I am 14 almost 15 and I'm a girl who just started high school this year ya a freshman and this kid mike I met him at my elementary school but only talked to him once so he decided to sit with me and my friends at lunch this year and I have decided I lke him, but I keep asking him who he likes and he says oh a couple people and you dont know them either so I dont think he likes me but at lunch he sits across from me and always laughs at my jokes and flirts with me I cant tell if he likes me or hes just being a guy?? I need some good advice!!!
I REALLY LIKE THIS KID THOUGH!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Aubrey answered Friday October 5 2007, 1:05 pm: ok first off of course he's not going to say he likes you. this guy sounds kinda shy. most guys are, even if they don't realize it. his vagueness means he probably does like you. he says other people you don't know, that means either it is you, or it's someone you know and he knows you like him and doesn't want to hurt your feelings. from what you said there's at least a 90% chance it's you he likes. if you want some proof about whether he likes you or is just a flirt, look at how he is around other girls. see how he acts around them and compare it to how he acts around you, and you'll have your answer. [ Aubrey's advice column | Ask Aubrey A Question ]
mekago5 answered Friday October 5 2007, 11:27 am: I agree that you should stop asking him who he likes. Whether or not he likes you, it might make him feel uncomfortable. If he is shy, he's not going to come right out and say he likes you anyway.
You should hang out with him more outside of school so you can get to know each other better. Maybe invite him to do something with a group of friends... like pizza or bowling or something. That way neither or you will feel awkward. If that goes well and he shows signs of liking you back, then ask him to do something just the two of you... go to the movies or something. If he says yes, then he's probably interested and if he says no just keep him around as a good friend. You never know, he could always change his mind.
blackrose13 answered Friday October 5 2007, 8:48 am: aw.. sorry
well you cant realy tell guys have comlicated personalites they can be all nice because they take you as a friend or even as a sister or if they have feelings for you maybe those 'couple of people could be..lets say
'you' like maybe your one of them
stop asking him so that he would not get annoyed
hope i helped
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