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My Name Is Brett. i am 16 and i run an adivce colum becuase i have good idea's to be able to help people out and stuff so im me if u want further advice
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I can write poems tell me what you think of this one
Alone
alone is where no one is there
you try to see but blind by glare
glare of your own soul and glare of your heart and then you realize that thers no start
you have no body or no friends you
relize now this might be the end u
nless you change whats inside t
his might be how you die
try to run but theres no escape
try to hide but you still wont wake
the darkness is everywhere
you cant see
blinded by you
and blinded by me
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beautiful.......u are really good at writing poems...... i have acouple of my own


OK...

My friend has been seeing her boyfriend for just over a month now. For two weeks they didn't even hold hands, they were so shy, but all of a sudden they kissed in the cinema and suddenly they are 'so in love' and on the same day as they kissed, they went to third base.

Last week, they had sex (in the WOODS!) and my friend is pretty sure she is pregnant. However, she is sayign she is 'bored' of her boyfriend and wants to 'move on'. I'm sorry but this is so stupid!! You don't sleep with someone you're 'bored' of and never really liked in the first place!!

She also wants an abortion.

First of all, I am angry at her for the whole 'oh I'm bored with you let's shag!' thing. I am also REALLY angry with her about the abortion because I am really against abortion in about 90% of cases, this one included. She wants to kill her own baby because she thinks she'll get 'bored' with it too, and because she made a mistake. She is 'making up' for that mistake with murder.

Now, I'm her friend and I am SUPPOSED to stand by her whatever, but this puts me in a HUGE dilemma because I do not agree with what she's done and what she is planning to do (split up with her boyfriend, have an abortion, not ever tell him she got pregnant). I'm really really angry at her right now and I can't talk to her, but I know she really needs my support at a time like this. How can I push my anger aside, how can I ignore my own stance on abortion and help her?

I need to stand by her...she needs all the love and support she can get, even though she doesn't deserve it. I was very tempted to slap her and run off when I found out but I realised that it's not my place to forgive or condone or accept or hate what she is doing, just to be there for her.

Please help...how can I get over my anger and resentment at what she is doing and be there for her? And don't just say 'talk to her' - if you have to, help me out on what to say!

Thanks for any help and sorry for the length. (link)
its not ur place to but in here......... let her learn from her mistakes u need to learn to step aside some times


Hi my friend got her cartillage peirced and it looks realy nice but i was wondering does it matter which ear is peirced? Is it true that depending which ear you peirce it means something?

Will rate high.

Thanks xxx (link)
no to me it doesnt matter


I'm 14/f/bi. I have this friend..who i've always really liked but she didnt really know until i told her..i mean ive liked for like 2 years now. and after i told her i liked her..she asked me out...and i was probably the happiest person ever. after a couple of weeks she said we should take a break because we never really talk anymore..but the only reason why we dont talk is because i share my computer with others and i havent had a chance to talk to her alot..but not that i have my own computer..i try to talk to her as much as i can..well anyways the point is..i really love her. and she doesnt know i love her yet bcuz shes always talking about how it takes a while to fall in love..but i love her more then anything in this world. and i miss her..i would do anything to get with her again. how can i tell her how much i love her and miss her? sorry it was so long.. (link)
ok.......um let me try and see if i can fix this.... i assume u have instant messenger...... so lets see........ just tell her how u feel..... that should work if it doesnt contact me either here, on aim or on yahoo messenger
AIM: DaFalconFighter
Yahoo:lilgangstakid898


my boyfriends sister is tryin to kill herself bc her used to be boyfriend cheated on her and used her for sex and in the end she found otu he is engaged to one of her friends and she has been wit him 4 about 5 months and noe since it is over she has been puttin neddles in herself and takin pills i have tryed talkin to her and told her to stop and that she is hurtin all the people around her but she still wont stop she says it is makin her happy. someone please help me stop her.. i dont know what to do anymore. i ran out of advice to give her so i need ur guys help. (link)
just say if you cared about your friends u would stop........... then walk away..... she should comply then but if she doesnt then stop hanging out with her....... shut her out of ur life until she stops..... and get all her friends to do the same things........ it worked for me


I'm 17/f and ive never had a bf. Everytime i like some guy, and he ends up liking me back..I get really uncomfortable and scared away. I dont do it on purpose, it just happens everytime. What could be the reason Im subconciously doing this? (link)
take it from a guy..... if he likes u back then just ask him out and be urself... if it is ment to be then things will work out


I've been saving up to get an iPod. My mom says that if I can get $100 She'll buy me a 60GB iPod.

But I also kinda want a cell phone.

I know that the cell phone will in time cost more, but I'm not sure which one I want more. I really want an iPod, and I have the possibility, because I have $71 out of $100 for it.

But I really want a cell phone too.

I'm so...stuck.

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get the ipod.... they are better and last longer........


how do you determine if a car is a sports car or not?? im lookin for cars but my parents said i couldn't get a sports car for insurance reasons or whatever but every car i like they say its a sports car! is it by how much horsepower it has? and if so how much does a sports car have? (link)
anything that is small....goes really fast and looks really y is a sports car..... so pretty much anything a teenager would like to use to pick up s with is one so yeah.......


Does Chevrolet still make a Camaro?? I was looking under the Chevy website and that car is not listed. please help! Thankyou! (link)
no they stopped making the camaro in like '99


my dad is sooo annoying.. and he is soo strict.. and won't let me do anything hardly.. I always have to go to my mom... what can I do to try and get him to calm down.. cause he is mad all the time.. and what can I do to let me do stuff more? (link)
try and do what he asks...... respect what he says. and in time he will learn to trust u more and will give u more free will to do things....




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