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17/f Last night I went to a mixer and my ex was there. We dated for a really long time and broke up 2 months ago. I got over him pretty easily because he was being a huge jerk. So last night, these 3 boys from his school were really into me, hanging out with me and one of them even put his arm around me. My ex got really mad and kept giving me evil glares. So I went to talk to him, thinking, I don't want to get a glare from him every time we look at each other.
He ended up apologizing for his jerky behavior from our break up. He really did seem sincere. At the same time he told me he is still in love with me and regrets breaking up with me (he broke it off). So I'm confused. If you love someone... why would you be a jerk to them? It sounded like he wanted to get back together with me (but there's no way I would do that after the way he treated me). Problem is, I kind of miss him. At the same time, he was a jerk, and I don't want to go out with a person like that. So I guess my question is, I kind of need help getting over these last few feelings for him. I really miss him... when we went out we had fun (and I wish we would still go out to movies and stuff now but I'm waiting for him to invite me out somewhere). I'm so confused... he loves me, yet was being a jerk to me, and still doesn't want to hang out with me as a friend and stuff. Can anyone make any sense of this situation? Help me fully get over him? (link)
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relationships like these are really hard to just get over. you wont know what you two really want until you actually talk to each other about everything. you said he didnt sound too sincere about everything so maybe he'll still be the jerk you dated 2 months ago ? it takes a lot for a guy to change from being a jerk .. sure, you miss him. but do you think you still love him like you say you do. cause if you did there wouldnt be any second thoughts about this. when your inlove or know you love someone there is never a second thought with it. just think about everything you two had. would it be worth it to go back to someone who was giving you the evil eye for no reason ? he only seemed to be jealous. just take time from this dont try to rush back into any feelings or him.
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Okay, well recently i found out the guy i like is "talking" to some one else. He had always been kinda flirty with me and all my friends said he liked me so i kinda felt like he was leading me on. Well now that i found out he is "talking" to someone, i got really sad because i really started to like him and i was constantly thinking about him and i am not one of those teenagers who say i love you to them and are obsessed with their boyfriends and the people i like. But, i really started to like this guy and got the feeling he liked me to but now, i guess not because he is already talking to someone else. I have been really sad lately because i liked him so much and i never have really felt this way about a guy before. I have so many feelings about him and he already knows i like him a lot. We talked a week over the summer and then he broke it off but even when we were friends he would be flirty with me. So, i don't know how to not think about this guy all the time. What do i do? Also, the girl he is talking to is a lot more expirienced than me because i have never kissed a guy and he knows that. Well, she has done some things with guys and i think that that's why he might like her but i'm not sure. I'm not even sure if that's the girl he is "talking" to because he wouldn't tell anybody. I was just sorta guessing because i had the feeling. I am not going to tell him my feelings because he dosen't even know i know he is "talking" to somebody. What do i do? i also, i met this other guy and he was cute and my friend told him i thought that and he said that i was pretty but he liked someone else. I have been feeling rejected all year. Should i not tell guys that i like them or that they are cute anymore and just wait for them to take the first step? Also, please don't say, "well if he dosen't like you for who you are, then he dosen't deserve you..." or "just don't think about him anymore." I have tried them and it dosen't work. Thanks! (link)
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id say he does like you. but hes probably not looking for a relationship right now. he could be being a little more distance because hes not sure what he wants right now. a lot of guys do, do that. just dont think hard about it all. i mean im not saying dont think about him but dont try to end how you feel yet. just be more laid back and chill about the whole thing. let him come to you, let him text/call/msg whatever you first. dont strangle yourself around with this guy .. be flirty with other guys. see who else is out there, just dont be to flirty to were he'll hear about it and then all of a sudden flip ? ya know. just dont stress the whole thing so much. because most likely he diggs you more than you think
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I have a friend. I know for a fact that he doesn't like me as more than a friend. But sometimes I find myself looking at him and wondering what it would be like to kiss him. I like being around him mostly because he is such a relaxed person who can hold a good conversation. But every time he walks away I feel a little sad inside because I know I'll miss him. I used to really like him a lot but then I didn't see him for a long time and after hanging out with him today, I feel a little confused again. I'm not even sure that I have a crush on him. Is it possible to mix up friendship with a crush? (link)
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well are you positive he dosen't like you for more than a friend. i mean he could have the same feelings himself. you wont know till you find out...but you can easily mix up a friendship for a crush. plenty of girls always fall for their guy best friends. but usually they've falling for the girl best friend to. just try and find out. weather if its a friend of yours asking him how he feels towards you, or you asking him. give him little hints that you may kinda sorta have a crush on him.
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So i met this guy like three months ago at a pool hall and he had one of his friends come over and ask me for my number. i gave it to him because he was amazingly sexy, and he texted me later on that night and we made plans for the next day. the next day i realized that i had forgotten to ask him his name. when he told me what it was i realized that i knew him all along because my dad sponsors him in racing. we hung out later that night and he was really sweet. we hung out for a couple of weeks and i heard that he had a girlfriend. she went to my school and i didn't like her so i was like whatever. well after about two or three months of hanging out with him we had sex, and he turned into a tool bag. this wouldn't be a problem if he didn't make me care about him,i care so much and cant help it. the week after his girlfriend and i started hanging out. i kept it from her for a really long time. she started to open up to me and it turns out that he cheats on her all the time. they have been together for five months now and he has cheated on her more times then i can count, and he tells her that she is fat all the time and she needs to go to the gym. he really makes her feel like crap. he also hits her not like really bad but bad enough. like your boyfriend shouldn't hit you. when she tells him she doesn't like it when he cheats on her he says "beggers cant be chooseers." he doesn't care about her at all and is a really big tool. she crys all the time and beets her self up about it. like one time he told her that he would break up with her if she didn't give him head, and she has never done it cause she thinks its gross, but she did it anyways cause she was afraid that he was going to leave her. i don't know what to do i tried telling her to leave him but she wont. she thinks i want her to break up with him so i can have him but i don't and she just wont listen. she is amazingly pretty and not fat at all. help me please.
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wow, this is isane. well the only thing you can do is wait for her to realize that he is a complete asshole. and he dosent deserve her. i mean she cant be happy with him ? you should ask her, or take her out one night have her meet somoene else, show her what real happiness is. because this guy is a complete jerk. she needs to realize and see what shes putting herself through.
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Ive became real close friends with this girl again we were like two years ago. She cuts, burns, smokes and drinks. I used to cut and burn and still drink. i was addicted to smoke but not me smoking I cant stand it seventeen of my relatives have died from the things that come from smoking I cant stand it. Long story but cutting is her sanctuary it’s a habit since shes been in 5th grade. Ive been talking to her a lot about it. Shes been in rehab and hospitalized few times. She cuts during school and everybody knows. When I used to I never told or showed anyone but my best friend which spread then I got nick names :(. She will die without cutting she needs it, she stopped burning, she drinks with an adult, she smokes less. The feeling has been so strong lately but she doesn’t wana go back in rehab that made her go crazy. As much as I am against cutting and smoking, I want her to stop smoking and I don’t wana hurt her by keeping her from cutting. Shes in seventh grade for a few more weeks ina catholic school and im graduating eigth grade in two days. She needs to stop smoking, and tone down the cutting even more. Shes depressed and her parents constantly yell at her. I talk to her so much about everything but I don’t know what else to do. Her parents know everybody knows but nobody really cares. She got my friend to bring his pocket knife to school so she can use that instead of glass or blades she said or else shed cut really deep. I got pissed at him and even more at her. What do I do? whats next her getting nocked up in 7th grade, cutting burning drinking smoking. :( (link)
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wow. soo you have some major issues with your friend. well i cant say ive been in her state but my sister has, and what i did to help her was be around her a lot and try to make everything fun and exciting. with her, shes not seeing the whole yay life good feelingss. shes only seeing the whole boo you whore my life sucks life. and thats healthy. of course rehab isnt helping. its only making her worse, they're just gasing up her head with ideas that shes insane and what not, you kind of have to make her feel like shes normal. but not the normal were what she does it okay. the whole drinking and smoking thing well, shes young to do that but thats always just a phase, and cutting. believe me she'll realize soon enough that cutting isnt gonna save her from anything. cutting is addictive but my sister got over it, and so will she. the way you describe her reminds me of my sister so much. you might not think things will change but they will. it could get worse before it gets better. but it will get better. just stay by her side at all times "not to the point were your annoying her" but to were she understands that your there for her! so she knows shes not alone. it wont be easy, its gonna be hard. but its life and inorder to get through it you have to fight for it. remember stay strong =]
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nothing has gone right since dec of 07... i broke up with my bf for my ex who ended up hurting me more than he had in the beginning. i got back with the bf i broke up with jason and it was all good. then he left to iowa and then to basic. he got home from basic and all we did was fight he headed back to iowa for a while well the other day we got into a huge fight and broke up. i havent stopped thinkin of him and today he sent me a text saying sorry so i apologized back then he was like no im sorry i found a girl that i kinda like she is really cool. now there is nothign i can do about it... i love him so much and tried to tell him how this made me feel...but tears just fell too heavily and i just hung up. wat do i do (link)
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theres not much you can do, let him fall for her, he has to see what else is out there and so do you. if things are meant to be then you`ll most definately get back together . ive been in this situation before he just never left to iowa.. if your farr, then doont bother anymore of course your gunna think about him ..who dosent get upset after trying so hard to love soomeone with there all. just dont worry eveutally you'll move on and if anything he'll realize what he lost... just be patient ..everything happenes for a reason, just dont sit around a moup about it. nuthings gonna get done doing that
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well...when me and my bf are fooling around he doesnt seem aroused.most of my friends has bfs that are aroused when they fool around.i was just wondering what could turn him on from our perspective.i am willing to try new things.
fyi-yes we have done it & yes we used protection
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kisssss himmm everywhereee. tease him a bitt ! makee him want more, dont just the more out there, usually around the ear kissing or chin and upp then eventually slowly kiss down his chest, believe me theres plenty of ways . just be a lil bit more teaseable =P makes it more fun
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I feel completely stupid for saying this, but I cant stand myself. I mean I hate the way I look. I hate like everything about me. Well okay not everything, because I love the way I think like i know i'm intelligant and stuff but I litteraly hate myself. I dont feel like I have any true friends and I hate myself more for saying that because I have a best friends that I can tell mostly everything except this kind of stuff. (This is probably really confusing)I feel like my inteeligance is the only thing that I have to live for. I know that probably sounds stupid too. I'm just so confused right now and and hurt and it sounds pathetic but like no one cares about me and like i have no control over my life cause everytime i try to make my self a little more at the very least likable i cant seem to do it. I think about just ending things alot like just giving up on everything or something but i feel like i'm meant for something. I dont know i'm so confused right now. I just dont know. (link)
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well, you seem a mess. but girl who isnt at times. whose never felt like this before. im not here to tell you everyone goes through this, buh practically everyone does. i sure have. just because you dont have everything you want dosent mean you still dont have it all. you dont have to see the beauty in things to realize how wonderful you are inside. dont hate the way you look, its the most imangetive sucidie ever ! if you cant love urself, how can you ever love at all. your lucky to see how smart you are ! stop sayin you dont know, you do know , you just dont have all the facts staright. and imange if you did ? life wouldnt be so fun and enchanting, so take time knowing yourself..believe me you'll see all the greatness in you soon enough
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