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15/f
okay i moved to a different city about a year ago. there is this guy that is like one of my best friends and everyone knows that he likes me and i like him too((but not alot)). ive gone to dances with him, but im afraid that if he asks me out things will get all weird, and i dont know if i would be able to kiss him without feeling odd.
please help me!
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You'll never know for sure until you try. But, if it makes you feel weird already just tell him you think of him as more of a brother. :)
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if you're not ready and things feel odd then dont get together with him. feeling odd probly means that you dont like him that much so you shouldnt rush things.if he asks u out and ur ready then defiently go for it but if your not then just tell him that your not ready to be in a relationship right now. tell him that maybe soon you'll like him more. i hope i helped !!
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well if you don`t want thingsz to change at all;; then don`t take the chance if you don`t like him THAT much. alot of guysz feel awkward to their exes especially if the girl broke up w// them. if he isz a good bf to other girlsz he should be just fine towardsz you.
hope ii helped!! <3 ...Am
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Well since you guys are like best firends you should have no problem knowing each other which is a great for a relationship. Just remember 2 continue being yourself and dont worry about "feeling odd" if you kissed him, if he likes you and you like him it shouldn't be a problem..good luck and hope i helped ;-)
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The fact that he is your best friend could turn out to be a great thing for a potential relationship. With you both already being close and knowing about each other makes things a lot easier. Caution is advised as you don't want to lose what you have, but not making some sort of move could make things awkward between the two of you. I say go for it and forget about any slightly "odd" feelings you might intitially have.
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well what you need to do..is think it over about if you really do like himm..then talk to him and..see what happends from thiier and i think you quys both need to aqree that notinqq wont chanqee! qo forr ittt..!
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Give yourself some quiet time to truely think about it and if you still feel the same way, then you should make that first mopve by sitting him down and telling him exactly how you feel. Because by him knowing that you know that he likes you and you know saying anything about is probably making him think that he has a chance. He'll end up more hurt if you wait and don't say anything, so be brave girl! and tell him. Good luck.
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Kisses can break up friendships. My advice would be to figure out what you like him as more - a friend or a boyfriend. Listen to your gut and DO what you feel. A good friend will last a lot longer than most boyfriends in high school - so if you like him just as a friend - just tell him. He can only respect the truth and the fact that you care about him enough to be upfront and preserve the friendship you two have. On the other hand, if it feels right, go for it!
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The key thing to keeping a friend/ dating relationship cool, is to act like your still friends. you are friends really except you kiss and hug a lot, if you get weird then he'll get weird so stay cool and things will work themselves out. tell me how it goes ok?
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I had the same problem. But what I did was think of what my heart realy wanted. Ask your self Do I really like this guy? Can I see or imagine myself with him? All I can say is to follow your heart and it will lead you to a path that is right for you.
Hope I helped!
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okay if he asked you out just say that you tihnk you guys are too good of friends and you dont want to ruin that
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