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Well my boyfriend of 6 months recently went off to college and things are fine we are working that part out and are for the most part, ok with the distance. But he is always telling me about these "hott chicks" he saw or talked to. He also was telling me of how his roomates ex lets him take naked pictures of her and I replied with a "Well thank you for telling me that, I needed to know (sarcasm)" and he also told me that she was going to come over and strip for them. Then told me that he was joking. I just dont know what to do, or how to approach him about it. I really want this to work but it might put a strain on our relationship if he continues it and GAH its pissing me off!!
Thank you! I will rate high for good answers:D (link)
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wow....i mean really....your boyfriend sounds like a jerk. But anyway, you should tell him how you feel about him saying these things to you. And let him know he needs to shape up and fit the frame perfectly or he is going to lose you.
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*well my ex boyfriend is coming over tomarrow and i made him a scrapbook of all our memories cause i want him to know how much i still care about him! he has told me 3 times since we've been broken up he loves me and hes said he misses me all the time! but theres also another girl that he likes and im trying to pretty much win him over..but anyways..i was just wondering if you had any ideas on how i could do like a scavenger hunt kinda thing to lead him to it cause i want this to be special!!! please help asap! thanks!* (link)
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Uhm well you can set things around your house as clues to lead him to you and then say I love you and I still care about you. Then see if it works.So Sorry if I didnt help. Please rate me high.
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im a 15 year old girl and ive lived with my dad for the past 3 years and its hard to talk to him about girl stuff. how can i talk to him without making both of us unconfortable.
i rate high for good answers. thank you (link)
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Well if your dad knew about some girl things, he can help you. If not, if your dad has time ask him to sit down and talk to you about what you feel. Maybe he will understand. Ask if you can call your mother and talk to her about it. I can understand you because I used to think oh well he will never understand. But he did and he was glad I came to him. You will never know until you ask! I hope I helped you!
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I need help breaking up with my boyfriend. I still like him and everything its just that its summer and i dont think im gonna see him that much. What should i say to him? I still wanna be friends cause he is really nice.
Thanks Alot
If it helps we have been going out for about 2 1/2 months. And the reason is becuz i wont see him much. (link)
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Tell your boyfriend that you have bad news. Tell him you want to break up because that you won't see him much. You can say don't be upset but I still want us to be friends.
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hey! well me and my ex boyfriend mike went out for 3 months..i know its not a long time but we talked and dated for like 4 months before that! well anyways we have been broken up for almost 6 months now and we both have went out with other people!i have always asked him if he liked me and if wed ever get back together..well he never would answer the whole like you question but he would always say i dunno if we will ever go back out cause i dont normally go out with ex gfs so i thought ok fine whatever! well i tried moving on ya know and i finally got to the point i thought i was over him! i even had him over like 4 weeks ago..i could kinda tell he had feelings for me cause he would keep asking me for a hug and hed like put his arm around me and he gave me a hickey and we had a total blast together..but it kinda felt like we were just friends so i thought well maybe i am over him but yet i still missed him! so i went on vacation and didnt really talk to him for 2 weeks..the day i get back he ims me and was talking to me and said he liked me so that kinda made me feel good but then i also realied that maybe i wasnt quite over him and he had also asked if he could come over next week so i thought sure! well so the next night we stayed up til 3:15 in the morning talking and he had said he still loved me and always had, he missed me, and itd be great if we eventually got back together but he didnt want that right now and he wanted to keep things slow for right now! then the next night it was a repeat we stayed up til 3:30 and he said he missed me and my picture was his background on his computer and what not! well then things just kinda seemed weird! i just had this feeling it wasnt gonna be a good day but i kinda tried letting it go past me and i wrote his xanga past memories and i told him i still loved him..so i guess that was a bad idea cause he totally flipped and was like omg i cant believe u did that , you know i dont like my friends knowing everything, blah blah blah! so i was like ok im sorry and i showed him how to get rid of it! so then he wouldnt say i love you but he said i miss ya and your pic is still on my background so i was like okay maybe things arent that bad! but he also told me he didnt know if he was going to come over next week now because i made him upset and he couldnt believe i would do that which seemed kinda weird to me! but the thing is i want him to come over cause i wanna see him and talk all of this out in person and i even made a scrap book of us cause i want him to realize how much i really do care! well then theres this girl melissa that has liked him for about a year now! well hes always told me they were just friends and things like that! and the other day i said something how hes always with girls and calls them hun and stuff and hes like i hate when your like this cause you always think i like these girls when really we are just close friends! and i want to trust him but its so hard! and then like today i read his xanga and melissa signed it saying i cant wait to watch fire works with you tomarrow and then it had this quote that was like seduce my body blah blah blah seduce my soul and ill always be yours! and im so clueless on what to think about that! i know they both use to like eachother and they went to a dance together after we broke up and all he ever tells me is they are just close friends but he is with her all the time! and i dont know what to think of it!shes not allowed to have a boyfriend so i guess that stops things really and hes always said ill never do anything sexually with anyone but you! i just dont know why he would sit there and say all of a sudden out of no where that he loved me and missed me when for 6 months he wouldnt say a word to me! PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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Ok look. Tell your ex that you know something weird or fishy is going on. Ask him to be honest with you and to trust you. Ask him about how he should trust you also because you never know what he could be doing. He could say, oh i won't have sex with anyone but you, while he can go out without you knowing and get another girl pregnant. Then she shows up saying oh you must father my baby. Now you are sitting there looking like a fool. Don't play yourself for one boy. Its just not worth it. If you liked my advice, please encourage people you know to ask me questions, including yourself.Please rate high!
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Hey people! Okey, I've gotten myself into a real mess..again. I'm such an idiot. See, this is the thing..I havn't seen my EXBF for about a year, and im gonna see him in like a week. A while ago i found out that he had a new GF and that she was coming with him to camp (where im gonna see him again) So i've been working really hard this week on making myself look great to impress him. And then i met this guy, who's also going to camp. So i thought (dumb as i am) why not get together with this guy to make him jealous or whatever, maybe just to show that im over him..
Now, this guy is a punk rocker..so to get him to like me i started acting like a punk rocker. And when he asked me if he could do my hair, i said : sure, why not?. Little did I know that by saying that i liked his haircut he was gonna do my hair just like his. So now i have no hair on the sides and spikes in the middle and i am totally and completely FREAKING OUT! I live with my older brother and im not gonna see my mom for about 3 more months so im not worried about her at the moment ( even though i should be ) ..
What im really worried about is seeing james in a week.. I've done everything to make myself look great, and now i look awful! Is there anything i can do? ive already tried looking for a hairpiece, but it loooks soo fake! HELP PLEASE! (link)
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This is a really hard question to answer. Maybe you should go to a hair dresser and get tracks. They get sewed into your head. Don't panic, they don't hurt. I hope this really helped you. If you rate, please rate me high.
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ok i have a boyfriend, the thing is im not supposed to yet, but i really really like him but i know if i told my parents my dad will like ground me forever and never let me date agian. ever. and my bf is going to a new school that they built, and everyone is either going or staying well im staying but he is going. so should i just wait till the school year starts to break up with him? because i know we will break up after that because long distance or just across town relationships dont ever last.
but, what should i do?
thanks! (link)
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This a really tough question, but I can help. Uhm, lets see. You should know that if you really love each other, a long distance relationship might last. If not, you should try talking to your boyfriend and listening to what he thinks. If you hear each other out, it just might work out well for you. Otherwise, break it off with him before your parents find out what you've been up to. Thanks and please ask me a question in the near future.
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does anyone know of any really good alternative rock songs..(like lifehouse, foo fighters, howie day)or bands? PLEASE tell me i'll rate high because i keep listening to the same songs over and over again and i wanna try some other new songs! (link)
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I'm so so sorry, but I only know one song. It's by Howie Day and its called "collide". Sorry if I didn't help.
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im a normal girl. but i want to go preppy
i need some websites to help me be more popular cause friendz arent that helpful in these kinda questions. ill rate high for tips and websites and good facial ingredients.. i already know ALOT of Facials but i want to try something new so please help me out.
REMEMBER: i want websites on how to be preppy and popular, and i want gr8 facial ingredients, and lots of tips. thankz in advance. (link)
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I don't really know any sites except teensforum.com. One tip is too be yourself and don't act too stupid(not saying that you are). Try to sit at the popular table. Change something big about you so evryone would notice, for instance wear your hair down most of the time. Some facial ingredients are 2 tablespoons of oatmeal, 2 teaspoons of honey and 1 egg white. Mix ingredients together until you have a gooey paste. Put it on and let it sit for 15 mins. Then rinse off.
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what do guys consider slutty?
no dumb ass answers thnx (link)
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Guys would consider you a slut if you wave your ass in the air and act like you are a stripper.
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ok theres this friend..sally and i dont want her to be friends with terry at all! i mean i hate sally,ik its mean but sally is always mean to me and if i let her be friend with my other friends..she'll be mean to me and push me out and hog..all of them. i dont want this to happen so i dont want sally and terry to be friends! but i dont want to be mean..but im anoyed that they are and sad that they are!! i dont no what to do im so sad i feel like i could cry =( please dont make fun of this.. (link)
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I think you should confront Sally and your friends about her being mean to you and tell her if she is going to be friends with your friends that means she is friends with you and that she has to respect you and treat you like she wants to be treated.
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this is the saddest ? ever nd please dont tell me "only u can decide" cause wuts the point of even answering my ?. w/e. back to my ?. my bf has been my best friend for like 2 yrs but has been my bf for like a month. he is in love w/ me nd he tells me, all my friends tell me and all his friends tell me! i dont like him the same way ne more. im like in love w/ this other guy! can u tell me how to brake up w/ my bf? hes already suspicous of the other guy that i like. . . (link)
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Tell your boyfriend that you have moved on and don't feel the same way about him as he does you. Tell him that you would like to be his friend and not his girlfriend. I think he would like to hear the truth from you, and not your friends.
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does anyone have any ideas about what to name my puppy? hes a black lab and hes so cuddly, and hea boy...and fluffy..i rate high!thnx bub byez (link)
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Maybe you should name him Fluffy, Snuffy, Tippy, or Duffy. Go to www.petnames.org to get a good name.
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ok...i wanna babysit during the summer only i don't know how to start. and i dont wanna babysit alone. so...how do i start babysitting? (link)
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If you have friends who want to babysit also, join them. Make a club. Then make fliers and such to present yourself to the world. Before you know it, you will be babysitting little children!.
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ok I have known some one sence I was like born and then we havent seen each other in like 6 years and then we both change schools and it turns out that we go to the same school. his name is Colby and I have fallin in love with him. BUt I dont want to be because I think it will mess up are friendship. I dont know what to do what should I.
Megan (link)
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You should tell Colby how you feel. You don't know what his reply will be, but you should hope for the best. I was in a situation like this with a boy named Tommy. Unfortunetly, he broke my heart by saying he didn't like me. I felt like I was going to cry, but I didn't. I made him a bridge to help me in relationships in the future. You should do the same.
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Hey uhm im 13..and im not the u kno most preppiest girl out there. I have black hair and brown eyes..I want sumthing to do with my hair cuz im tired of being so tomboyish. Im not the skinniest girl so does ne1 have ne tips on how i can be a little more girly without being preppy? (link)
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You can put your hair in a bun or in 1 or 2 ponytails. I'm a tomboy, but I like wearing my hair down. But its not my decision on how you want to wear your hair. So, I suggest a plain, simple style like maybe get your hair wrapped and tie it up. Or, ask your mom if you could get your hair braided.It will be easier. Also, if you get it braided, don't get micro braids because your micros will fall out of your hair. Then you would be really embarassed!
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