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maybe i'm just unlike-able?
okay sorry in advance for this being so long..
but i really need help with something.
i'm a 13 year old girl and i feel very..worthless right now.i've never had a boyfriend..never kissed anyone.or anything.
the most i've done was hug one.one.
i'm in love with this boy that doesn't really know what i'm like..but he doesn't like me much because as far as he knows,i hate him.and i strongly believe he hates me too.
although maybe he doesn't,i'm not sure.
i keep getting these signs that we're going to date soon.
i keep taking quizes and such that say "his name will start with an a" or "you'll have a boyfriend soon" or something stupid like that you know?
and my friend keeps telling me that it'll happen too.
but me,being unexpeirienced,am kind of nervous about the whole situation.
but i can really really see myself with him and i really want to be with him.
i just realized today how much i like him..
can someone please help me cope with this?
any advice is MUCH appriciated..
:/
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first off, dont worry about not having a boyfriend or your first kiss. im 15 and i still havent either. im not trying to scare you by that or anything.
if all of your friends say youll be with him soon, listen to them, it should make you feel really good about yourself
try not to rely on those quizzes, sometimes they are like false hope. its fun to take them, but they are usually not accurate.
if your so sure you guys are meant for each other, talk to him and flirt with him a little. your a girl and its your natural instinct to know how to flirt with guys.
everything will work out if its supposed to work out.
hope that helps a little :]
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Aww don't put yourself down. You're going to be fine. These things take time, and your time just hasn't come yet. You've got your entire life ahead of you still. Plenty of time for guys. Right now just focus on friends and having fun. And if a guy just so happens to comes along, then go for it.
As for this guy, I'd let him know you don't hate him. That's a start. Then talk to him more, and let it progress. Just see where it takes you =]
Good Luck!
-Laura. [15/f]
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kid your young
don't worry
you'll find someone
and he'll make you
forget about this
itll just be another memory
in your music box(hehe, sorry i like my phrases)
i didnt have my first kiss until i was 15
so dont rush it,
wait until you find someone that means alot to you!
don't be nervous, be yourself
ive be there done that and i know you'll get your chance!
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okay, let me just tell you this:
you are 13!!
you have your WHOLE life left.
weather you get that guy, or someone COMPLETELY different, you WILL get the first kiss.
you WILL get a guy you would KILL for you.
you WILL get a guy who will get the chills any time he sees you.
trust me.
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hope i helped!!
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Don't feel worthless. Thats nothing to be mad about. You can't just jump into kissing or hugging or anything like that. You have to wait!
And with the guy, talk to him, try to keep in touch with him as mush as you can. He'll soon find out that you want to be friends and you dont hate him. And from then on he'll get the hint you like him.
You'll find out if he hates you once you talk to him, and if he does, apologize for whatever reason and work it out.
hahahah its normal to get those feelings, those 'every second thinking about him' feelings.
Dont get nervous, be yourself around him!
I hope I helped!
(:
-Speakfreely
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