Question Posted Saturday February 23 2008, 9:17 pm
so there's this guy named R, and i had the biggest crush on R last year and i had 5th period with him. He's really nice ans sweet and i loved talking to him.I think he liked me, but then i wasn't sure b/c he's a really flirt. Then school ended and then it started again. So now me and R don't havge any classes together, but i used to see him in the hallways all the time, and i would say hi or smile. Then i did'nt see him for a while. Like 6 months. Then i started seeing him again starting this semester, and i know he sees me. My friend says to say hi, but i'm not sure b/c i think it'll be weird if i say hi all of a sudden after 6 months. And on thursday an amazing thing happened. Okayy so i see him rite and my friend was like omgg look it's him, and i was just looking down and smiling, and stuff saying no. Then she was like omg he passed, and i aws like whatttt and i turned around and we made eye contact, and he was smilling, but i think he was smiling before i even turned around. Then i was acting like i was looking for someone else. Then i walked away pretty fast. It was soo baddd..lol...
but what i really want to know is that a good sign??
and if i should say hi to him.
Honey it sounds like to me that you've got him in the bag. If you just let it slide he'll think you've got no interest and obviously thats not what you want.
Deana answered Saturday February 23 2008, 11:22 pm: DUUUDE! lol your going through what i went through. Well kinda.
SAY HI.
TRUST ME
Ive liked this kid for soooo long and we never talked, and i was pretty shy too. My friends would be like " Just say hi" and i was like " UH.. noo . Its ninth period, i didnt even say hi to him in my first period. How awkward would that be?"
But guys can careless what period it is or when you say hi to him or how.
If you say hi, its good.
JUST SAY IT
I did, and me and the guy talk everyday now.
Actually. hes close to being my boyfriend
A Hi starts with everything.
Hi-- smile-- walk away
* if a conversation doesnt spark up walk away i mean.
And yeah, if he was smiling at you, He deffinitly noticed you.
Yeahhh ive done that too. The " Im going to look passed you to act like i DONT see you when i really DO see you and act like im looking for 'Billy'."
Yahh. we've all done it.
and its your nerves.
You neeed to get over it.
Starting a conversation will make your day; trust me.
A little conversation that you havent had in 6 months will make your WEEK. and eventually, if you keep asking him little questions or start little conversations, you guys will do it daily.
You will feel so good after talking to him.
Just keep that in mind when you see him.
'Just say it.. Say HI/hey. If he says hi, and he doesnt say anything else; his loss. Walk away. He probably nervous too. Let him do the work. You said HI, all he needs to do is start the convo.'
MAN AM I A PRO AT THIS!! LOL
see, i have been through this. I know how you feel.
need more advice. dude totally message me more about this and update me.
.. you can message me back on here cant yah?
anywhooo.
I hope i helped
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