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Hey, I'm Emily. I'm a nineteen year-old college student. I decided to make one of these things because my planned college major will be counceling of some sort.I'm not easily embarassed, so ask anything you want. No question is too personal, too strange, or on a subject that I wouldn't talk about.

I did have to choose three "favorite categories", but please don't think that my abilities are limited to them. I know some about eating disorders/body image, religion problems (I often have those myself), drug issues or questions (experience is the best teacher. . .)and, of course, I can help out with any sort of relationship with anyone.
I dabble in a little bit of everything.
I hope I can help you.
Emily
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Location: Kansas City, MO
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Age: 19
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Hi guys,
I was wanting to know if anyone has ever used the Creme Hair Remover For Face by Sally Hansen. I just recently bought it, and I haven't used it yet. I'm hoping someone has used it and can tell me if it works really good or not. I hope I didn't waste my money :( By the way, I bought it for my upper lip. I recently tried the waxing strips from Sally Hansen, and they were way too messy. They also didn't work too well for me. So I decided to try using the creme hair remover, because I thought it would be easier and less messier. If anyone has used the stuff I am talking about please let me know if it works good! I'd really appreciate it! Thank you so very much. (link)
It smells bad, but it does work pretty well.

good luck


what do people mean when they say work me like a 9 to 5 or im workin 9 to 5 (link)
Exactly what it says; that they work from 9 AM to 5 PM. It can also mean they're working a typical job.


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me and my boyfriend have been seeing each other for about 9 months and we started having sex around our 3 months of being together..we have had sex probably 3 times everyweek since then..WE HAVE GREAT SEX..but i want to switch it up a bit..meaning i want to lead..i want to suprise him in a way..does anyone have anytips for me..i rate 5'z =]

xo0x* (link)
This may sound kinda strange, but try a sexy costume. Find out if he has anything for schoolgirls, nurses, or french maids.


i know how to clean but i need a quicker way to do it....i hate to clean but i want to do it to get it over with..So if you know any ways to clean anythng then you can answer it

-suggestiongirl0302 (link)
Try buying a bunch of room organizer stuff; shelves, tupperware, things like that. There's all kinds of stuff you can buy with different sized compartments and drawers to help you keep things in certain places. If you know where to put your stuff, your room will get clean quicker and stay that way longer.


where can i get a really cheap ipod? & for how much?? (link)
Nowhere. Lol. Try going with a different brand of MP3 player that works the same and isn't as expensive as the iPod.


I had this zit on my cheek, and popped it (sort of). It was one of those deep ones. It's really red now and there is still a bumb. Is there any way to make the red go away and the bump to go down? (link)
I read this is Cosmo this month. Take a cotton ball, soak it in water, and put it in the freezer. Then take it out when it's frozen and hold it on the red area. This brings the swelling down, but may not reduce redness. For a quick fix, try using a yellow-based concealer (look for words like "golden" or "warm" when buying" to take care of the redness.


on my xanga, i want to change my comment and eprop buttons to something like 'kisses' and 'hugs' but ive already done that, and i want to do something that no one has really used before. does anyone have any good ideas? (link)
Try using song lyrics. My eprops are called "lovers i don't have to love" out of the song by Bright Eyes.


ok i just found out that i have spyware on my computer what do i do? i need help reallly fast please help i'll rate 5's for anyone
Thank you soo much in advance (link)
Try googling for a "spyware killer" like AdAware. That's what i use.


My boyfriend had some acne problems at the beginning of the year, like most 16 year old guys do, but then he started to take some medicine for it. It's starting to look 100% better already! Is it wrong for me to comment that it's looking better? would it offend him? (link)
If you say something like, "Wow, now that your face isn't all covered with zits, you're way hotter!" he'll probably be offended. If you can go about complimenting him diplomaticly though, he'll probably really appreciate that you noticed. Try saying something like, "Your skin looks great lately." or touch his face and tell him how nice it feels.


i heard a rumor that this weekend is national making out weekend... is this really true?
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Lol. Probably not.


do guys like it when girls shave you know where or do they like it trimmed better (link)
No, don't just "go" with anything. Ask your guy what he likes. Most of the guys I've dated prefer completely shaved, but my recent boyfriend surprised me when he told me he preferred just the opposite.


I need some songs to put on a cd. This girl asked me to make her a cd and i want to put songs that would like say i like you and say those songs are from my friend who likes her. So if you have anysongs that a girl would like to hear, something that would basically make her fall for him. (link)
Well, first of all, no amount of music is going to make a girl fall for you. It might tip her toward that direction, but you are the only thing that can make her like you. But she will appreciate a CD and it will put you in her favor.
Hmmm.... I think I know what you're looking for. These songs will make you sound sweet, but not desperate. Try

"The Tension and the Terror"-Staylight Run

"Your Name Here"-Straylight Run

"Bowl of Oranges"-Bright Eyes

"I Don't Wanna Know"-New Found Glory

"Tulips"-Bloc Party

"Passenger Seat"-Death Cab for Cutie

"Beauty in the Breakdown"-Frou Frou (EVERY girl likes this song for some reason!)

"There is a Light That Never Goes Out"-The Smiths

"Just Like Heaven"-The Cure

"I Caught Fire"-The Used

Hope this helps.
Emily








I've heard that when you're trying to lose weight that it's important to eat several small, healthy meals a day instead of only one or two large meals. What's a decent number of small meals a day to start with? Do you increase or decrease as time goes on? (link)
The usual reccommendation for that is five small meals a day. You don't increase or decrease unless you're increasing or decreasing your activity level.


Went out earlier tonight and stole as many flowers out of gardens as I posibly could, ended up with quite a lot of differant flowers.
Went to this girls house, who I have been out with at least 6 times, climbed over her apartment fence (questioning my sanity at being there in the middle of the night) scatered the flowers on her lawn and left.
I'm kinda scared that she will think I'm a weirdo stalker or something, but I really hope it makes her happy and special...
I have a idea that she likes me...kinda saw her being jeolous at another woman i was talking to one night (the woman was sweet, but happely married to someone else, and I REALLY like this girl)
anyway the real question for the modern age...would you consider this Romantic or Creepy? (link)
Creepy...but in a cute sort of way. Lol. Her reaction will depend on her personality. Best of luck.

19/f


What are some good exercises to do in the winter? I know like in warmer seasons you can go outside and play sports and stuff, but when its cold out being outside is not very enjoyable. But I need to keep my work-out going but I'm not one to do crunches or anything more stuff that is fun to do and burns calories. What are some options/activities? (link)
I've got a great pilates dance video that's a whole lot of fun to do. Go to Borders or Barnes and Noble and look at the exercise DVDs. They have everything from bellydancing to learning to dance like Britney Spears; plenty of indoor cardio options.


Okay. I'm a junior in high school and I'm graduating at the end of this year. I want to enter college in the Fall of 2006 and major in math and physics, those have always been areas that interest me. I have already applied to four different colleges, I'm working on scholarships as hard as I can, and I have two part-time jobs in addition to keeping up extracurriculars and 4 AP classes. I'm working as hard as I can this year because I really want to set myself up for college and living on my own.
Here's the problem: My mom has forbidden me to apply to any colleges, she wants me to go in the Fall of 2007 so that I can get in a full year of work, because she says I'm not mature enough. I have worked really, really hard at everything: I've kept up my chores, my job teaching piano, my job at the library, my schoolwork, and being in a musical, and she still won't let me. Now, normally I would think that working for a year to save up money for college is a great idea. But my majors are in math and physics, and a year is a long time to be away from calculus and quantum mechanics. I'm really afraid of losing the momentum, and of missing my chance to go for my goals.
My guidance counselor at school tells me to apply to every college I want to and not worry about my mom just yet...along with a score of other people, like my dad, my grandma, my boyfriend, and various other family friends. It's just, I'm really worried about this...like the fight that will ensue once I start hearing back from the colleges I applied to. I'm completely dedicated to going in the Fall of 2006...with or without my mom's consent, but I would really like it to be with.
Is there anything I can do to convince her I can handle it?
Sorry it's so long -
Nevaeh (link)
I've got good news for you.
Once you turn 18, your mother has no more say over what you do than I do. She can't do anything about it. Period.
Worried about money? Scholarships (sounds like you could get a few because you work so hard) and student loans can fix that problem.
You can't spend your whole life worrying about what other people are gonna do when you make your decisions, even if those people are ones you care about. You need to live life for yourself. What do YOU want to do?

Have confidence.


any cute or amazing pet names you've heard?
im so uncreative and me and my boyfriend are gonna give each other little nicknames, (link)
Lol. my boyfriend calls me Emmy the Pooh, and my name is Emily. It's hilarious.
I call him Lovely. I'm not sure why, i just always have.


On sunda is my boyfriends little sisters birthday party. It will be the first time I have ever met his parents! I want them to know I am a really nice girl and that I love there son alot. What kind of things can I do to show them that I am really nice and that I will treat there son well. I love him and I want to be with him for ever!

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i'm gonna go through this same situation, probably tomorrow. . . and i'm pretty nervous myself. good luck. i'll be thinking of you tomorrow when i have to do this myself. . .lol. tell me how things go.


Alright, here's the deal. I need to shed off quite a few pounds, I have until the end of November to do it.

Now I know the best way to get rid of weight is to exercise. I work two jobs, I don't have the energy to really work out when I have to work and on if I do get a day off from one job or another I just want to relax. Occassionally I take a few walks or jogs around the block. It hasn't been often though lately.

As much as I'm on the go and doing something I have a very slow metabolism. It's hard to lose weight for me. Anyone know how to jumpstart it?

I am trying to watch what I eat as well. Are there any kinds of food that are great for burning off fat? Or any kind of liquids?

I know that diet pills are not healthy, but they seem to be 'quick' so if anyone has had an expierence with a diet pill that has worked please let me know.

So I need quick and easy diet tips for shedding the pounds. I will rate 5 for all answers.
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Water is the best way to flush out fat cells in your system. However, 2 gallons will most likely make you sick. Stick to one gallon. Eating only 3 meals a day with no snacks will only make you more prone to binging. Instead, eat 5 small, healthy meals every day. If you eat more frequent, small meals, you're much less likely to binge and you'll feel full longer. To lose weight, you use more calories than you take in. So do just that. If you don't exercise, don't eat as much. Only eat as much as you need to. Also, take the stairs, park far away and walk, and walk instead of drive when you can. It's amazing how much that alone will do.
Stay AWAY from diet pills.


my boyfriend really wants to have sex...i think i love him and i really want to too. i am just so nervous...she i wait?or should i just go for it?protection? andy advice...?¿ (link)
Unfortunately, none of us are gonna be able to tell you whether or not you're ready to have sex. Some people will say, "No, you had to ask, so you aren't" and some will say "You love him, so go for it" but ultimately, it will be you that will have to decide whether or not you're ready. Ask yourself before you ask anyone else.




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