I am a 13 year old female and i LOVE to shop! I have a passion for fashion!My name is Kayla but please call me BabiK.I am an all-around-person! and i love all my friends to death! Props to all my bestiess! I love all my hot girls with all my
E-mail: Kj4angels@aol.com
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Occupation: BABY-SITTER
Age: 13
Member Since: July 8, 2005
Answers: 17
Last Update: March 16, 2006
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Ok, here's the deal...I'm 13/f and all of the sudden I'm starting to really like my best friend, now I know that's kinda normal but here's the catch. ITS A GIRL! What is wrong with me? This isn't normal or right and I dont want her or my other friends for that matter to hate me, but I just can't make it go away! Should I just stay away from her until this weird feeling goes away? Please, I rate high! Thnx in advance (link)
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well i dont think you should ignore the feeling .. because if that is your real emotion towards her then you should go with it. Igonoring it will make it worse.. just follow your instincts and go with your true feelings.. if she is really your best friend she will understand.
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i have a boyfriend that ive been on and off again all summer long and i think that i finally realize that he is using me and he doesnt really care about me, and yesterday he kept getting in my pants and i kept telling him not to and he seemed mad at me and kept doing it,i think its time for us break up,wat do u think?? (link)
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Well yes i do think that you and your boyfriend should break-up. If he doesnt respect you and he doesnt care what you tell him about not going in your pants then he probley doesnt really care about you. i would end the whole thing before things get out of hand.
WELL I REALLY HOPE I HELPED!~!~!
PLEASE RATE!~!~!
~BabiK
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Hey, my best friend wants to have a summer party, before school starts, and we have no idea where to have it. We can't have it at her house, she said it won't work. We don't live by the beach, and we want to have it somewhere where we can be alone with some guys. Please help, we're totally stuck. Thanks.
x3 Erin (link)
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well you could have it at like a teen dance club or something. you will dance with guys there and the DJ will kept the party pumpin! u can rent it out so only your friend and her party are there. or have it at like a hotel and rent the swimming pool.
I REALLY HOPE I HELPED~!~!~!~
PLEASE RATE~!~!~!~
-BabiK
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Okay so there`s this boy and i really like him. a lot. okay so i hang out with him a lot then one day i told him i like him and he blushed and changed the subject right away. so we were hanging out 2 days ago and he was being really sweet. not that he`s never sweet or anything but he was different. it was me and him. he was being really nice. he insisted on buying me food. when it started pouring on us.. he took of his sweater and gave it to me. everytime i look at jeff i catch him looking at me and he blushes and then he smiles at me. what do you think? do you think he likes me or is he just being nice because he knows i like him? you don`t have to be positive but i just want a few opinions. PLEASE help! i rateee =D
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I think that he likes you. i mean i dont think a guy would blush purpusly just to make you feel good. plus while you liked him (before he knew you like him) he probley like you but he was too afraid to tell you. you should hang out with him alot, if u still like him. he sounds really sweet, hold on to him ;)
I REALLY HOPE I HELPED!~!~!
PLEASE RATE HIGH !~!~!
~BabiK
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Alright I want whoever is reading this right now to kno that I am not anorexic or balemic and will never become either of those. My problem is that my friends and family say that I am really thin and that I am so lucky... you know all those encouraging things... I feel like I'm kind of chubby and that I put on weight Im 5"4 and I weigh 106 am i overweight? If so are there any healthy ways to lose weight quickly. I'll rate anyone who gives me a good answer very well
thank you
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You are so not over weight! Just eat healthy and excercise and u will stay skinny. i know everyone thinks that their fat or overweight but really i dont think ur family and friends would really tell you that you are skinny if you really werent. I REALLY HOPE I HELPED~!~!~!~PLEASE RATE HIGH!~!~!~!
~BabiK
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Theres this guy and he is 16 and sometimes i think i have feelings for him lyk a boyfriend but then i dont.....he likes me and he said he wanted to screw me and i told him id let him but i dont know if i would let him because im only 12 and loosing my virginity at my age seems a lil to fast but i feel ready, and i think i want to?? should I??
~Clueless~ (link)
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I really think you are a little young. in like 3 years it would be ok but think about it if you let him, do you think you will regret it later, I DO! Tell him you are'nt ready for something like that. If he really likes you he will understand and wait. I REALLY HOPE I HELPED!~!~!PLEASE RATE!~!~!
-BabiK
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What is your opinion of hippies? (link)
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Hippies are cool. I love the way they are involved. You cant change a hippie, if that is the way they wan't to live their life. I REALLY HOPE I HELPED!~!~! PLEASE RATE!~!~!
-BabiK
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I really like my new boyfriend alot. He's my first & we have a great time together. However, I'm deathly afraid of a broken heart. I know I should live a little & not be afraid but I can't help it. Now I have the urge to break things off with him before he breaks up with me. What should I do? Can anyone who's experienced lend a helping hand?
Thank You! (link)
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I know the feeling of being afraid of being dumped although, if you really like him you shouldnt dump him. If you too are right for eah other then you will last awhile. Plus my first boyfriend sounds like yours, i was afraid, but he didnt break up with me we decided together that it was time to date other people. It wasnt horrible at all. Trust me it wont be as bad as it sounds. If he starts to act like he is going to dump you just talk to him about it !! I REALLY HOPE I HELPED! PLEASE RATE!~!~!
-BabiK
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I'm like a hugeeee tomboy. Like I wear long shorts and football jerseys. Im 14 and going into highschool, never had a boyfriend. Will i ever get a boyfriend. I mean, i dont wear makeup, and im big bulky and muscular. I want a bf, but i think maybe they are intimidated by me. Changing the way i am is NOT an option, i like who i am. PLEASE HELP. (link)
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You should'nt have to change who you are for a boy. Don't worry you will totally find a guy that likes you for who you are. Just be pacient. If you think a boy is intiminated by you then you have to find a way to show him the sweet sensitive side of you. Like be nice and complement him and stuff. I REALLY HOPE I HELPED!~!~!
-BabiK
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my friend is lee and i have ben crushing on him on and off all year and he asked me out earlier this summer but i rudley said NO! and my mom was like who is that and she was like aww taylor but i mean she hates me going out with guys she hasnt meet ....she has only meet him once and that was in 6th grade ... so i didnt wanna say yea and my friend was at my house when it happend and im like really popular along with all my firends ! and hes not that popular! so i didnt want my friends to be like EW! and well we started talking again and like he says he will kall me then he doesnt! it bothers me! but he broke up for his gurlfriend for me!!! and i was like you didnt have to do that cuz i didnt want me 2 lead him more cuz i dont like him as much as he likes me but he was my first kiss in 6th grade ! and i am begaining to like him more and more !!!but im afraid if we go out again he will just dump me because wut his friends say ...he says i am one of the hottest gurls ever!!! but i dunno ! help me!
please answer these questions !
A: do you think i shold go out with him
B: is it wrong for me to get up set when he doesnt kall snice were not goin out!
C Do you think i sould be scard to go go in this relation ship because of bein dumped !!
*THX* *I* *RATE* *HIGH*
*Tacy* (link)
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A: Totally he seems like a sweet guy, i mean even your mom aproves! Plus HELLO YOU could always dump HIM if things don't work out. For get the whole popular-unpopular thing if u like him do it!
B: No it is not wrong to get upset, but i totally think that this is a hint that you like him. Once i was friends with a guy, and he said he would call me, he did'nt and i called him, he asked me out on that phone call, IT WAS AMAZING!
C: Yes i can understand you are scared but always remember that u can dump him first!!!
I REALLY HOPE I HELPED! ;)
-BabiK
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ok here is the thing.
my sis is lke in love with this guy and he says he likes her too but he is bein a total jerk about the hole thing....
she is gettin torn up by the situation...
what can we do
*KASHIA MARIA* (link)
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Well if he is being a total jerk to her then he cant possibly like her. i would tell her not to waste her time with this guy. "THERE ARE OTHER FISH IN THE SEA" He was probley just lying to her about the whole i like you too thing. she should get over him go out with another guy to make the jerk jelous then see what he has to say. I REALLY HOPE I HELPED!~!~!
-BabiK
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13/f i like this guy but he's 16!! i don't know what to do!! we haven't really talked that much..but i know alot about him from his friends..i like love him so much!! what do i do? (link)
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If you really like the guy tell him how you feel. I am sure he will understand. talk to him a lot but dont look like your life revolves around him (even though it may)hang out more with him and try to hang out like a couple and not just "friends". talk to his friends too. I REALLY HOPE I HELPED!~!~!
-BabiK
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um.. my boyfriend wants a lapdance from me.. im all for it but there's one problem.. i've never given one before so i dont really know how.. What do I do? (link)
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TRY TO BE SEXY! Move your butt and chest a lot. kiss him, but not too much. act confedent! Try to put your butt or your breasts right in his face so he has no choice but to look at it. rub his right or left leg ( while he is sitting) with your spead legs. move around a lot and try to get on top of him but dont look to eager. if he really looks not interested and bored once you start just stop and start making out with him. I REALLY HOPE I HELPED!~!~!
-BabiK
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can anyone give me the sOng title that goes ..
im hanging by a moment here with you
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anyone know it by any chance?
thank yah =) xoxo (link)
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It is called HANGING BY A MOMENT by LIFEHOUSE great song i really think that song is going to make it big~!~! I REALLY HOPE I HELPED
-BabiK
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hey im 13 im about to turn 14 and i m in high school i want a good b day party last year i had it roller skatin idk wat i should do this year i was thinkin anout renting a space nd thro w a dj party but idk any good idea out there please help.................. (link)
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Well i know that when you get older you totally get more picky about birthday partys and everything has to go just right and perfect. I suggest a backyard party. Hire a DJ and some entertaining things like games and things to do. Hire a nail artist or hena tatooest. And if u have a pool totally make it an optional activity and people can hang in the pool and out with out being bored. Also if you and your friends like this idea get one of those big bouncy things, those are good for laughs. I REALLY HOPE I HELPED ;)
-BabiK
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Hey, here's something quick. My friends and I have nothing to do today! We really want to go out! It's raining and is supposed to continue all day! Have any fun ideas for teen girls? Mucho Gracias! (link)
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Well i am a teen girl too and i am so bored on rainy days. i totally suggest going to the mall and just shop till you drop! Or go see a movie! You could also go online and look for like beauty things to do.like homemade facial cream or manicures. It works for me and my friends. I REALLY HOPE I HELPED ;)
-BabiK
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any ideas on plucking your eyebrows w/ less pain?? plz hurry!! thanks! (link)
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Tell me about it i am totally nervous about plucking mine. my mom showed me this awsome razor that you can use it is like a mini razor and it doesnt hurt at all. Also waxing isnt that bad, i know you can basicly get your eyebrows waxed at any nail salon. that is really cheap and it only hurts a tad. My first suggestion is the razor. I REALLY HOPED I HELPED! :)
- BabiK
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