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Ex bf confusion
17/f Last night I went to a mixer and my ex was there. We dated for a really long time and broke up 2 months ago. I got over him pretty easily because he was being a huge jerk. So last night, these 3 boys from his school were really into me, hanging out with me and one of them even put his arm around me. My ex got really mad and kept giving me evil glares. So I went to talk to him, thinking, I don't want to get a glare from him every time we look at each other.
He ended up apologizing for his jerky behavior from our break up. He really did seem sincere. At the same time he told me he is still in love with me and regrets breaking up with me (he broke it off). So I'm confused. If you love someone... why would you be a jerk to them? It sounded like he wanted to get back together with me (but there's no way I would do that after the way he treated me). Problem is, I kind of miss him. At the same time, he was a jerk, and I don't want to go out with a person like that. So I guess my question is, I kind of need help getting over these last few feelings for him. I really miss him... when we went out we had fun (and I wish we would still go out to movies and stuff now but I'm waiting for him to invite me out somewhere). I'm so confused... he loves me, yet was being a jerk to me, and still doesn't want to hang out with me as a friend and stuff. Can anyone make any sense of this situation? Help me fully get over him?
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There's a chance that he's still trying to get over you, but at the same time, trying to get together with you again. If he was a jerk to you, then I dont think you should go for it. Jerky boyfriends end up breaking up anyways. I'm sorry if you miss him, but sometimes, you have to move on. Try to find another guy that would ask you to go to the movies, hang out, dinner, and stuff. Make use of being single and dont reminise over the past.
I hope this helped.
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relationships like these are really hard to just get over. you wont know what you two really want until you actually talk to each other about everything. you said he didnt sound too sincere about everything so maybe he'll still be the jerk you dated 2 months ago ? it takes a lot for a guy to change from being a jerk .. sure, you miss him. but do you think you still love him like you say you do. cause if you did there wouldnt be any second thoughts about this. when your inlove or know you love someone there is never a second thought with it. just think about everything you two had. would it be worth it to go back to someone who was giving you the evil eye for no reason ? he only seemed to be jealous. just take time from this dont try to rush back into any feelings or him.
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