ive ever had a boyfriend. and im 16. whats wrong with me?? im not completly ugly, but im not like super pretty.. i think i may be prude. how do i get over that and have some fun??
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StArGiRL75 answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 11:08 am: If you are being prude then STOP! =D I mean...if you dont want to b lonely then you should just do more activities or something. Go to more places! B outgoing like me!! YAY! Its fun to b outgoing...unless you ave a problem with that then you could always just b shy and try and meet a guy that way! But i dont think that would work! AsH! P.S. Do the obvious thing when the time comes... [ StArGiRL75's advice column | Ask StArGiRL75 A Question ]
Lauren___xX answered Monday July 4 2005, 11:30 pm: just be yourself and start talking to guys and flirt a little bit
esohe answered Monday July 4 2005, 3:58 pm: Me and you have the same situation, am 16 and i havnt had a boyfriend or kiss yet. Y=trust me there is nothing wrong with you you, you will find the right person soon and you will be happy with him, it just a matter of time for the right person to come along and when he do and he will be speial.I hope i helped, give me a feedback, goodluck [ esohe's advice column | Ask esohe A Question ]
pinkbabygirl101 answered Sunday July 3 2005, 6:03 pm: try to not think about it so much soon enough you will find the right person that you can spend your whole life with like the saying says ~ there are plenty fish in the sea within time you will find that one person until then have fun and live life remember you only have one life live it to the fullest you possibly can. nothing is wrong with you. [ pinkbabygirl101's advice column | Ask pinkbabygirl101 A Question ]
Shelly_x answered Sunday July 3 2005, 5:05 pm: nothing is wrong with you! have a gilrs night in get all your friends round to your house and rent a movie get some popcorn and just chill out your friends will make you feel better in no time. If you are shy then try and be more confident about yourself Guys love that! [ Shelly_x's advice column | Ask Shelly_x A Question ]
Anthony_d answered Sunday July 3 2005, 3:52 pm: What do looks matter. And for all you cynics, no it isnt something ugly people say it's something peaople with emotion and respect say! Looks dont matter its who you are insed that should come first. Idf someone cant appreciate you before your looks theyre not worth a damn. All you need to do to have fun is be yourself and mingle with all different crowds. You wil settle with one you like eventually(not long after you start). And then just start going out to different places with mates and all this. It doesnt matter. We all find our special someone someday! Took me 15 years...
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tineebubbly answered Sunday July 3 2005, 2:38 pm: dont lower your self esteem just because of what guys think. guys are thick headed. but if you think your a prude you should get out there a little and try some more. this school year befriend lots of guys and hang with them all the time. they will want you so bad. well if you befriend a lot of em then at least one of them would have to like you. or hang out with friends who have connections with guys and get drunk and do crazy things. then you wont be afraid of doing anything with a guy and you will have more confidence and be able to have many boyfriends. hope i helped !
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deathwillcome answered Sunday July 3 2005, 2:12 pm: Well looks aren't always the culprate. Sometimes it is your personality. Do you talk to any boys? Sometimes boys are the ones to blame. Boys don't usualy have the guts to tell the girl that they like them. I say, just go on with life and ignore it. Out there somewhere is the boy for you. He will come when your ready for him! Don't worry. [ deathwillcome's advice column | Ask deathwillcome A Question ]
OrangeLuverr answered Sunday July 3 2005, 2:08 pm: there is absolutely nothing wrong with you, there are tons of girls in the same situation as you. I gotta say...i'm almost 16 and i've never had a boyfriend....i know TONS of people who hadn't. your time will come and whatever you do dont change yourself. [ OrangeLuverr's advice column | Ask OrangeLuverr A Question ]
DearMizegan answered Sunday July 3 2005, 2:07 pm: There's nothing wrong with you, but it's natural to think that. Everyone gets a boyfriend/girlfriend at there own time. It's not that you are prude, just maybe you don't seem like you are interested to some guys that may like you. Put yourself out there and get noticed and don't be afraid to be loud!! Be yourself, but be attractive and you will find someone. ;]
Mackenzie answered Sunday July 3 2005, 1:20 pm: Heyyy... I have many fRiends who aRe 16 - AND OLDER and they STILL haven't had a Relationship!!! I suppose I can see how this would upset you, but honestly, theRe's no Reason you should woRRie about this. Just because SOMEONE else has done ceRtain things does NOT mean you should have alReady done them also!! You have PLENTY of time still. Be it 12, 17, oR 20... it's Really not as big of a deal as you might assume. HoweveR, if theRe's someone you know well and may slightly like, and you figuRe he just doesn't feel the same, then you *DEFINITELY* need to confRont him on this. Just be bold, be honest, and go foR it. It's the *ONLY* way to know FOR SHORE if he likes you oR not; you can *ASSUME* he does all you want... but you'll neveR know exactly how he feels unless it's coming stRaight fRom his lovely face. And if you'd like to spRing foR new guys entiRely, just tRy going up to one and giving it youR all! Just RemebeR to always be confident, and to SMILE, SMILE, SMILE! See, I have NOOO pRoblem appRoaching people, because I believe that I can do anything, so I just push my feaRs aside and go foR it!! I'll walk up to some man in the mall and tell him flat out, "You'Re hot"... and it always gets us talking. Why does it always get us talking?? Because I have confidence. Confidence is sexy, and confidence shows. And even if he's involved, oR not wanting a Relationship at the moment, any man who is a QUARTER of a man will speak with you foR just having enough guts to go foR it! I have complete faith in you; and I think you should too. Go get 'em, TigeR! =D [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
hayo answered Sunday July 3 2005, 1:14 pm: first of all if i where would not pout and stay at the house i would go and have some fun try to do something you enjoy and that will help you take your off of not having a boyfriend at sixteen i hope i helped [ hayo's advice column | Ask hayo A Question ]
crazyoutyamind answered Sunday July 3 2005, 1:06 pm: if you just sit at your house all day then your not going to get a boyfriend try going to some parties and just realx talk to some new people even some guys just strike up a converstion like by asking a quistion and again just be more realxed well i hope i helped and if you have ne more questions drop em in my inbox [ crazyoutyamind's advice column | Ask crazyoutyamind A Question ]
frenchfries21 answered Sunday July 3 2005, 1:04 pm: theres nothing wrong with you at all. its not a big deal. a guy will come eventually. but i just wanna know... how are you not sure if your prude or not?? u think you are? whats that supposed to mean??
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stalkingroxy911 answered Sunday July 3 2005, 12:58 pm: nothing is wrong with you! just be yourself and you will find the perfect guy. but DO NOT CHANGE YOUSELF for a guy, because that always ends up in breaking up after a while because it is almost like have a relationship off a lie, he will then only like//love you for the person you were trying to be not the person you are.
iSLAND_x_KiiSS answered Sunday July 3 2005, 12:34 pm: There`s nothing wrong with you.. It`s totally normal to not have a boyfriend at ANY age. When you`re around guys, just be yourself and flirt with them a lot, and you never know, you could find someone who`s perfect.
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