i kinda wanna start playing WoW..and i have a few questions about it..
it it easier/more fun than runescape??
how much space does it take up on your computer??
well i know someone who is reallyy... addicted to runescape. i personally think WoW has like. REALLY good graphics and like.. its easier to play . Runescape on the other hand, just like that person said under me, yeah you can sell your account ( even how crazy that sounds o.o..) . But if your going to do private server on runescape, then yes, it takes alot of space and downloading if you dont have the appropriate stuff. And remember that WoW you need to pay for everymonth. butt yeahh; thats all i got ;]]
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How the hell do i get myself to parties?!?! i have been to parties before but i want to go to different parties with different people.like(as cheesey as the sounds) "cool" people. I know i fit in. its just, because i act completely different in school than i act outside of school. I have always been like that. I get good grades and am nice to teachers and am sooo not rebelious in school but when im outside of school....
What do I do?
wow sorry but that was some bad advice she gave down there. DUDE. why are you going to fake it ?? How are you going to have any fun when youre not even yourself? o.o?
idk. give me a bad rating if you want idc. I'mm juustt sayyinnnn .
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15/f
I dont know if anyone can answer this. I just dont understand why even though when I hang out with my friends I have a good time and laugh, but when I get home I still go into a depression. I start playing really sad songs and I try to cut myself and I just start bawling and freaking out.
My best friend, who I love more than anything in a friendship kind of way, just moved away about 3 weeks ago. Then the boy I was seeing decided to abruptly end our relationship for no good reason. Ever since then I've been feeling so lonely, like there's no one around I can talk to or relate to and I feel abandoned. Then I always feel guilty cause of done many things Im not proud of (drinking mostly) but its constant and i always feel like my dad can see me and is so disappointed in me (he died when I was three.) No matter how bad i feel though i cant stop drinking and no matter how sick it makes me feel.
I dont really know how this can be answered, but does anyone feel what Im going through? I just dont understand cause, really not to sound conceited, ive been told im very pretty and my mom makes a pretty good salary and when i think of how much worse some people have it i feel selfish for wanting to end my life sometimes but i cant help it i still feel like everything is just going so wrong.
Please help. Im sorry this is so long.
Dude the last thing you want to do is cut yourself. Seriously, yeah.. I'm a stranger, and I doonntt know you but cutting doesn't get rid of stress. Think about it, you're leaving scars just to remember . Take a deep breath, relax. Yeah life is hard but shit, when isn't it? Maybe your drinking triggers it, that you need something to help yourself not feel so "lonley" . Its never EVER bad to go ask for some help. You're not alone, and it happens to a whoolle lot of ppeoplle ! Why are you going to feel bad? We all make mistakes, it shouldnt put you through depression. Were teenagers, we have a whole lot more to go/do with life. Just bare through and make the best of it, and things will get soo much better. School is almost coming up ( as much as i hate saying it ) but theres a PERFECT chance to meet new friends and to feel like you can share our feelings with. ha, and guys are just assholes.. lmao. sorry for any guy who is reading this. But seriously? They change their minds every freekin' 4 minutes. yeah yeah, you're probably reading this and going " alright.. nnneeextt "; but ... take it as advise. Honestly, it'll do you some good . Now cheer up, and how about we have some fun in our summer eh? ;]
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I really like one of my guy friends. A LOT LOT LOT LOT. Today, I was talking with him on the phone and I told him I liked him and it turns out he likes me to. Well, then he asked me like on a scale of 1-10 how much so I told him and he said he only liked me like a 7. Then he said he liked my bestfriend also, but only like a 3 since they just met a few days ago. I was a little sad to hear this but I shrugged it off because he said he liked me more. I was all happy and then he had to go eat dinner so I called my best friend to tell her the exciting news. She was like "oh that's great i'm so happy for you too! I'm glad you're finally moving on from so and so!".((I had a recent nasty breakup that left me crushed for a while)). Anyway, then this guy calls me back and so I join us all so it's on multiparty. They kept talking. Then he told her he liked her. She's the type of girl that falls in love with any guy that says something nice about her or likes her. So they started flirting while I sat there, not even having to talk. They both just forgot I was there. Later, I went onto Myspace and they were on. I message my guy friend and he read it but didn't reply. So then my friend messaged me and asked me to switch something around on her profile, since we have each other's password and stuff. She told me not to go into her inbox. Naturally, I did, and I regret that very much. She had been talking to my crush after they both hung up and he told her that he lied and he actually liked her much more then what he told me. I kept reading these messages and apparently she has a secret bf she doesn't tell me about. Then he asks her if he asked her out what would she say and she says "yes". I am really crushed and balling my eyes out right now. She only met him a few days ago and i've known him since forever. He was like "what's wrong" and I can't tell either of them because I snooped and I shouldn't have been in the first place! I feel like an idiot for believing either of them, and I really don't trust them right now. I know i'm probably just being dramatic, but I don't know how to deal. Please help, what should I do?
!? are you serious!?
your friend has been hiding things from you, and apparently if she told you not to go in her inbox, then she KNEW that it was wrong.
I think your should go straight up and tell her.
Dont be ashamed of going in her mail.
SHE should be ashamed for liking the guy that youve had your eyes on.
... im getting frusterated with this because this has happen to me before too. haha.and i totally know how it feels like.
SO yeah. Confront her about it.
And maybe confront the guy that you like about it too.
He totally led you on...
Tell them the truth, and once you tell them you found out; it will be a smack in the face for both of them.
And .. wait. doesnt your friend have a bf?
Why would she say "yes" if he asked her out..?
Anyways
i hope i helped bud.
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16 females.
Ok my friends and I all jus broke up with our boyfriends! We want to know the best way to get over them? Its been awhile, but we still like them! (A month, 2 weeks, a week)
Ok please don't tell us to "think happy thoughts" or something temporary. Hahaha. Thaaaaaanks!
if you still like them, why did you break up with them? haha
but if you want to get over them; its easy
Look for other guys.
Find the cute irrisistable ones and before you know it you will be after them and have the other ones totally out of your lives.
Easy as that , right?
ORRRRRRRR.
Just stop talking to them and soon you will lose interest.
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Just ignore
and
replace.
Hope I helped
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Ask me out already!!
I thinks he's shy with me. (He's pretty popular too. Got the ladies screaming! Hahaha.)
I think he's intimidated. ALL his friends and my friends tell me how much he likes me...
I'm pretty well known, a lot of guys like me, but I only like him & he knows that. Maybe its because I'm older than him. We've been talking/liking each other for a MONTH. Omg he's even gotten mad when he saw me eat lunch with this guy. Well gawsh hurry!
So tomorrow..... I'm going to talk to him about it! I've got the courage now! Yay! What are some good things to say? So far I have:
What's up with me & you?
You said when we get to know each other more we can go out.... well its been a month!
What else?
Thaaaaanx! =]
haa. a month is nothinggg LOL!
i've been waiting for like 9 months now. lol Oh well
well just bring up how you like him . and if he says he likes you too just be like " well. we should do something about that huh ?"
and yeah; just say whats on your mind.
Good luckkkk!
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I got the new BlackBerry Pearl yesterday.
I haven't dropped it, or anything like that.
But, when I click on the camera button, it just freezes up for a few seconds, and it doesn't do anything.
I've tried turning the phone off, and charging it.
Does anyone know what's going on?
thats what happened to me when i first got my blackberry pearl.
You have to wait for a while, i dont know why but you do.
what i did is that i took the battery off from the back. and when i turned it on, it worked.
you just have to keep playing with the phone.. for some reason.
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So, basically, I'm 15/f.
I have pretty long hair that has been dyed previously and it reaches about 3 inches past my shoulders. It's straight naturally.
However, I want to curl it more often, but I can't get a perm or else my hair will be very very damaged at the time.
So I tried using curlers you keep in overnight, and it was alright except the back of my hair didn't curl. When I used a curling iron, it just will NOT curl.
I don't use anything before I curl my hair.
Is there ANY way I can get my hair to curl, and have it look nice? Please help, I wanted to curl my hair for Snowfall Ball. :(
First you can start by going to the store and buying any shampoo or conditioner that has anything to do with curling your hair . There are some solutions that you can wash your hair with and it waves it , making it much easier to curl it.
- other then that, thats all i got,
i hope i helped
PEACE'
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Please vote 10s
http://www.sugarloot.com/entry/276839391
http://www.sugarloot.com/entry/278182879
and by the way since this is an advice colum... do you think its smart to post pictures on sugarloot.com?
yeahh. this isnt spam and who cares?
BUTT anyways
honest answer?
I wouldnt post anything on it.
like i dont know if that was a pic of you but putting pictures of YOU and showing it and putting it into contests... aint such a bright idea.
Well, whatever floats your boat i guess.
and I like both.
---- but i dont know how you want me to vote on this? like to the site?
oh well.
i gave you half of it,
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Why is it a sin for a white to marry a black? All answers aprecciated.
P.S. If possible please explane it in the easyest form possible. Thanks!!!
PSH. I agreeeeeeee
* with the two people under me
Marrying a black person isnt bad
Just for those racist people out there...
Who im against racism.
I dont think its a sin.
Were all PEOPLE.
it would be a sin to marry an animal though.. like marrying a dog or somthin.. OKAY im getting off track. BUTT ha. Yeah you get it.
Its an opinion.
If YOU think its a sin , its a SIN.
If you DONT think its a SIN, its not.
In SOME religions, i guess you can say, yeah it is.
But its all in what you believe.
Am i making sence.?
I hope so.
But yeah.
I HOPE I Helped!
Peace'
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15/f.
i don't even know if this kid likes me, but here i go. basically, he moved here this year. never really talked to him. this trimester in school, he switched into my lunch and one of my classes. we STILL don't really talk. so one day he started talking to me online, and since then he's been nonstop flirting with me. we've been talking for like two days, and today he sent me a text message 'hey cutie :)' and i haven't led him on or ANYTHING. i've talked to him like i would my friends. also, the other day i told him i was going to be working and what time, and he came in during my shift. luckily i was on drive-thru and he went to the counter, so i was safe from awkwardness. and i don't know, but i have a feeling he likes me.
the thing is, i REALLY don't know him, and i don't really want to. that sounds horrible, but i really don't have any interest in getting to know him.
what do i do?
oh god it sounds like this one kid i know..
hes a total flirt.
Well your guy. Well.. not' your' guy but.. Okay you get it. BUUUTTT Dont answer his texts. His IM's (if you have aim) Or his messages. Just block him out of your life.
When you answer him back, hes getting the idea that you like him too . Which i dont know why because, like you said its only been two days. Hes getting way ahead of hisself.
but ignore him.
Or bring someother guy up.
Even if you dont like any other guy. Make up one. You dont even have to say his name.
Just give him a hint that you dont like him and you like someone else.
And wow. COMPLETE STALKER ha.
he went to your work?
wow. that HAD to be awkward.
Next time if he comes by your work again and he actually goes through the drive-thru just play it cool.
Dont look all EXCITED to see him.
Just say HI and well. ocasionall Whats up?
If he askes you to hangout with him, and if you dont want to, make something up.
Yup, it takes lying.
Say you had plans
Im just telling you IF it happens.
Butt yeahh.
Or you can do it in an easy short way.
Say " I dont like you, and i dont like you following me"
Or whatevver.
Mix it up however you want it.
but .. that kinda seems harsh BUT true.
Anyways
i gave you all i had.
I hope i helped
PEACE;
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so there's this guy named R, and i had the biggest crush on R last year and i had 5th period with him. He's really nice ans sweet and i loved talking to him.I think he liked me, but then i wasn't sure b/c he's a really flirt. Then school ended and then it started again. So now me and R don't havge any classes together, but i used to see him in the hallways all the time, and i would say hi or smile. Then i did'nt see him for a while. Like 6 months. Then i started seeing him again starting this semester, and i know he sees me. My friend says to say hi, but i'm not sure b/c i think it'll be weird if i say hi all of a sudden after 6 months. And on thursday an amazing thing happened. Okayy so i see him rite and my friend was like omgg look it's him, and i was just looking down and smiling, and stuff saying no. Then she was like omg he passed, and i aws like whatttt and i turned around and we made eye contact, and he was smilling, but i think he was smiling before i even turned around. Then i was acting like i was looking for someone else. Then i walked away pretty fast. It was soo baddd..lol...
but what i really want to know is that a good sign??
and if i should say hi to him.
DUUUDE! lol your going through what i went through. Well kinda.
SAY HI.
TRUST ME
Ive liked this kid for soooo long and we never talked, and i was pretty shy too. My friends would be like " Just say hi" and i was like " UH.. noo . Its ninth period, i didnt even say hi to him in my first period. How awkward would that be?"
But guys can careless what period it is or when you say hi to him or how.
If you say hi, its good.
JUST SAY IT
I did, and me and the guy talk everyday now.
Actually. hes close to being my boyfriend
A Hi starts with everything.
Hi-- smile-- walk away
* if a conversation doesnt spark up walk away i mean.
And yeah, if he was smiling at you, He deffinitly noticed you.
Yeahhh ive done that too. The " Im going to look passed you to act like i DONT see you when i really DO see you and act like im looking for 'Billy'."
Yahh. we've all done it.
and its your nerves.
You neeed to get over it.
Starting a conversation will make your day; trust me.
A little conversation that you havent had in 6 months will make your WEEK. and eventually, if you keep asking him little questions or start little conversations, you guys will do it daily.
You will feel so good after talking to him.
Just keep that in mind when you see him.
'Just say it.. Say HI/hey. If he says hi, and he doesnt say anything else; his loss. Walk away. He probably nervous too. Let him do the work. You said HI, all he needs to do is start the convo.'
MAN AM I A PRO AT THIS!! LOL
see, i have been through this. I know how you feel.
need more advice. dude totally message me more about this and update me.
.. you can message me back on here cant yah?
anywhooo.
I hope i helped
PEACCEE'
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My closest friend that I have in school, Maddie is the laziest person I know! I wouldn't call her my best friend because we never hang out on the weekends and do stuff like that, but I'm comfortable enough to tell her who I like and stuff and we talk on the phone. Anyway, she never does things herself. She ALWAYS asks me to go in the lunch line with her, get her a chair to sit on (which is literally 2 feet away), throw out her trash, get her bag, ect. And I used to do all that. Then, yesterday I decided to say no because I'm sick of her using me. She asked me to get in the lunch line with her, I said, "No, it takes two seconds." Then, she blamed me because she couldn't eat because she had no food. (rolls eyes) For the rest of lunch, I didn't talk to her, but then she used my friend Charlie to buy her a water bottle, and she's not even friends with him. That really pissed me off. At the end of lunch, she asked me to get her bag which was 5 inches away from her. I told her to get it herself and she was like, "I can't reach it because of the bar." Then I just rolled my eyes at her and she got it herself. "Like it took that much effort," I said. Anyway, I don't really want to be friends anymore because she uses me to do stuff for her and for her own security. She doesn't actually hang around me because she likes who I am. How do I ditch her? It's hard because like I said, she's one of my closest friends in school.
easy.
tell her what you just told us.
That you feel like you get used.
And you dont want to be her slave anymore.
its good that you stuck up for yourself.
tell her and see if she changes, then if she doesnt then you decide if you want a friend demands for you to do things.
I hope I helped!
-Speakfreely.
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There's this guy who i met in my freshie year and we worked on a play together. Well over the summer we saw eachother at a store and he made a few complements that were very sweet. Well now i have a crush on him and he's acting increasingly friendly: He came up to me in the hall and gave me a huge thumbs up just cuz he saw me and whenever we pass by eachother he does a little thumbs up or points at me, even when noone beside me and him are in the hall. Now we are in a new play together and he threw his arm around me and he gave me this whole " eyebrow" thing when we were sitting down. But sometimes he is friendly, though he doesn't do the same things he does for me, with other girls he knows. Is he just being friendly or is it possible he could just like me a tiny bit as something else?
usually when guys are acting 'unusual' it probably means he likes you. in a shyness kind of way. Its kind of like getting red when you say hi. In this case i guess he likes to throw up thumbs up when he sees you.
yoono what i meen?
-i hope i helped.
-Speakfreely
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Okay well there is thins boy that I REALLY like and he Really likes me but the problem is that he thinks he is so cool and Hott and when he goes to give someone a high five or give a girl a hug than they don't even see him and walk right away. Then he gives me an attude and is very rude to me and I really don't like this and I think im in love with him and I know for a fact that he Likes me so what do I do he is not acting like himself and I miss the old him...:[
thats easy.
What you juuustttt told us, tell him.
thats helpful advice right there.
(:
I hope I helped!
-Speakfreely
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okay so i have very thick hair
and its really courase!
does anyone else have this problem?
i straighten it alot but whenever i do it, it makes it feel gross and it doesn't smell very good it smells burnt.
can anyone help me?!
to make my hair softer.
does anyone else have this problem?!
I have it all the time! well i used to.. But i found out that from all that hair stuck in my brush and all that oil from my hair is gettinginto my hair that when i straighten it it makes it look and feel gross. Make sure you clean out your brush, it might be that. But with making your hair softer and not smell burnt then go to where ever you get your hair products and there are special bottles just for straightening hair. Theres so many and i dont know what type of hair you have so i wouldnt know which one would be best for you. Just look and see which ones would be best for you.
I hope i helped!
-Speakfreely.
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15/f
i just started highschool, and me and my best friend arnt in any classes together. and she hardly calls me. i always have to call her, and she always tells me she has to go. usually she always called me.
what should i do?
I had the sammmee problem. Just tell her that you guys need to talk more and wait and see if she calls you. If she doesnt be like " call me sometime! we should hang out!" and if she still doesnt, shes not a really good friend. Trust me, i know how you feel. Same thing happened to me. Tell her about it.
I hope I helped!
-Speakfreely
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i had sex august 21st and like i might take a doctors examination to see if i really am pregnant but i was wondering if i do get pregnant, i dont want the baby and im not having the baby, how much is abortion and can i have an abortion possibly now?
Im just telling you about the abortion part. omgosh please dont do an abortion. Im sorry, but theres always adoption! This is your child no matter what. Dont just throw it down the drain. Adoption! It will go to a family who does want it! And that other person who said that " the baby can become a killer" uhm... okay, uhm no. its a baby!? And it can become good??? just do adoption. your a mom either way.
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ok so there Is this guy and he is(how do I word it correctly)...GORGEOUS!!!! and I really want to talk to him but I have know idea what to say I dont have any classes with him but hes in my lunch and I see him around. I need to talk to him but what do I say to someone that i dont know and dont have classes with? I'm not usually the type who cant find words but for some dumb reason I get way nervous and dont know what to say around him! please help!
ahhaah zheart100. yeah do those " woops sorry" things. ahha. they work for me. like im in the same exact situation. this guy is freekin hot man, and hes in noone of my classes, and just like you, i only see him at lunch and between classes. Just smile at him. He'll see that your friendsly. And try to "accidently bump" into him. ahah. it sommeetimes works. I cant garuntee on that, but its a suggestion. You can try to make a joke infront of your friends while hes right by you. He'll see that your funny. And that would be good. I have to be taking some of this advice myself.ahha .
I hope I helped!
-Speakfreely
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I am VERY self-conscious. For example, I don't like to eat infront of anybody(except my family). I don't eat lunch at school, because I don't like people around me watching me eat.
I'm a chunky kid, and I don't eat very much. But I know when i eat i can just mentally picture everyone saying, "Omg, ew, she's so fat. She should be eating those chips!" And the reality is, I KNOW that the people i sit with wouldn't say that. But at that moment, I still feel like they are.
Is there anything I can do to overcome my self esteem problem?
And don't say, "Just get over it." Because that won't work.
Dont care about what they say , you HAVE to eat! PLEASE, OMG eat! You are effecting your body because of stupid peoples opinions! And i know you cant get over it, i understand , i cant eat in front of people either, i do get self concience. BUT i eat, for my own bodies sake. I dont care what people say about me. Have them say what they say, dont even care about it. Fcuk what they say. EAT!
I hope I helped!
-speakfreely
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