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ok i have a boyfriend, the thing is im not supposed to yet, but i really really like him but i know if i told my parents my dad will like ground me forever and never let me date agian. ever. and my bf is going to a new school that they built, and everyone is either going or staying well im staying but he is going. so should i just wait till the school year starts to break up with him? because i know we will break up after that because long distance or just across town relationships dont ever last.
but, what should i do?
thanks!
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This a really tough question, but I can help. Uhm, lets see. You should know that if you really love each other, a long distance relationship might last. If not, you should try talking to your boyfriend and listening to what he thinks. If you hear each other out, it just might work out well for you. Otherwise, break it off with him before your parents find out what you've been up to. Thanks and please ask me a question in the near future.
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i have a similar problem too, my parents don`t want me to have a boyfriend until i finish college!! don`t get your parents mixed up in this just yet!! if you really love this boy, and if you know in your heart that the whole long distance thing won`t work out, then maybe you should try talking to him first. see what he feels to, and if he you you are soon seeing eye to eye, do what feels right. Personally, i would break up with him, let him down gently, but don`t rush to do it. Love is really confusing, but like i said before, if he really loves you, he`ll understand.. ohh wait! i got a back-up answer, don`t break up with him, summer and vacations you guys could hang-out.. and well you live, what? just across town from him, well just try what feels right, if your not ready to let go, then do the summer and vacation thing, but if you really just wanna push this thing out of the way, break-up with him.
i hope my advice helps you!
xo0x- Kata
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First off. Long distance relationships can last, it's much easier when you are older, but you hafta want them too.
Secondly why are you still with this guy if you know you are going to break up with him (ie he isn't worth it in the long term.) and you know it will upset your dad?
Cut the poor boy loose, if you really want a boyfriend fine, but don't waste both of your time in a doomed relationship.
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dont keep going with it if you know your going to break up soon! just get it done so you wont be thinking about it when your together and stuff. you'll probably meet new guys at school, but what if you meet someone before then? you'll still be with this old guy so you cant pursue the new guy! so yes i would say break up with him because the sooner the better.. even though it might suck :(
hope this helps- :)
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i think if he is going than you should break up with ASAP because you dont wanna get into to deep of a realitionship (sorry i cant spell) because when he moves you will miss him so much well hope i helped and if you have ne more quistions drop em in my inbox
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