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MY DAD
my dad is sooo annoying.. and he is soo strict.. and won't let me do anything hardly.. I always have to go to my mom... what can I do to try and get him to calm down.. cause he is mad all the time.. and what can I do to let me do stuff more?
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Okay..If i were you.. i'll ignore him for a while..And just do anything i want!!
-ViTaChaN-
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Omg Ihave the SAME exact problem except switch parents. My moms ALWAYS mad and stuff and doesn't let me do like anything =/
Next time he says you can't go somewhere, what I would do is try to find out why.. if he's concerned for your saftey or something like that, then just next time you ask for something to him, just explain:
-where you're going
-who you're going with ( if he doesn't trust them, he probably won't let you )
-what time you're going/when you'll be back
-if a parent will be there
-he can call you every 2 hours or so to check up on you
..cause then he'll feel more secure knowing how responsible your being and that he'll be able to contact you adn check up on you to see if you're alright. Cause I can kinda understand where he's coming from, with all these kidnappings and such happening lately =/ but you shoule still be able to go places..but also, have you ever done anything before to lose his trust? Cause that could be it.. and you'll need to gain it back...but if you ask and he still says no, then I would just stick with your mom. Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
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I would stick to your mom for a lil bit long then maybe after you get tired of having to ask her for things then have her to talk with him or you could just ask your dad for the things that he will most likely let you do !!
kaitlyn jO*
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Don't ask your dad. Stick to your mom for a while, and then your dad will finally realize what he's missing, and what your mom is getting, and he will be calmer and more affectionite
Let me noe how it goes
KenniSki10
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I think u shood try talking to him((ur dad)) about it. N if he takes it tha wrong wae or doesnt seem to understand or care then go to ur mom. Tell her how you feel and maybe she'll talk to him bout it.
Hope it workz out for ya!!
~Jenni~
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If he says like no to going somewhere, then calmly find out why and then if he has a concern about it, just explain to him that you will be safe and explain exactly what your gonna do. then maybe he might change his mind. if not ask if you can compormize [i dont know if i spelled that right] so then both of you will be happy.
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well the question is, How do you talk back to him? I mean, you can't be rude like GOSH DAD! I HATE YOU! you have to be CALM!
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I would try talkin to him about what he is mad about and find a way to make him some what happy again and NOT strict ok hope i helped
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always say yes sir and help around the house,maybe things will change.
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show him that you can be resposable. do chores when your not asked and then after awhile point out that youve been doing just that. tell him that you love him but you feel that your in NEED of your independence. do yell at him though. just have a calming talk with him. hope i helped and feel free to ask me anything else. : )
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wow thats amazingly like my parents ..my mom and dad dont let me do anything barely ..Well to get your dad to calm down i really have no idea because my dads always like that and i can never figure out anything to calm him down either ..sorry
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ha seems like my dad and your dad should hang out sometime.. lol ok like my dad is exactly the same what i did that help me improve his trust with me is 2 have him talk 2 your friends parents/guardians before going out, also tell him what you will be doing.. who your going with.. why your going... ect. try to show him your responsible and that he can trust you out on your own with friends. he could always check in with a cell fone sometimes juss 2 make sure your with him.. so yeaah juss be responsible `♥//
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Hey, look i understand where your coming from so dont feel like your the only person in this situation, your growing up and your not going to always get along with your parents. But to attempt to fix this problem calmy ask you dad to sit down and talk to you...just tell him that you feel that y'all aren't connecting much anymore and you dont want to grow up feeling like you dont have a dad to be there for you. Ask him what you could do to make his life a little easier ect. And if he agrees to try to be a little nicer and ect everything should get better, and if he just starts yelling at you maybe you should talk to you mom and try to get her to talk to him. And if that doesn't work, professional help might be a good choice.
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try and do what he asks...... respect what he says. and in time he will learn to trust u more and will give u more free will to do things....
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well you could just sit and talk with him about it, maybe there is a certain reason he acts that way. If that doesnt work you could ask your mom to talk to him. that seems to work alot of the time.
Also maybe to keep him from being mad all the time you could spend more time with him and do things with him. maybe he'll lighten up =)
hope it helped x33
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tell him to call your cell when your out to check up on you
tell him :
who you will be with
what you will be doing
when your going
where you will be going
have your mom talk to him..maybe she can knock some sense into him
maybe have him meeet your friends you will be hanging out with? i dont know..its worth a shot
to let you do stuff more just tell him all the details ..the who what when where stuff
keep telling him your responsible and you just wanna go out with your friends
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