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Did I say something wrong? Ugh, I don't get guys
Well i've liked this guy forever, And I am pretty sure he liked me too. We always flirted like non stop. But now summer is coming and I can tell we are trying to keep in contact with eachother (it's hard considering he doesn't have a phone) Anyway We talked online EVERYDAY Since schools let out. Then one night, I imed him and I was like "Omg joshh!" And he was like "yo" And then I was like "Omg, I just watched the scariest movie and I'm home alone and freaking out" And he was like "cool" And i was like "not really" And then he just signed off. It was so odd, he's never like that and he always says bye to me and i figured he would be there for me or something. So I just thought to myself, 'okay I don't know what i did for him to act like that so when he is ready to talk I will let him I/M me next time' Well, We haven't talked in 8 days because he Hasn't imed me. Honestly, he used to always i/m me until that ONE NIGHT I IMED HIM! What the heck did i do? And what the heck do i do?! help! Thanks so much<33
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You did nothing,He is just a boy, Maybie something was wrong with his computer. Stop thinking to negative about it, think positve and dont be scared to IM him.
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Girl, we will NEVER understand guys, hell even with me being 34,I still don't get some of things they say and do.
Why haven't you gotten in touch with him just to see what the hell his problem is. It could've been a bad connection or something. Ask him if he got your last IM before he signed off. It is best not to just assume that he's tripping (which he most likely his tripping!) but anyway, let's give him the benefit of the doubt first. So, try to find out what the deal is and then if he still acts like that upon you trying to resolve the possible problem, if there is one, then cut him off!!! Doesn't matter who IM's or contacts who first for real, it's all about the communication girl - regardless of who makes it first, Now, onc it has been made and you still feel funny or like he's being weird, then don't IM him anymore until he IM's you back.. you feel me??
Hey, good luck and you didn't do anything!!! "smile"
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I agree with the other answer, something is probably going on in his life. My boyfriend of three months broke up with me because of family problems he didn't even tell me about until later, so guys don't usually explain what's wrong. They tend to throw things off without really meaning to, it's kind of what they feel they need to do. So yeah, when he's online just be like, Hey, long time no talk. and act casual. I don't suggest bringing up the topic of him not talking to you for a while until a little later into the conversation. hope I helped!
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Honestly, it sounds like somethings going on, but it probably isn't you. Guys are weird if you notice, one day they act happy to see you, then the next day they act like you don't exist. I wouldn't worry about him, but listen to your heart, if you think something is wrong, push him to see what it is. He may like you a lot, and may be scared. Guys often take the emotionally inarticulate route, by not saying things. So don't take it personally, and don't worry. Next time your on, if your wondering about him, just say like "How are you?" That can lead to what really may be bothering him, if there is something bothering him.
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