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This Can't Be Right
Ok, here's the deal...I'm 13/f and all of the sudden I'm starting to really like my best friend, now I know that's kinda normal but here's the catch. ITS A GIRL! What is wrong with me? This isn't normal or right and I dont want her or my other friends for that matter to hate me, but I just can't make it go away! Should I just stay away from her until this weird feeling goes away? Please, I rate high! Thnx in advance
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Wow this is a big deal! Ok well its ok to like another girl. So don't feel like your wierd or somethings wrong with you. Now you probly don't want to hide it from your friend for ever just tell her that you think you have feeling for her. tell her not to freak out becuase your not like going to make moves on her and stuff. I really don't think your friends will hate you for this and if they do well then they werent very good friends. Don't just stay away from her keep talking but just dont make a huge move on her act like you always do and this feeling might not go away so if you have to just tell her how you feel. Hope everything turns out ok.
♥ jackie
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Nope. You're perfectly normal. At your age hormones are going wild and what not. Teen years are confusing and experimental(I feel old lol). It's natural to develop feelings for friends you're close to, regardless of their sex. It's not abnormal nor wrong. I know it feels weird, it's something new. It might be what others have called a phase, and later on you may 'grow' out of it. Or you might not. Either way, there's nothing wrong with you and there's no reason to stay away from your friend. I'm not saying you should tell her about it, at least not yet. See how your feelings develop or if they change before laying something like that out on the table. And I would say that if it was a guy, too. :)
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No, there is definitly NOTHING wrong with you. This is as normal as seeing cars on the highway during rush hour! It happens so much. Most likely, it's just a phase and you will pass over it quickly. Don't tell anyone yet and if you do start to like LOVE her, then maybe you should tell her. I think it's just a phase and it will go away in a matter of weeks. Just don't worry about it and continue to hang with your freinds!
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Well if there ur true friends they'll except you for who you are so dont ignore your feelings and you have nothing to worry about its normal.
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Aw. There is definatly nothing wrong with you. Its perfectly normal. There are a ton of people just like you. Just stick to the feeling. Don't ignore it. If they are true friends they will except you for it . You are perfectly normal tho. Dont make yourself change the way you feel. Smile!:] Things are going to be okay.
Rachel ♥
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There's nothing wrong with you!! Loads and loads of girls go through this. Most of them get over it but some end up homosexual- either way it doesn't matter. From what it sounds like however, you're not happy with these feelings and therefore it sounds like you're one of the many girls that goes through this phase. It's basically just yourself trying to sort out who you are- you're at that sort of age. Don't avoid your friend- that could mean that she wonders what the hell is going on and then it could get all awkward with her asking questions. Basically carry on as you are- being her friend. Pretty soon this phase will end- i can guarantee it and you'll look back and have a giggle to yourself! Promise ;)
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well i dont think you should ignore the feeling .. because if that is your real emotion towards her then you should go with it. Igonoring it will make it worse.. just follow your instincts and go with your true feelings.. if she is really your best friend she will understand.
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