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i don't even know!
15/f.
i don't even know if this kid likes me, but here i go. basically, he moved here this year. never really talked to him. this trimester in school, he switched into my lunch and one of my classes. we STILL don't really talk. so one day he started talking to me online, and since then he's been nonstop flirting with me. we've been talking for like two days, and today he sent me a text message 'hey cutie :)' and i haven't led him on or ANYTHING. i've talked to him like i would my friends. also, the other day i told him i was going to be working and what time, and he came in during my shift. luckily i was on drive-thru and he went to the counter, so i was safe from awkwardness. and i don't know, but i have a feeling he likes me.
the thing is, i REALLY don't know him, and i don't really want to. that sounds horrible, but i really don't have any interest in getting to know him.
what do i do?
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i think that the stopping by your work thing was very thoughtful, but if you don't think that you want to get to know him, suggest to him a friend that he should start talking to. um, basically every time he texts you, you don't have to answer ALL THE TIME. i mean overtime if you keep letting him go a trifle he'll get the point and move on.
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okay, either two things are going on,
1) he really likes you but has no idea how to get you to like him. in that case give him a chance and let him know you like guys you are more natural and don't come on too strong.
2) or he's a total weirdo and let him know youre not into him. at all.
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oh god it sounds like this one kid i know..
hes a total flirt.
Well your guy. Well.. not' your' guy but.. Okay you get it. BUUUTTT Dont answer his texts. His IM's (if you have aim) Or his messages. Just block him out of your life.
When you answer him back, hes getting the idea that you like him too . Which i dont know why because, like you said its only been two days. Hes getting way ahead of hisself.
but ignore him.
Or bring someother guy up.
Even if you dont like any other guy. Make up one. You dont even have to say his name.
Just give him a hint that you dont like him and you like someone else.
And wow. COMPLETE STALKER ha.
he went to your work?
wow. that HAD to be awkward.
Next time if he comes by your work again and he actually goes through the drive-thru just play it cool.
Dont look all EXCITED to see him.
Just say HI and well. ocasionall Whats up?
If he askes you to hangout with him, and if you dont want to, make something up.
Yup, it takes lying.
Say you had plans
Im just telling you IF it happens.
Butt yeahh.
Or you can do it in an easy short way.
Say " I dont like you, and i dont like you following me"
Or whatevver.
Mix it up however you want it.
but .. that kinda seems harsh BUT true.
Anyways
i gave you all i had.
I hope i helped
PEACE;
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