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bff and other guy
I really like one of my guy friends. A LOT LOT LOT LOT. Today, I was talking with him on the phone and I told him I liked him and it turns out he likes me to. Well, then he asked me like on a scale of 1-10 how much so I told him and he said he only liked me like a 7. Then he said he liked my bestfriend also, but only like a 3 since they just met a few days ago. I was a little sad to hear this but I shrugged it off because he said he liked me more. I was all happy and then he had to go eat dinner so I called my best friend to tell her the exciting news. She was like "oh that's great i'm so happy for you too! I'm glad you're finally moving on from so and so!".((I had a recent nasty breakup that left me crushed for a while)). Anyway, then this guy calls me back and so I join us all so it's on multiparty. They kept talking. Then he told her he liked her. She's the type of girl that falls in love with any guy that says something nice about her or likes her. So they started flirting while I sat there, not even having to talk. They both just forgot I was there. Later, I went onto Myspace and they were on. I message my guy friend and he read it but didn't reply. So then my friend messaged me and asked me to switch something around on her profile, since we have each other's password and stuff. She told me not to go into her inbox. Naturally, I did, and I regret that very much. She had been talking to my crush after they both hung up and he told her that he lied and he actually liked her much more then what he told me. I kept reading these messages and apparently she has a secret bf she doesn't tell me about. Then he asks her if he asked her out what would she say and she says "yes". I am really crushed and balling my eyes out right now. She only met him a few days ago and i've known him since forever. He was like "what's wrong" and I can't tell either of them because I snooped and I shouldn't have been in the first place! I feel like an idiot for believing either of them, and I really don't trust them right now. I know i'm probably just being dramatic, but I don't know how to deal. Please help, what should I do?
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!? are you serious!?
your friend has been hiding things from you, and apparently if she told you not to go in her inbox, then she KNEW that it was wrong.
I think your should go straight up and tell her.
Dont be ashamed of going in her mail.
SHE should be ashamed for liking the guy that youve had your eyes on.
... im getting frusterated with this because this has happen to me before too. haha.and i totally know how it feels like.
SO yeah. Confront her about it.
And maybe confront the guy that you like about it too.
He totally led you on...
Tell them the truth, and once you tell them you found out; it will be a smack in the face for both of them.
And .. wait. doesnt your friend have a bf?
Why would she say "yes" if he asked her out..?
Anyways
i hope i helped bud.
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goodness, i've been in this situation before! i am so sorry for you.
i think the best thing to do is to tell her you read her messages, and if you want you can tell him you did too.
this is not ALL your fault, whats done is done, you can't erase the fact that you looked and now that you know they both lied to you.
let her know how you feel, and don't let her throw it back on you because you snooped. she did worse. make sure she knows how much you liked him and that its horrible she lied to you, and was planning on going out with him after she knew how much you liked him.
and then talk to him. tell him you really like him, and he should of just been honest with you from the beginning about his feelings for your friend and that it was wrong for him to lead you on like that.
if you need anything else, i'm here. (:
good luck :D
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