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my boyfriend.hard time trusting him.but i like him alot.dnt
okay well i like or you can say ''love'' my bf..a lot but its hard to trust him cause like...well started ti tlk in class...i had like him for a while so then ya we started to tlk and one night we went to a 15..and we kissed lil did i know he had a girlfriend...the next day he broke up w/ her for me..but we didnt start goin out right away we were seein each other...then we started to g/o...well it lasted 3wks he broke up w/ me cause there was this rumor goin around that he was hookin it up back w/ his x..and i belived it so i was like i dnt know ..then he broke up w/ me..and went back out w/ her and i was all hell na i like him a lot so ima do what it takes...so then we started tlkin again and well he broke up w/ her (not cause of me for some other stuff) then we were hookin up for like 2 months then he told me that his x was tlkin to him again and that he liked her but he still liked me more..so i was all na i cant do that so i stoped....then he went back out w/ her...and we were tlkin as friends then more than friends....he would tell me o i like you she dont know how to be a girl and what not...she was very mean to him...well and then when he was goin out w/ her we kissed twice (i felt sooooo bad like no lie)...then he broke up w/ her and she started to g/o with someone else and him and i are goin out.....but like..i have this doubt like if he was goin out w/ her and kissed me what makes me think he wont do it to me u know...but like i love him sooooooooooooooo much and i dnt want to brake up w/ him...all i want is to be happy and not have this doubt.....what should i do???
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what u should do is get rid of distrust trust him he only did that 2 her becuase he didnt like her and didnt like da way she treated him but if he loves you obviously he wouldnt do it to you??
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If he feels that sense of distrust he is more willing to do something not trustworthy while if you show that you trust him on the outside he more willing to be trustworthy. It is all about how you present it to him. You don't have to break up with him but convince yourself there is nothing to worry about. Put him to the test by getting a friend he doesn't know to hit on him. If he kind of flirts back you know the truth and if he doesn't you officially know that you can trust him. Or even make him promise that he won't leave you. A good way to convince a guy to be honest is to make them swear on the bible. I don't know if someone has ever been struck by lightning for disobeying the promise they make but it definitely scares a guy enough to keep that promise.
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