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Break-up


Question Posted Sunday July 3 2005, 11:47 am

I need help breaking up with my boyfriend. I still like him and everything its just that its summer and i dont think im gonna see him that much. What should i say to him? I still wanna be friends cause he is really nice.
Thanks Alot

If it helps we have been going out for about 2 1/2 months. And the reason is becuz i wont see him much.


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StArGiRL75 answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 8:22 pm:
Well...you could just tell him what you told me. You could say that you wanna break up with him because you dont wanna tie him down this summer because you arent gonna see him that much! I mean you can get back together in the school year if you 2 are still single. AsH!

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pjams77 answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 1:00 pm:
ahhh i just broke up with my girl friend and i felt the same exact way you sould just say it plain out... tell him what you reallly feel and he might not want to be friends right away after you split but of cource it takes a while

hope i helped
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advicegirl505 answered Monday July 4 2005, 6:24 pm:
Tell your boyfriend that you have bad news. Tell him you want to break up because that you won't see him much. You can say don't be upset but I still want us to be friends.

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MELiixMARiiE answered Monday July 4 2005, 2:55 pm:
Well I would just call him up and be like," I have to talk to you.. I don't think we should date anymore. I mean I still like you and everything it's just that it's summer, and everyone's gonna be going on vacations and stuff and I don't think I'm gonna see you that much.. but I still wanna be friends cause you're really nice, and I don't want this to ruin everything.." =) Basically... everything you just told me.. because what you said shows him you still care for him ; but you just can't date him anymore.. so maybe he'll understand. =) Hope I helped!!





Love,
MELii

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pinkbabygirl101 answered Sunday July 3 2005, 6:13 pm:
i would sit him down and tell him i still want to be friends with you but i don't think this relationship is going to work any longer it's not that i don't like you anymore it is just because now that it's summer i won't get to see you as much as i would like to and i think you are really nice and i hope me breaking up with you doesn't affect our friendship.

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blondebaby1016 answered Sunday July 3 2005, 4:20 pm:
Breaking up is never easy. You just got to be honest. Just make sure you tell him clearly that you def. want to remain friends. A lot of people always say "lets just be friends" and alot of people take that as a nice way of saying "I dont want to see you anymore" but just tell him the truth, that you would rather not be dating anymore and that it is nothign against him but you would still like to hang out. Sorry that was sort of vague but I hope it helped. If you need more help just ask and ill see what I can do!

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soljette answered Sunday July 3 2005, 3:53 pm:
just because youre not going to be seeing him as much doesnt mean that you should break up with him. if you still care about him, make it work. dont give up. you will never know, you might get to see him more than you expected.

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cookierat123 answered Sunday July 3 2005, 3:37 pm:
ok, r u SURE you want to break up with him? i mean if your gonna break up with him then do it because you dont care about him..not because you think that you wont see eachother. get together at the movies or something..dubble date with friends. hope i helped and if you need more help put it in my inbox.

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tineebubbly answered Sunday July 3 2005, 2:39 pm:
just a little preview of my past experiences. once you dump him you will have that " dont know what ya go until its gone " feeling. sounds gay but its true. its happened to me twice.. just hang tight and try to hang out with him as much as possible over the summer. hope i helped !
<3 hil

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partychick101 answered Sunday July 3 2005, 1:32 pm:
Well, either start seeing him more, like plan to go places and stuff. Or you could say "Hey ____ I really do like you and all but we don't see each other much and I think it would be better if we were just friends. Maybe if we start seeing each other more we can get back together. Hope I helped! please rate!

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Mackenzie answered Sunday July 3 2005, 1:14 pm:
Just be honest. Tell him that summeR is heRe.. and you'Re not going to be able to see each otheR as much as it would take to keep the Romance blossomed. I'm guesing he'll be huRt, but he'll be huRt no matteR WHAT you say, so just be honest, and be polite. Hopefully things woRk out!!! :)

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crazyoutyamind answered Sunday July 3 2005, 1:10 pm:
ok tell your boyfriend that (you are sorry but you have to break up with him its not that you dont still like him but its because you dont want think you will be seeing him as much and yull go out it wont work out cuaz of that you dont wanna date him any longer becauz you dont want to be that sad when you break up with him and that you would still love to be his friend) well i hope i helped and if you have ne more questions drop em in my inbox

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Tinkerbelle answered Sunday July 3 2005, 1:07 pm:
just tell him that then. you can be like "i still really like you, but we're not going to see each other much this summer. why don't we take a break then get back together when school starts?" or something. but if you want to end it and just be friends instead, say "since we won't be seeing each other all that much, do you think it'd be better if we're just friends?" good luck!

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