you will accomplish great things.

I only can hope for people that think the way you do. If we had people that thought like this, my, we would be in a world without international problems. People need the help from others that can think of great ideas. Book smart people don't impact the world as greatly as people like you.

Now, on to the advice, eh? Well, start off in working in homless shelters. Organize a speech in your school. I bet, right now, if this got recognised, and got past on to news stations, you would have already touched so many hearts.

You already HAVE touched so many hearts.

Just count this as one.

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Hope I Helped!!

p.s. Thank you.

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i really like this boy and i know for a fact he likes me too. the thing is i get really insecure when he flirts with me. he'll try to hug me or hold my hand and i just feel stupid because my friends are looking at me. i REALLY like this boy and i don't want to miss out on a good thing. honestly, i've rejected him so many times that i'm lucky he's still interested. how can get overmy inhibitions and admit to my friends (and him) that i actually like him?

Just tell them. And him!! Not only will you get a lot off of your chest, you will also let them know. But I have to admit, being a friend of most couples, and never being one my self, we will ALWAYS tilt our heads and say "Awwww!!". It's something you need to get used to.
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Does anyone know any hair cutting place with absolutely skilled hair cutters and is not expensive?

My hair is absolutely terrible so i need the best and only the best but my dad is paying so..

Like some places they stick like so much stuff in your hair and when i go home it isnt' the same because i payed to get my hair cut, not buy 10 more products to go WITH THE HAIR.

And how do you know if the place isn't good?

i live in Canada

Gene Jaurez is a good place. At 50$ it's a little spendy, but you get THE best hair cut EVER. And they teach you how to style it without products.
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can you get pregnant if they didnt pop your cherry and your still a virgin?

Nopeee.
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ok i heard this myth that if an elevator breaks down and then when it starts to fall, if you jump before it hits the first floor, then you wont get hurt. is that true?

Actually, no. When you jump, it's moving down, then you hit your head against the ceiling. Haha, it happened to my uncle.
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hello
does anyone have any songs that are about freindship and knowing your always there for eachother?
i would like soemthing that is eather alteritive, or country.

hugs and kisses! thankssss =]

Make new friends, but keep the old, one is silver and the others gold!!
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Uh, SPONGEBOB!! Ahh I really don't know, but those are just a few random ones.
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im getting my hair cut somewhat like this:
http://i7.tinypic.com/4trlq1d.jpg...
and well i dont know where to go

im scared that if i go to a crappy place, they'll mess up my hair
where should i go?
or how do i found out a good place that can cut hair like this?

if it helps any, i live in st.louis, missouri..

please & thank you :]

Gene Jaurez!! They gave me my hair cut, and MAN, they did an excelent job. They probably have at least 3 in your place, so go a head and search it!!
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i hope this doesnt sound confusing...

lets just say ive been going out with someone for a little while now, because she asked me out the night after she found out her boyfriend was cheating on her.

she and i dated a little bit before she went out with the guy who cheated on her, and she broke up with me because she said it felt a bit weird going out with me because weve known each other for so long.

Now, we're going out again, but i have trouble keeping a conversation going... I dont know what it is about her, it's just that there's something about her that makes me have to think very hard before saying something... it's weird, I know, but she's just so quiet sometimes and it's like you never know what she's thinking.

I guess Im just kinda scared that she thinks im boring and quiet, and im not. once we find something to talk about, we can talk for a really long time, its just that sometimes I have absolutely no idea what to say.

I like her a lot, and I do not want to mess this up. PLEASE HELP ME.

First of all, thats really sweet of you. I'm sure that she feels the same way. You KNOW you like her when you feel that you have to think before you say somthing to her. You don't realize it, but you probably think that you don't want to loose her again. If you do, she might brake up with you. But one thing that you might want to talk to her about is how you feel about this situation. This is very common among people (usually teens) that feel like they could spend their WHOLE lifes with that person.
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What Are some reasons why your period could be delayed besides being pregnant

Well, if you started you period within a year ago, your body is still getting used to the process, and will either come in a few days, or, not at all!!
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