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ok well my parents have been divoced for 2 years and i live with my dad and see my mom on the weekends. well my dad wants to move out of the city,far away from all of my friends and family, and i have never moved before.i dont want to go to a new high school and i dont want to move away from my family and friends so my mom offered for me to come live with her, but if i do my dad will keep my sister and we will be split up and i will never see her. and if i go with my dad i will never see my mom and i will be stuck with my stupid step mom who is a bitch, who should i go with?
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Well, it depends. Do you love your sister or your mom more? If you went either way you could raise money for a plane ticket. Like stay with your real mom for half a year then go back. But of course it is your choice.
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well thats a hard choice!! no 1 can help u choose or tell you who you should stay with!! i'm sorry to say it,but you have to make this decision on your own!! b/c think about it!!,you don't want to be split up with your sister..you should talk to your mom and see if she can let your sis stay!!!but whoever is best for you,you should stay with. but maybe you should give ur step mom a chance!! hope i helped you!! :D -bratzgyrl
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go with your mom. i mean you shouldnt have to leave your family and friends. you could always visit your dad. hey its an excuse for a road trip : ). im not telling you what to do but thats my opion. if you want you can ask me anything else.
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Wow. This is one sticky situation. Maybe negotiate options,that way you won't get separated from your friends or your sister? Or try talking to your dad about moving. Just tell him that you don't feel comfortable moving and you don't want to be separated from all your family and friends. If that doesn't work, think through who you would rather live with. If you end up with your mom, maybe you can call your sister everyday to see how everything is for her. If you end up with your dad, talk to him about how you feel about your step-mom. It may upset him but then he will understand your true feelings for your step-mom.
I hope this helped!
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Stay with your mom. Try to get your sister to be ablbe to do the same by explaining that you aren't going to leave your friends and you don't want to split away from your sister.
You'll probably have to work it out so that you (and your sister, if she stays as well) go to stay with your dad during the summer or something. It may seem bad at first, but at least you'll be with your friends during the school year, and you'll have your sister during the summer.
Actually, that could turn out real nice for you, now that I think about it more.
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i would go with your mom and beg for your sister to come too. its better than living with a step mom is a far off city. <3
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If I were you I would live with my mom. Sounds like you would be much better off. If you do live with your mom, maybe you can arrange it so that you can go see your dad and sister once a month or something like that. (Maybe less or more, depending on how far away it is.) I know this is a tough situation, but you will be split up from someone no matter who you choose to live with, so just try and decide what would be better for you. Hope this helps!
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It seems like you want to stay with your mother more, but maybe if you could get them together and just talk it over. just tell them that it is a hard position for you to be in and that maybe he shouldnt move. this is a hard position to be in and i hope it turns alright no matter what the outcome is. Explain to your father that you dont want to be far from your mother and from your friends, family, and highschool.tell your mother that you dont want to be split up from your sister. maybe they will think about it and change his mind about moving.
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This is a really hard decision for you. The best advice i can give you is that you need to talk to your parents about it. I cant give you an answer that may change ur whole life. Tell your parents how you feel. I hope everything works out nd GOOD LUCK. Hope i helped ;-)
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i say you go with you mom for these reasons:
-you won`t be far from your friends
-you won`t have to move
-if you go with your dad then you`ll be stuck with a biotchh of a step-mom =P
-if you stay with your mom, you`ll have someone who can understand your "girl problems" better than a dad or a biotchh of a step mom
-yes you will be far away from your sister.. but you guys can always write to each other, send pictures, call each other, and keep in touch.
-if you stay with you mom, you won`t be loosing as many friends, or family as you would if you went with your dad.
these are just some things that you should really think about if you go with your mom. If i were in your shoes, i would go with my mom, but this is your choice!!
best of luck!
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if it were me, i would go with my mom, but it's really up to you. if you cant stand your step mom then you should go with your mom, but you wont ever see your sister. its a hard decision to make, i hope you make the right one :)
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