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Hey my name Jen and i try to help other people by giving advise. Please feel free to write any questions and i will definalty answer them! Please rate me 1-5 (5 being the best )and please give me feedback and tell me how my advice column is going but dont be mean or rude thankz!
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I have this problem with guys. Like every single time I date a guy and I like them lot and stuff. But I end up breaking up with them in the end. It's like I can't commit to just one guy. I want a long-term relationship but I can't cause I can't commit. Its like when I start getting attached I push him away. How could I commit to just one guy and actually stay with him and not break it up? Any advice or suggestions? Thanks in advance!
wow i just wanna say i feel the same way about myself hahah im just not ready to commit i guess.
So, I liked this boy and i told him, and he said he liked me too, so we start to get to know eachother better and blahblahblah, then i start talking to boy number 2, and he is so amazing, like the guy i've always dreamed of havin' kind of a thing. We were just friends and then he broke up with his girlfriend and i helped him along with it and we became real close, and we are always like "love you" and such, then boy 1's best friend just got lead on and dumped by this one chick and he was like "I WOULD DIE IF THAT HAPPENED TO ME!" so that just made it worse, like i can't do that too him now. So he asked me out a few days later and of course i said yes, i still like him at this point but i like boy2 more. That night boy2 got back together with his girlfriend and i just got real angry at him for it. And i like "confessed my love for him" you could say. And he said "I was actually going to ask you out later but then you told me your with the other Evan" So, that really screwed things over. Right now i don't have a lot of feelings for boy1 ((the one i am dating now)), but strong ones with boy2, and he says he has better feelings for me than his current girlfriend. But for us to be together i would have to break up with boy1, and he would break up with his girlfriend. So we can be happy together. But is hurting the other two really worth it?
Do i break up with Boy1 so i can be with boy2?
I use boy1 and 2 because their both named Evan.
Please Help??????
whatever makes you happy is the right answer. look at it this way, is it worth suffering when you know you could be with the one you love? dont make a mistake by letting your chance pass you by. If you like boy 2, go get him, he lieks you too. So if you both like each other go out bc if you waste ur time with your other bf and he wastes his time on his gf, your really making it worse for them when ur with them but don't really like them. ohh andd ps evans a great name considering my bfs name is that =p
OK WEll i HAVE A MAjOR CRUSh ON THiS qUY. && hE liKESz SOMEONE ElSE![ ERR ] WhAT ShOUlD i dO!!??Ugh!! PPlEASE HElP ME bEFORE i gO iNSANE!
SigNEd - xCONFUSEdx
DUHH TELL HIM YOU LIKE HIM =) or you'll regret it
hey well me and my friend keep getting into fights over this guy and we just fight alot and all this different fighs 2.i mean i like her and all i just dont like how she acks w what should i do stay friends with her or lose her???
Hey just talk to your friend about it. If she was a true friend she really wouldnt be fighting with you. Hope u make a gr8 desicion, i cant really tell u weither you should or shouldnt be friends with her
Okay, well at my camp... there's this guy that both me and my best friend like. sometimes it seems like he likes me, other times her. she liked him probably 5 days before me, and she's telling people that i just copied her! i think she's just mad because more of the time it seems *like he likes me, but i dunno. what should i do?????
Well you can always ask him who he likes but dont get disapointed if its not you..He could just be flirting and have a girlfriend. I think you should tell him how u feel. Hope everything works out! xox Jen
Hi,
I have a problem with this guy i like. i don't know if he likes me but my friend told him i like him. i never said anything. i did find out that they do im each other and talk about me. she said he will ask me out but i don't know. then he finally asked me out. i said yes. the next day i found him making out with my sister. i walked over to him and i said excuse me? then he ran away. we havn't spoken for 3 days. what should i do? i am 15 and a female. please help me. my screen name is curliefrie92.
Well if he was making out with your sister then obviously hes too immature for you. You need to think about if you can trust him again. I wish you the best of luck xoxo -Jen
Um well my ex bf, who is the same age as me (12) likes my bestfriends little sister who is only 10. and me and my best friend are really afraid for her sister because one of the reasons i broke up with him is because he is waay to obsessive about his gf. and her sister is just to young to do that but it seems as if she likes him. and she probably does because he sweet talks you for a lil while befor he asks you out. i don't want her to end up going out with him. he is kinda a perv so wht shud me and my best friend do?
Hey there are many things you can do/....
1. you and your bffl tell your boyfriend
2. you both tell your bffl sister
3. tell both of them
4. go to the parents =)
5. forget it ever happened and ignore it
my friend taylor and i have been friends fo a couple of years and we got in to this fight and i said sorry but she ignored me i really wanna be friends with her again but she wont forgive me..
what should i do? my aim screen name is
x liddlemonkey please write back
x33 paige
i got into a really big fight w/ my best firend ( the stupiest reason) nd she never wanted to talk to me or speak to me again! well i told her what i wanted to say and i gave her space and she thought it out and forgave me.
hey! i want to put a little advice thing in my pro..im already a member but i dont have a little page of my own, how do i do it ?
ON THE BOTTOM of the page there are sections get advice , give advise, welcome ___ , miscellanous. Under miscessious go to link to us and it will bring you to a page where you copy the code AND paste it in ur aim profile. Hope i helped! xox JEN
um.. my boyfriend wants a lapdance from me.. im all for it but there's one problem.. i've never given one before so i dont really know how.. What do I do?
well if you dont no how to do it then obviosuly your too young and not ready, just wait. Hope i helped xoxo -JEN
I'm 17/f and ive never had a bf. Everytime i like some guy, and he ends up liking me back..I get really uncomfortable and scared away. I dont do it on purpose, it just happens everytime. What could be the reason Im subconciously doing this?
You obviously need to be yourself (not ur shy self) Look noticiable and be outgoing then you'll get a bf, Is there anyone you like? Try to get them to notice you and it doesnt hurt to flirt! =) wish you luck, hope i helped! xoxo -JEN
hey,one of my bestfriends goes with a huge jerrrrk,but she doesnt care because she says she loves him,everyone is telling her that he treats her like crap and she knows it but she just doesnt realize that she deserves better.and i dont want to get involved because she might get mad at me for getting in her relation ship buisness.what should i do?
Well theres two things you can do,
one: do nothing execpt wait till she realizes herself that he is treating her like crap and she deserves better.
two: Or you can talk to her about it and tell her she deserves better, she shouldnt get mad at you if she was a true friend and honestly i don't think you would care if you werent a true friend.
I like the second choice better becasue at least you no you tried something. I hope everything works out. Good luck! Hope i helped
hi..me and this guy talk alot on the computer but when im around him we barely talk at all..on the computer he tells me evrarything but when hes around me its like we just met..plus he i think hes hott and he thinks i am..hA ha what do i do
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well i can see that you guys can express yourself easyier w/o seeing the other person, its nothing to worry about you guys are just shy. When your around each other just make sure to act the same way you would on the computer and think about things to talk about, hope everytihng works out
I went to a friend's camp this last weekend. She told me that there was this guys a few years olded then us but he was annoying, stupid, and ugly.Then we went out onto the lake and he came along. He had this really big tube and we were all just chillin on it and pushing each other off. then one time it was just me and him and i justed to like him but kept myself from liking him because of what my friend said. i know it doens't matter because i probably won't see him again but should i of let what my friend say keep me from liking this guy?? please help!
I think you should have your own opinion and make up your mind for yourself. If you like this guy then you could like him, it has nothing to do with your friend's decision weither she likes him or not. Its ok if she doesnt like him it matters that you do! Maybe ur firend will recongize this : Dont judge a book by its cover! ;-) Good luck and hope i helped
ok I broke up with my bf and from doing that my bf and his friends found me and beat me up pretty badly....i meen no broken bones but still pretty badly....so I was wonderin if he can get in like trouble 4 that because i kno like at school wen kids beat eachother up they dont get in trouble and i was wondering if this is like that...(my ex also did this to his last gf)....and is this my fault because thats how I feel..that its my fault...cuz my ex said that it was and it kind of is because im the one who chose to break up with him in the first place...and thats y he beat me up with his friends...well ya so do u think its my fault 2?
BOYS ARENT ALLOWED TO HIT AND BEAT UP GIRLS you can go to the police and they will get in trouble. I cant believe they did that 2 you, thats just wrong, so tell the police and good luck! Hope i helped
hey umm i no this sounds wrong, but i think i really like my cousin. i dont know what to do, i mean hes family and all and he lives like 6 hours away and i dont no if he would ever like me but what can i do?
Umm sry but Theres a million people out there im sure you'll find someone else that you'll like. If you want to go out with him then fine butyou might end up on the Jerry Springer show. Hope i helped..
I would like to know from you guys; what is a fast sure fire way of making some quick cash. And please no-one say get a job because i am trying i just need money now and fast.. All help appreciated and rewarded.
Thanks
anthony
ps 16
I have some really great ideas hope they help...
babysitting
selling lemonade on a really hot day
ask your parents/family member/or friend
--- hope some of these answers helped
15/f
okay i moved to a different city about a year ago. there is this guy that is like one of my best friends and everyone knows that he likes me and i like him too((but not alot)). ive gone to dances with him, but im afraid that if he asks me out things will get all weird, and i dont know if i would be able to kiss him without feeling odd.
please help me!
Well since you guys are like best firends you should have no problem knowing each other which is a great for a relationship. Just remember 2 continue being yourself and dont worry about "feeling odd" if you kissed him, if he likes you and you like him it shouldn't be a problem..good luck and hope i helped ;-)
ok well my parents have been divoced for 2 years and i live with my dad and see my mom on the weekends. well my dad wants to move out of the city,far away from all of my friends and family, and i have never moved before.i dont want to go to a new high school and i dont want to move away from my family and friends so my mom offered for me to come live with her, but if i do my dad will keep my sister and we will be split up and i will never see her. and if i go with my dad i will never see my mom and i will be stuck with my stupid step mom who is a bitch, who should i go with?
This is a really hard decision for you. The best advice i can give you is that you need to talk to your parents about it. I cant give you an answer that may change ur whole life. Tell your parents how you feel. I hope everything works out nd GOOD LUCK. Hope i helped ;-)
Hey i need help with makeing a new sn..
stuff about me:
guy
love tha beach
uses works like awesome and stuff like that
im 14...
please help me!
here are sum ideas:...
hottbeachbabe14
awesomebabee1
beachcutie14
summercutie05
hope some of these helped..