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hey umm i no this sounds wrong, but i think i really like my cousin. i dont know what to do, i mean hes family and all and he lives like 6 hours away and i dont no if he would ever like me but what can i do?
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You like your cousin?? WOW! I used to like my cousin when I was 4 years old, and I don't know how old you are, but if you REALLY have feelings for this guy, then go with it, only if HE is ok with it!
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no way it is so not werid. i used to like my step bro. just tell him of course you cant do anything other then kisss but youll eventually get over it
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yeah, I used to like my cousin too. But its better off not to. It's probably just a phase and you will grow out of it (like I did) I know its hard to hide your feelings, but I wouldn't tell him because he may be completely weirded out and never want to talk to you again. Don't ruin the relationship you already have. :)
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i pretty much agree with everyone else. try to find someone else that has qualities like your cousin. your cousin prolly wouldn't like you, because he would think of you as family. but who knows, maybe he thinks the same way as you. but still, its best you just forget about your crush on your cousin. & try to find someone like him, thats not a realitive. =) hope i helped.
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Girl what are you thinking do you want to end up on Jerry springer or dr.Phil its ok to LIKE him just don't ask him out cuz thats just wrong (no affense) but there are other guyz out there who willask you out and maybe be your bf but not your couisin ok hope i hepled you can ask him out but you might get your feelings hurt Good luck Bye:-)
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Umm sry but Theres a million people out there im sure you'll find someone else that you'll like. If you want to go out with him then fine butyou might end up on the Jerry Springer show. Hope i helped..
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Don't date him unless you wanna end up on Jerry Springer.
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ok you should just get it in your head that hes your cousin. thats just wrong. if u ever got married and someone asked some other family member........ so who are you related to, bride or groom? then he would answer weirdly... actually both. then the other dude would be like wtf. so just think about that.
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If you don't know already, yes it is incest. Don't feel ashamed about your feelings...sometimes you just can't help it. But let me help you realize a few things.
Are you sure it's a "romantic like"? Perhaps you admire him so much you are mistaking it for something romantic. It's like when people think they like or are in love with someone older than them...sometimes it's only because they admire them so much.
Imagine how weird it would be if you guys did go out. What would your families (other than him lol) think? If people asked about you guys, how would you respond? Would you hide the fact (if you could) that you guys are cousins? It'd be really, really tough.
Long distance relationships don't work out anyway. It takes a lot of hard work for something that might not even be worth it in the end.
As for him liking you...truthfully he probably doesn't since he sees you as a cousin. And if you told him about how you felt your relationship with him might turn awkward. I'd advise you to just stay away from liking him like "that" to save yourself the humiliation and pain. That doesn't mean you can't still like him (as a cousin) and spend time with him. It just means you should keep your eyes out for other guys. There are a whole WORLD of boys out there. Don't limit yourself to just one (especially your cousin!). I promise you when you look back at this you'll wonder why you made such a big deal over something that wasn't even there.
Good luck!
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COME ON GIRL!!! HES YOUR COUSIN...THERE ARE A LOT OF OTHA GREAT GUYS OUT THERE WHO ARENT RELATED TO YOU! Its ok to like your cousin but idk if its worth the long distance relationship for a relative. There are plenty of otha fish in the sea who dont live 6 hours away & who arent related 2 you! lol AsH!
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i'm sorry but you can't do anything, that's a thing called incest, a no-no in all 50 states. even if you guys did get together, the entire family would be so weirded out, it just wouldn't work. wouldn't you get a little grossed out kissing a family member anyway? you can talk to him about it, but i really wouldn't do any more than that.
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Yah You really have to like someone a lot to like family. Listen I know that you like your cousin a lot but you really shouldn't .i know you cant help who you love but things like that can mess a up family lives. I think it would be in your best interest to move on and try to like someone else. E-mail me if you need someone to talk to.
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well...you just gotta talk to him, alone. tell him how you feel, he mite freak out but thats normal...you dont have many ppl liking your fmaily members hhaha well just try tht and see how it goes
hope i helped!
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Amber Nicole
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well, its your cousin... try to forget about them... thats all. good luck.
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haha!!!! I like TWO of my male cousins!!! Honestly.. you REALLY shouldn't do ANYTHING about it.. it could REALLY huRt the family, and it's not woRth it. SoRRie, Kiddo...
Best of luck to you, fRom someone who knows the feeling EXACTLY!! :P
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