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Okay, well recently i found out the guy i like is "talking" to some one else. He had always been kinda flirty with me and all my friends said he liked me so i kinda felt like he was leading me on. Well now that i found out he is "talking" to someone, i got really sad because i really started to like him and i was constantly thinking about him and i am not one of those teenagers who say i love you to them and are obsessed with their boyfriends and the people i like. But, i really started to like this guy and got the feeling he liked me to but now, i guess not because he is already talking to someone else. I have been really sad lately because i liked him so much and i never have really felt this way about a guy before. I have so many feelings about him and he already knows i like him a lot. We talked a week over the summer and then he broke it off but even when we were friends he would be flirty with me. So, i don't know how to not think about this guy all the time. What do i do? Also, the girl he is talking to is a lot more expirienced than me because i have never kissed a guy and he knows that. Well, she has done some things with guys and i think that that's why he might like her but i'm not sure. I'm not even sure if that's the girl he is "talking" to because he wouldn't tell anybody. I was just sorta guessing because i had the feeling. I am not going to tell him my feelings because he dosen't even know i know he is "talking" to somebody. What do i do? i also, i met this other guy and he was cute and my friend told him i thought that and he said that i was pretty but he liked someone else. I have been feeling rejected all year. Should i not tell guys that i like them or that they are cute anymore and just wait for them to take the first step? Also, please don't say, "well if he dosen't like you for who you are, then he dosen't deserve you..." or "just don't think about him anymore." I have tried them and it dosen't work. Thanks!
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id say he does like you. but hes probably not looking for a relationship right now. he could be being a little more distance because hes not sure what he wants right now. a lot of guys do, do that. just dont think hard about it all. i mean im not saying dont think about him but dont try to end how you feel yet. just be more laid back and chill about the whole thing. let him come to you, let him text/call/msg whatever you first. dont strangle yourself around with this guy .. be flirty with other guys. see who else is out there, just dont be to flirty to were he'll hear about it and then all of a sudden flip ? ya know. just dont stress the whole thing so much. because most likely he diggs you more than you think
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well this happens to every girl. even if they aint theobessed guy girl thing. if he is flirting with you and someone eles. then he is playing head games, its not worth it. i have been through the same thing. and it just makes you wait and then he thinks he can do the same thing over and over again. just stop it,, just dont talk to him 4 a while and act like you dont care and then if he really likes you then he will stop wht he is doing, and then you will find out what the truth is, if he likes you then he'll start being like why aint you talkin to me and he will realize he cant walk all over you like that and he'll pick one you or the other girl.
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