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One of my really good friends.
So i met this guy like three months ago at a pool hall and he had one of his friends come over and ask me for my number. i gave it to him because he was amazingly sexy, and he texted me later on that night and we made plans for the next day. the next day i realized that i had forgotten to ask him his name. when he told me what it was i realized that i knew him all along because my dad sponsors him in racing. we hung out later that night and he was really sweet. we hung out for a couple of weeks and i heard that he had a girlfriend. she went to my school and i didn't like her so i was like whatever. well after about two or three months of hanging out with him we had sex, and he turned into a tool bag. this wouldn't be a problem if he didn't make me care about him,i care so much and cant help it. the week after his girlfriend and i started hanging out. i kept it from her for a really long time. she started to open up to me and it turns out that he cheats on her all the time. they have been together for five months now and he has cheated on her more times then i can count, and he tells her that she is fat all the time and she needs to go to the gym. he really makes her feel like crap. he also hits her not like really bad but bad enough. like your boyfriend shouldn't hit you. when she tells him she doesn't like it when he cheats on her he says "beggers cant be chooseers." he doesn't care about her at all and is a really big tool. she crys all the time and beets her self up about it. like one time he told her that he would break up with her if she didn't give him head, and she has never done it cause she thinks its gross, but she did it anyways cause she was afraid that he was going to leave her. i don't know what to do i tried telling her to leave him but she wont. she thinks i want her to break up with him so i can have him but i don't and she just wont listen. she is amazingly pretty and not fat at all. help me please.
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do WHATEVER you can to get her to breakup with him.
he treats her so bad. thats insane. i dont even get why she would still be with him when he makes her do that AND he hits her??!? BULLL!!!
heres what you should do:
you and her set up this plan ! :
you call him and be like hey im coming over. hed be like YEAH!
when you get there, have her call him and say hey i have to drop off something. so shell come.
then hed want you to hide, and be like okay! when she comes pop out and both of you like scream at that d-baggg!! (hahha)
then what she had to bring was all his shit that was his. then dump it out on his bed, and just leave. then she can see what kind of guy he really is, and shell know that you dont want him!
you dont have to do this. youd have to seriously have balls haha. but i would do it. shoe him he cant win. hes obviosuly not that scary and cool if hes afraid shell breakup with him. show him whos boss.
goodluck! (:
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wow, this is isane. well the only thing you can do is wait for her to realize that he is a complete asshole. and he dosent deserve her. i mean she cant be happy with him ? you should ask her, or take her out one night have her meet somoene else, show her what real happiness is. because this guy is a complete jerk. she needs to realize and see what shes putting herself through.
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I wouldn't be with this guy any longer. If he is abusing his girlfriend, he might do it to you. I would call him out on it and ask him why he's doing it or whatever, and, i would quit talking to him. No guy should treat a girl that way. Good luck!
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So, it sounds to me as if he's mentally & physically abusing her. She is probably looking past all of his bad qualities and focusing on what she likes about him. If she doesn't listen to your advice on leaving him, I would take her out and introduce her to some new guys that you know would treat her a lot better. If she does start talking to other guys that treat her nice, it might make her feel awkward because she is use to being treated like crap. If that happens, let her know how guys are suppose to treat their girlfriends. I think that he keeps her around to make hisself feel better & he is probably scared of being alone. If nothing works for her, then talk to the guy. You need to knock some sense into his peanut brain and let him know he can mentally hurt someone by doing and saying that stuff to her. ♥
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shit. this kinda happened to me... minus the sex part. (being i'm only 14) i went APE SHIT on his ass. we're still friends, and he changed a lot, but not all guys are the same. if you really want to change it, report him. and if your friend doesn't like the idea, well, what else are you supposed to do? even if you loosed her as a friend in the end, you know you helped her.
:)
hope i helped!
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