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ITS SoOoO EmbArIsinG!!
ok, i/m turning 14 in like a few weeks.. and my mom wont let me go out w/ this guy i like alot... i liked him 4 like 4 months n now he stared to like ask me to go to the mall n stuff.... n then when i asked my mom she said yes.. and then me and my best friend n i got in a fight... n when me n my bff went to the mall w. a bunch of pple.. shes like.. u'r gunna get raped.. n i didnt get touched!!(only followed) but then shes like.. i would rather you and anthony go together.. i trust her more then maddy (my best friend) soo yesterday he asked me to go bowling w/ him.. n i asked today.. n shes like.."sure you can, but i need to talk to his dad so i know that he's going too..." ITS SO EMBARISING!!! PLeaSe help..
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First of all, your mom is right. She does need to talk to his dad. Why? Because you are only 13, going on 14. There is nothing wrong with your mom wanting to talk to your friends dad to see what is going on. They need to discuss who is picking up, who is dropping off, what time, etc. I'm not sure where the embarassment is, because she is only concerned about your safety. I'm sure that your friends dad wants to talk to your mom about what is going on as well. There isn't really anything you can do considering you are a minor and she isn't doing anything wrong. You should be happy that she is letting you go.
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xoxo,
Brianna
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this is completely normal behavior, your mom is doing what every other mom does.
you are only 14. my little sister is 14 too. my dad wont even let her hang out with boys. Feel lucky that your mother isnt so strict, and that shes actually considering it.
if you really really wanna go out with him, let your parents get to know eachother, because once your mom meets or talks to his parents, she'll feel more comfortable with you being around him, and will let you go out with him even more! =]
dont worry about being embarassed. It should only happen 1 or 2 times and then she will trust your BF more, and wont be as nervous about the two of you hanging out.
hope this helps!
steph 21
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