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I cant mess this up
i hope this doesnt sound confusing...
lets just say ive been going out with someone for a little while now, because she asked me out the night after she found out her boyfriend was cheating on her.
she and i dated a little bit before she went out with the guy who cheated on her, and she broke up with me because she said it felt a bit weird going out with me because weve known each other for so long.
Now, we're going out again, but i have trouble keeping a conversation going... I dont know what it is about her, it's just that there's something about her that makes me have to think very hard before saying something... it's weird, I know, but she's just so quiet sometimes and it's like you never know what she's thinking.
I guess Im just kinda scared that she thinks im boring and quiet, and im not. once we find something to talk about, we can talk for a really long time, its just that sometimes I have absolutely no idea what to say.
I like her a lot, and I do not want to mess this up. PLEASE HELP ME.
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Awh, don't worry. As being a girl I can tell you that we love it when we can tell that I guy is nervous, it shows vulnerability and we think it's adorable :) Well, most do... including me. Like for example when you're slow-dancing and you can feel them shaking, we think it's so sweet. So what makes you feel like you're going to mess this up so bad? Has she showed any signs? If not, don't fret. If you try too hard to keep the relationship going it will look like you're desperate or you've done something wrong that you're trying to make up for. Either that or you just made a mistake in a past relationship and you feel as if you have to live up to standards. Be yourself around her, if she doesn't accept that, then she's missing out on you. When you can't think of anything to say, compliment her. We love that! ;) Like for example, "Your hair looks nice like that." or "That color looks good on you." or maybe even ask her to hang out sometime. Talk about bands, movies, music, fun places to go, and crack a few jokes if you want. Don't worry; just act natural. And it's not weird to be speechless, it just means you really like her.
Much Luck.
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First of all, thats really sweet of you. I'm sure that she feels the same way. You KNOW you like her when you feel that you have to think before you say somthing to her. You don't realize it, but you probably think that you don't want to loose her again. If you do, she might brake up with you. But one thing that you might want to talk to her about is how you feel about this situation. This is very common among people (usually teens) that feel like they could spend their WHOLE lifes with that person.
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Hope I Helped!!
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