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why is my life going to hell
nothing has gone right since dec of 07... i broke up with my bf for my ex who ended up hurting me more than he had in the beginning. i got back with the bf i broke up with jason and it was all good. then he left to iowa and then to basic. he got home from basic and all we did was fight he headed back to iowa for a while well the other day we got into a huge fight and broke up. i havent stopped thinkin of him and today he sent me a text saying sorry so i apologized back then he was like no im sorry i found a girl that i kinda like she is really cool. now there is nothign i can do about it... i love him so much and tried to tell him how this made me feel...but tears just fell too heavily and i just hung up. wat do i do
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theres not much you can do, let him fall for her, he has to see what else is out there and so do you. if things are meant to be then you`ll most definately get back together . ive been in this situation before he just never left to iowa.. if your farr, then doont bother anymore of course your gunna think about him ..who dosent get upset after trying so hard to love soomeone with there all. just dont worry eveutally you'll move on and if anything he'll realize what he lost... just be patient ..everything happenes for a reason, just dont sit around a moup about it. nuthings gonna get done doing that
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Good job you two, it is rare that someone leaves me speechless, but you have left me nothing to say. I just want to give you cu dos and say get back on your path.
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if you are reading this then you most likly woke up in the morinig and you are reading this out of hope ,that is your first sign that you are not going to hell just mearly holding on to your past... people are very Influential ,we as human live and thrive on one another ... so what your going threw is natural becouse you spent so much emidiate time with this guy. But on the other hand the emotional pain is damageing your mental health .... your still young , you have plenty of time to heal those wonds ... i know it sucks when the person you love vanishes , but you cant hold on it will only make you a bitter person . you have to open your heart and mind . the simplest thing like volentering at a soup kitcken or childrens shelter , will boost your confidence and warm your soul .... if you help other people and put some positivity back into your life style you too will feel better .. or maby go pamper your self with a little popcorn and movie ... se when he texed you he ment to say .. well good-bye im not leading you on any more ... atleast he cared enough to tell you he was sorry
im not too sure what to tell you becouse my current boyfriend had a girl friend from out of sate that became his ex and she called him like a pshyco all the time and she would be mean and hate-ful towards me .... now he gose back and forth hiding that they still talk and he dosent care how it makes me feel ...jst think of all the partys involved and if you belive in God you should know things happen for a reason things wont always be bad just dont give up on your life ...
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Well, it sounds to me like you need to find some positives in your life, since you feel it's hell. A boy should never alter your perspective on life. Life is never easier while dealing with a break up-- especially in the way that it was handed to you.
Fortunately, I have all the experience in the world with breaking up.
Right now, it's hard to keep your mind off of him, because you miss him so much. I know exactly what you're feeling. The best thing to do, though one of the hardest, is to keep yourself incredibly busy. One time I got dumped, and wrote an entire book of poetry during the summer days. I wasn't working enough yet, so I got up with old friends and sat back with new ones. The more people I had around me, the more I felt support even if the conversation wasn't about my break up.
If you find enough way to distract yourself, you be back on your game in no time. It sounds to me like even if you and this boy hadn't fought, you'd still be broken up. So don't blame yourself or your actions, and don't let him feel like he wins.
Come out over this, beyond it. It may take some pretending your happy when you're not and even some rebounds in the beginning, but it's going to work out for you.
When we get broken up with, our initial reaction is sadness-- even if we know it was bad for us to be in the relationship. I don't blame you for being sad, I only wish that you find your happiness.
Good luck!
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