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ahh im 13 ahtletic love music been through alot of stuff even though in only 13 been through deths relationship problems sports you name it ive been through it so feel free to ask me ne thing
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Missy6214
15/f
okay i moved to a different city about a year ago. there is this guy that is like one of my best friends and everyone knows that he likes me and i like him too((but not alot)). ive gone to dances with him, but im afraid that if he asks me out things will get all weird, and i dont know if i would be able to kiss him without feeling odd.
please help me! (link)
okay if he asked you out just say that you tihnk you guys are too good of friends and you dont want to ruin that


i need help my dad i have not seen him one year and three mounths and he drinks a lot i try to let him go but i cant what should i do (link)
welltalk to a family member about it if he wants to change recomend him to alcholics anonamous

hope i helped
-pjams


im 13/f
what should i do if my crush would ask me out or something, but my friends realllyy like him too?
(i have this one friend, she likes the same guy that i do. she says she loves him and everything. but she doesnt know that i've like him since like 5th grade.) i have an idea that he kinda likes me too. i hear that he talks about me to his friends, and whenever im around him he asks me for hugs. im not sure if its just playful, or actually something. im not sure how to react if something happened, and he asked me out?? nfsap idk. im really confused. any tips????
-stuckkkkk (link)
okay soo if he asks you out thats his chouce if your friend get madd and isnt happy for you then shes not really a good friend

hope i helped
-pjams


i need that friend. that 1 true friend. when you get your first broken heart, she stays on the phone with you and will listen to you cry for hours. that friend that you can feel so comfortable around like your sisters or something. not all uptight and trying to act like someone your not. that friend that will come to you first before anyone else when shes crying. that friend that will listen close when you need her too. and will make each other laugh to your stomac hurts. my problem is, im so shy!! im never going to meet this person if i'm one of the quiet, shy types. i act all awkward around new people. i need someone like this. im trying so hard 2 find them. (link)
heres the thing a girl isnt allways the best kind of friend like that im a guy and im best friends with a girl and we do all that stuff(im stright) so try talking to boys and girls

hope i helped
-pjams


please read this and help me..i'll rate 5s..just please i desperately need help more than anything


i fell in love with a guy named harrison about 2 years ago, and we have been unseperable ever since then. we'd always have the occasional fights between us, and i was crazy about him, and he was about me too. i loved him more than anything in the world, and this was not just puppy love, this was the real thing. he was my first and possibly final love, and i lost my virginity to him. when he moved to iowa last year, we still loved each other and he never even attempted to go out with any other girl. he was the best thing that had ever happened to me, and i loved him..i truly mean it. he was always there for me, he was there when mother died, i lost my best friend, and when i had to have a heart surgery.


recently he died in a car accident. it wasn't his fault at all, it was horrible luck. he was driving on a highway and a drunk driver crashed into his car, killing him. i cried myself to sleep for months, and i just didn't care about anything but him. i was obsessing yes, but i loved him, and i know he loved me too. he was the only one for me, and i know he's gone now and i should move on and look for other guys, but i don't think i'll ever find anyone else like harrison. i will still of course try, but i cannot help but feel horrible. sometimes i feel i should kill myself so i can join harrison up in heaven, but i have never succeeded. i am hurt beyond words, and i don't know what to do anymore. please help me, anything will help right now. thank you so much for reading all of this.. love, lauren (link)
its horrible i know i lost alot of family members that were my best friends its hard but killing yourself woulnt do anything live life at the fullest what would he have wanted you to do just be happy and you dont have to forget memories are supposed to be happy its hard to loose someone you love.....harrison sounds like an awsome guy ...

i hope i helped
-pjams


so people have told me that a blow job is sucking a guys penis, but i always thought head was. is there a difference? and what does oral mean? like when you get it in the ass? (link)
okay i just got some so they are both the same thing just two different words


hope i helped
-pjams


what is a boner??? (link)
its what a guy gets horny -turned on-in the mood-his penis get hard and get bigger


I need help breaking up with my boyfriend. I still like him and everything its just that its summer and i dont think im gonna see him that much. What should i say to him? I still wanna be friends cause he is really nice.
Thanks Alot

If it helps we have been going out for about 2 1/2 months. And the reason is becuz i wont see him much. (link)
ahhh i just broke up with my girl friend and i felt the same exact way you sould just say it plain out... tell him what you reallly feel and he might not want to be friends right away after you split but of cource it takes a while

hope i helped
-pjams


I have black Features in my face [[eyelashes,eyebrows]] My hair is very light and my eybrows are JET BLACK.. i want to know is it possible for me to dye my eye brows brown? [[so it will blend in with my hair more,they are kind of bushy..not really though.]] 13/f (link)
yeah you can dye them the only thing is idk if you can use any old hair coloring kit or if theres a special one

hope i helped
-pjams


13/f i'm not really like a schoolgirl or anything, but let's just say "rocker" is not my label. still, i like the look. what are some ways to get the not-outrageaous but not-TOO-subtle ways to get a slight rockerish look without looking like a total poser? thankz

BTW my 'rents aren't too into the whole rocker thing so if you suggest any clothes or accesories, plz make them something my mom would actually BUY me or i would actually be allowed to wear...and no make-up.

thankz everyone! (link)
ok i got the perfect place for you to go if thers a Hot Topic store near you thats a really good place they have new and older band tees and its not a big step from preppy cloths to punk

i really hoped i helps
-pjams


my boyfriend i havent seen for a week and a day and i havent talked to in three days! im constantly talking and thinking about him! i miss him like CRAZY!!!!! ive been calling his house for the past 2 days but hes not answering! his friend said he was in new york but doesnt know when hes going to be back. why wouldnt he tell me that? and i just miss him sooooooooooo bad! i love him and i want to see or at least talk to him! how can i get over this since i dont know when ill be able to talk/see him again!? (link)
well if you love him so much be patcient and wat for him to get home and talk to him then and calmly ask him why he didnt tell you




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