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my ex bf


Question Posted Monday July 4 2005, 6:24 pm

ok I broke up with my bf and from doing that my bf and his friends found me and beat me up pretty badly....i meen no broken bones but still pretty badly....so I was wonderin if he can get in like trouble 4 that because i kno like at school wen kids beat eachother up they dont get in trouble and i was wondering if this is like that...(my ex also did this to his last gf)....and is this my fault because thats how I feel..that its my fault...cuz my ex said that it was and it kind of is because im the one who chose to break up with him in the first place...and thats y he beat me up with his friends...well ya so do u think its my fault 2?

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NicolesxOxAdvice answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 10:50 pm:
NO!! i absolutly thinks its no ones fault but truly i dont think he should be beating on girls he can go to jail for that he shouldnt be touching you just because you wanted an end to a relationship ..

Well i hope you get better let me kno how everything is :)

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oh_snap_its_Me answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 10:25 pm:
OMG, it is not your fault at all. he is an abuser !! report him. he should get in trouble. i am so sorryy !! it is not your fault at all !!

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SoInToYoUx0x answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 1:06 pm:
well a guy should never lay a hand on a girl no matter what happens between the guy and the girl. you should tell someone an adult the police a teacher anyone that you trust and tell them what he did to you. i know that what he did to you is herasment but i dotn know if it is sexual hersament but he can get arrest for it. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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NeverLetGoOfYou answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 9:56 am:
Thats sooo wrong. You should definatly tell some teacher or some one at the school and get him in trouble. Cus first of all Guys DONT hit girls. and he must have been a real ass if he did. Second of all you were just going out, its not like you guys were sworne to get married and u ruined it. You have the right to break up with him. You obviusly felt uncomfterbal about somthing so the relation ship wouldnt work out any way. I really dont thik its your fault. I mean a lot of times in shool if its 2 chicks fighting or to guys they might not get in much trouble, but a guy hit a girl , he can get in a lot . and you didnt start it or any thing so you shud have nothing to feel bad.

Hope all goes well.
Becky

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BabiixoxJen answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 9:56 am:
BOYS ARENT ALLOWED TO HIT AND BEAT UP GIRLS you can go to the police and they will get in trouble. I cant believe they did that 2 you, thats just wrong, so tell the police and good luck! Hope i helped

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Amber922Nicole answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 6:38 pm:
wait! hold on!! boys are NOT supposed to hit girls! you call the cops and trust me they will get his ass in lock up...you hold you head up hunny..you have to tell an adult about this..this is sum serious shit..because i would kno this... my dad is a cop...but neways i hope i helped!!

<3 Amber Nicole

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Irishdude405 answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 4:10 pm:
Listen You have every Right To break up with him. You dont have to stay with a relationship if you are unhappy. He on the other hand HAS NO RIGHT touching you . you should tell your parents or a guidance counselor. No boy should ever touch you like that Ever. Dont Blame yourself Ok? this kid sounds Sick in the head. im serious tho you really need to tell someone about this.Ill be here for you if you need more advice

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x0x_jenners_x0x answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 4:36 am:
Omg sweetie! Im soo sorry that is horrible. first of all this is not your fault what so ever! He had no right AT ALL to touch you! And yes he could get in trouble for this. You should most definitly tell an adult that you trust(parents, teacher, couch, ect.) about this! Especially if did this to other girls too..if you dont tell someone for yourself do it for the next girl he gets involved with. But whatever you do remember it isnt your fault, so dont feel guilty for it! Wish you the best!

<3 Jenny

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dancinqueen08 answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 12:34 am:
Of course this isn't your fault. You have the right to break up with the guy and by the looks of things it was the right choice. You need to tell the authorities ASAP!!!!! He should not feel like he has the right to beat girls period. Especially just because they chose to break up with him. Obviously he has some issues, but he needs to get arrested for what he did to you. He ASSAULTED you and that is against the law. He could get in a lot of trouble and he deserves it. When he gets in trouble, it will be HIS fault and don't let him make you think any differently. He chose to harm you. Get help as soon as possible. You need to stop him from hurting anyone else. Good Luck.

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KillingMeSoftly answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 12:11 am:
OKAY! yes he can get into serious trouble for that you need to tell someone about it right away... no guy should beat up on a girl thats just fuckin psycho. he needs help ANGER MANAGEMENT!! if i ever see him id beat his ass.. if hes big ill get some guys to do it lol... well i hope your okay hun you need to find someone way better than him though seriously. &hearts;

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t0xicParadiSe answered Monday July 4 2005, 11:48 pm:
sweety its not your fault at all.
yes he can actually get in trouble for hurting you like that.
you should talk to your parents if you havent already and maybe report this to the police by doing this you can protect other girls so he wont hurt them like he hurt you and his last ex gf
hope i helped if you need anything else feel free to ask and stay real make sure no guy ever brings you down

if you need anything else feel free to ask

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crazyoutyamind answered Monday July 4 2005, 11:29 pm:
you need to tell an older adult and no its not your falt at all so dont feel like that! i mean if you dinnt like him then you dinnt like him well i hope i helped and if you have ne more quesitons just drop em in my inbox

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AnonymousAdviceGiver answered Monday July 4 2005, 11:19 pm:
This is not your fault. Tell your parents and the police immediately. He will keep doing this until someone stops him. Please tell the police.

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partygurl24 answered Monday July 4 2005, 11:18 pm:
I definitely do not think that it was your fault. Who cares if you were the one to break up with him...he still has no write to abuse you that way. Don't doubt yourself just because he say otherwise. If you want to press charges against him, and the school won't do anything, as you parents if you guys can report him and his friends to the police for abuse. I hope I helped!

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Ekaterina answered Monday July 4 2005, 10:15 pm:
I had a best friend and her bf beated her up infront of my face he broke her jaw and gave her a black eye due to the fact they broke up thats why that happened.I tried to separate them but i didnt want to get hurt either.She was in a terrible condition and no one should lay a hand on you. I suggest that you put a restraining order on him and his friends and tell some one . This is seriously dangerous i know it because i saw it infront of my eyes dont put your life in danger. Please take this into a serious consideration!Hope I helped &hearts;Kate

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MummuM answered Monday July 4 2005, 8:04 pm:
Oh my god! No hun. This isn't your fault AT ALL! He shouldn't be beating up on girls. You have to tell someone RIGHT AWAY. Either your parents or the police. He can get in a lot of trouble for doing this. There's laws out for guys beating on their girlfriends, ex's, mothers, etc. He can get charged if you take this to the cops. He'll probably never be able to come within 10 feet of you either; or he could get charged again. It's also very possible that you could put this guy in jail for awhile. But you have to tell someone about this, it's your job and right. Don't let some ex walk all over you like this.
&hearts; Krissy

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SweetCandy answered Monday July 4 2005, 7:53 pm:
hey yea your ex boyfriend can get in trouble for hitting a girl you should really tell some 1 about this if u still have the sutff cant think of the word right now an you when he beat you up take some pic and take it to the police. good luck

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CheerGurl1064 answered Monday July 4 2005, 7:47 pm:
You should tell someone as quick as you can because what they did was stupid they shouldnt do that to a girl and shouldnt do that because of a stupid reason. It is not your fault either because you dont think its working out with him so you did what you think is right for everyone.

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l3fty14 answered Monday July 4 2005, 7:42 pm:
NOOOOOOO its not your fault.. you should tell someone and he WILL get in trouble! its physical abuse. your school probably shouldnt be the first place you go to because they obiously seem like they dont enforce and rules regarding physical abuse so tell your parents or someone you trust. You dont deserve to be beaten up, neither does the other girl.

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greekouzo4me123 answered Monday July 4 2005, 7:42 pm:
ITS NOT YOUR FAULT!!!!!!!!!!!! YOUR BF IS A BITCH!!!!!! tell the police or an adult!!!

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craZlilchelC152 answered Monday July 4 2005, 7:41 pm:
1st thing ofcourse he can get in trouble, tell somebody besides school people cus their stupid and suck at everything like that. And it's not your fault at all... he didn't beat you up cuz you broke up with him, he beat you up cuz somethings rong with him, he's pretty much an asshole so you should tell sum1 before he gets his next ex. Hope i helped <3chel*c

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