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I'm 17/f and ive never had a bf. Everytime i like some guy, and he ends up liking me back..I get really uncomfortable and scared away. I dont do it on purpose, it just happens everytime. What could be the reason Im subconciously doing this?
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I used to be the same as you, and to be honest I still am sometimes. It may sound like a cliche, but you just need to meet the right guy. You're only 17 so you have a lot of time to get to know guys. When you meet someone that you really click with, you won't be scared away - you'll want to spend as much time with them as possible.
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i think the answer it that you think to much about having a bf that you scare yourself. what i mean is you may not like to take risks or you just dont know what to do when you get a bf. thats how i am. i dont like taking risks and i get nervious when a gut like me cuz i dont know what to do if a boy asked me out. so thats your problem you just dont know what to do in a relationship.
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the reason might be bacuase you never had a bf and you might be a little self conscious about this whole situation
maybe the reason you feel the way you do is because you might not have experience and just dont know how to act
just try talking to them and dont run away this might be a fear but you have to overcome your fears
i hope i helped if you need anything drop one in my inbox ♥
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You might have the feeling like omg i can't believe he likes me and then start to push him away. i do that sometimes but i dont mean to. you just have to act urself when you no someone likes you. just have fun! hope i helped!
XoXo Jess XoXo
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You obviously need to be yourself (not ur shy self) Look noticiable and be outgoing then you'll get a bf, Is there anyone you like? Try to get them to notice you and it doesnt hurt to flirt! =) wish you luck, hope i helped! xoxo -JEN
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take it from a guy..... if he likes u back then just ask him out and be urself... if it is ment to be then things will work out
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Well you may be self-conscience about yourself, a lot of people are. But if not you may be afraid of getting hurt, So your way of not letting them hurt you is not letting them in at all. But its okay to be hurt because its a part of life, and you cant experience life if you walk around being all *safe* all the time. I say next guy you like go for it. Theres no need to feel scared around him (unless hes really scary). Maybe you could try double dates and stuff. Go places you feel comfortable at, like the movies or bowling or something. If none of that works you can IM me at Sammerz619. Hope i helped!!Sammerz
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just try your best to be more outgoing & less shy. just force your self to not get scared away. take a risk. you can usually outgrow shyness, if you really try to. so just try your best not to feel as uncomfortable, just start a simple convo instead of being scared away.
♥ nicole
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i think you are shy and not very stable. i dont think you wanna take a risk...relationships are a HUGE risk. just be comfortable and when he likes you, take it as a great compliment...he likes you for who you are!! how great is that?! then stick around and if you really like him, say yes and there you have it, your first boyfriend! ok hope this helps! <3
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this may be a sign that you are scared to get involved or that your uncomfortable with yourself. you have to be willing to take a risk...and if things dont work out, theres always a way out. dont worry so much, just do it. who knows it might work out very well.
always here, lc
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Your shy. But don't worry, 78% of girls are shy about boys. I had to hide while my friend gave a note asking my boyfriend out. :p When you get the chance of a boy, force yourself to not run away. Hope i helped and good luck!
♥Julie♥
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You're just shy, its natural. Also if you're afraid to kiss or hug someone it could be because you're just not used to it or comfortable with it. It's okay because its probably just a phase. What you can do though is raise your self-confidence level. You should feel good about yourself and feel good that boys like you! Hope I helped!
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