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He is trying to make me jealous!
Well my boyfriend of 6 months recently went off to college and things are fine we are working that part out and are for the most part, ok with the distance. But he is always telling me about these "hott chicks" he saw or talked to. He also was telling me of how his roomates ex lets him take naked pictures of her and I replied with a "Well thank you for telling me that, I needed to know (sarcasm)" and he also told me that she was going to come over and strip for them. Then told me that he was joking. I just dont know what to do, or how to approach him about it. I really want this to work but it might put a strain on our relationship if he continues it and GAH its pissing me off!!
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Well it looks like you boyfriend is trying to give you a message that he doesn't want to be with you. He's trying to get yoy pissed off enough to get you to break up with him. So that he can be single at college. If it that is someone you want to be with then live with it, if not I would tell him if he wantes to be single and do all this stuff with other girls then go ahead and see what he says.
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wow....i mean really....your boyfriend sounds like a jerk. But anyway, you should tell him how you feel about him saying these things to you. And let him know he needs to shape up and fit the frame perfectly or he is going to lose you.
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No no no!!!! Girl you can seriously do way better then that loser!!! Wow what a jerk!!! dump him girl.
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You should really dump that loser, he is not worht your time!
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i know people usually want their relationships to work out, but this guy is the king of all dicks. No one deserves to be treated like that. guys will always look at other girls theres not much that can be done about it. But no on should have to hear about the girls that strip for her bf. If hes tryin to make you jealous then he really should have tried something else. honestly you hould dictch him. hes just being inconsiderate and a complete ass hole
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This reminds me a lot of a question I answered for someone a few days ago. I don't know if I can say it any better so here's part of what I said then and a little stuff that relates to you specifically!
Guys will always look at other girls and girls will always look at other guys. I used to find it to be extremely annoying when my boyfriend talked about how hot other girls were. It made me feel bad about myself and made me feel like our relationship wasn't as strong as it really was. I even got kind of jealous sometimes. Truth is, because he's sharing that with you, it seems like you two have a really great connection. You trust each other and want to have a really healthy relationship. I've learned that when my bf starts talking about girls to turn it into a kind of joke by talking about them too. I feel totally bisexual when I do it, but it's actually really fun. I basically pretend I'm a guy and think of things that a guy would say. He'll be so surprised and he'll like it a lot more than he probably should. It's a way to shift his attention more from her back to you. It always works really well for me, but if you feel uncomfortable doing it or something just know that when he talks about it he is really just doing what he thinks he should...sharing everything with you. If it bothers you a lot talk to him about it. Tell him how it makes you feel and he will at least try to stop doing it. He probably doesn't realize what he's doing to you. Don't talk about how hot a guy was as a type of comeback though, unless it's a complete joke and he knows it. You don't want to purposely make him feel the way that he's making you feel. Guys can be a tad bit more sensitive to it since girls don't do that as often and you could really hurt his feelings. If you do find out that he does the stripping thing though, that's not good at all. I hope everything works out for you. Good luck!
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Very immature guy! It doesnt sound like youre relationship is gonna last if he keeps that up. Hes obviously not thinking about your feelings whatsoever! Hes just letting you know whats available to him, and is bragging to you about it. I guess you could say a few little remarks of your own right back at him and see what kind of response you get. Talk about this hott guy you saw and how hott his body was etc. Hell, whats good for the goose is good for the gander!
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wow..what a jerk. i would really tell him how you feel about what he's saying and let him know that you aren't going to put up with it so he should either shape up or lose you. if he is really joking, then fine..but you need to find out if he really is..then that's a whole other problem. he could have just been trying to find your reaction to the truth to decide whether to tell you or not..or he could simply be making things up to get you jealous. i hope i helped..i'm not sure if i did. haha.
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wow..what a jerk. i would really tell him how you feel about what he's saying and let him know that you aren't going to put up with it so he should either shape up or lose you. if he is really joking, then fine..but you need to find out if he really is..then that's a whole other problem. he could have just been trying to find your reaction to the truth to decide whether to tell you or not..or he could simply be making things up to get you jealous. i hope i helped..i'm not sure if i did. haha.
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well ur right for some reason ur bf is trying to make you jealous
talk to him about it say im rly uncomfortable when you talk about hot girls you see and talk to,
say it cant work if he does it more but you want it to work
good luck <3 lizzie
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Honey, this guy is a loser.
Ditch him.
Believe it or not, there are guys out there who will treat you right. You are not being treated right in your situation. He isn't respecting you as his girlfriend or as a girl in general.
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Well i think if you really love the guy that you should tell him that it bothers you that he says stuff about "hott chicks" and the nude pictures. But if you dont love the guy then dump him. Im sure that you'll find someone else!
Hope this helps!
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