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love help
ok so, i am only 13 years old. and i think i might be in love! my boyfriend is only 13 too. and i heard that he is like...an intch close to loving me! so now im scared bc i have never been in love before and i really dont want to get hurt. so do i break up with him before i get hurt or do i go with it and get hurt! i really need some help and ill rate high to anyone that gives some good advice.
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Well now thats not much of a dilemma... If (as you say) you are both in love then you have nothing to worry about. But through my experience sit and talk with them. Drop hints first and then say. Dont come out of the blue with i think i love you . So speak to him. Drop hints ask him how he feels and then if YOU think( not what other people think) he loves you then you tell him. And dont be silly dont break up with him!! If you both in love thats the worst you could do. Love doesnt always end in hurt trust me! And listen; even if it does go rong( touch wood) it shouldnt if you love one another but no-one can see the future. but say it does jus to give you a piece of advice. Take it as a learning curve for the future. But i gaurantee if you love one another- and mean it! It will work out fine and you wont end up hurt at all!! So yes you talk with him and stuff. And then you stay with him, dont leave him!! And take it from there.
hope i helped,
anthony
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If you love each other then DON'T BREAK UP!! and if you do end up breaking up then he's probably not 'mr. right' anyways!
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No! Don't break up with him. You never know what could happen. Just go with it and see what happens, don't let your heart get involved too soon, because thats when people get heart broken. Just take it slow. thats all I can tell ya. good luck
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hes an intch close to loving you that doesnt make sense. grow up first before you worry about love because what your saying sounds like a two year old. sry but thats the truth
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YOU SHOULD NOT BREAK UP WITH HIM!!!!!!! WHAT ARE YOU CRAZY!? This relationship of yours could go on for a long time if you put up with eachother! =D In most relationships poeple get hurt but not in the right ones. AsH!
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if you both love each other, there's no reason for you to get hurt. not all relationships end badly, this could be the real thing. and even if it doesn't work out in the end, at least you experienced your first love, which is the best feeling ever. don't worry about the getting hurt part, just focus on you and him being in love together and enjoy it.
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Sweetie, don't worry about it. Life does hurt sometimes, but you've gotta take that chance. I'm a little older than you, and this year I fell "in love." I've never been "in love" before either, and I'll say it's a bit ... amazing. I mean, my relationship with my boyfriend isn't a physical one, but I love him. And if you love your boyfriend, or almost love him, don't break up with him. You will regret it so much! I have two aunts that found their husbands in middle school, and my grandmother met her husband in 10th grade! Don't give up with him. If you end up breaking up with him, it wasn't meant to be, but give it a chance! Give him a chance! I know you're scared -- I was too. But don't end it because you're scared, being afraid makes you more cautious, and when you're more cautious, you're less apt to do something you'd later regret physically. (like sleeping with your boyfriend. That's a big one) Don't break up with him... give the guy a chance. I'm sure he's scared too, but he's giving you the chance.
-FunnyCide
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you stay with him! if you love him then it will be stronger for the both of you if you do! dont be affraid to be heart broken or you will find yourself one of those single 40 year olds in a few years...so, if you get heart broken then it will make YOU personally stronger. and im assumming that wont happen for a while if you both love each other-good luck!
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ok im not gonna tell you that your too young to be in luv because you definately arent, but u seem to unsure to be in love. if you truly love him and hes gonna end up truly loving you back neither one of you will end up hurt... but i doubt thats the case in this situation. being afraid of being hurt is the worst reason to not date or to dump some one. dont do that, it will make things harder and if u do then you'll just learn the hard way like most people do. stay wiht him if youre serious about this relationship and try to make the best of every moment you have because that way if you do get hurt, you'll get somehting better out of this too. i wish you the best with it! plez rate me hope i helped
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Part of love is getting hurt, its a part of becoming who you are. YOu cant always try to run from that fact of getting hurt, and your first love is always the most meaningful. Yes you will get hurt, and yes you will be upset for a long time, but after a while you will understand that is was all worth it. besides how would you feel if he left you just because he didnt want you to hurt him. dont hurt HIM for no reason, always try to think about his feelings too. Good luck.
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You have to understand that LOVE HURTS LIKE A BITCH!!!!!!!! I was in love when I was 13, he broke my heart and I almost ended up in the hospital. But you shouldn't break up with a guy just because you don't want to get too close to him and you don't want to get hurt. If you do that, then you'll never be able to have a healthy, stable relationship. No matter what, if you do break up with him, or if you go with it and you break up eventually, SOMEONE is going to get hurt in the end. Dating at a young age is tough, I've been there, trust me. But why mess up something now that could be sooo good later? Go with the flow for now and try to make it the best. You never know, you guys could end up dating all through highschool and end up being together. Don't break it off just yet. The only time you should break up with a guy is if he's treating you wrong or if you just don't feel it with him anymore, not because you love him but you just don't want to end up hurt. I must warn you though, if you do fall in love and something happens, you WILL be heart broken for a while, but every heart break you just need to let it heal and you'll be stronger. Don't mess it up with this guy, you guys seem so right for eachother. Keep dating and see how things go! After my boyfriend (the one that was my first love) broke up with me, I was afraid to ever date again because I didn't want to hurt like that again, but you just gotta think about the positive. Now I'm in a GREAT relationship and my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year, we love eachother very much and hopefully for you, things can be as good with your boyfriend as they are with me and mine. GOOD LUCK! If you need anything drop it in my inbox.
-Emily ♥
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ok well, if you really think your in love then go for it and theres always that chance that he will break your heart but he might not so if you dont give it a chance then you might miss out on someone you love so i say go for it and see what happens, good luck. xojess
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no matter what one day you will get hurt but just because of that you dont need to never love besides one day u will find someone that you love that wont hurt you
well i think you should stay with him i mean you never know well i hoped i helped and if you have any other quistions drop em in my inbox
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If you really love him (which is rare at 13, but it could definitely happen!) then just keep going with things! It's better to love and be hurt then never loved at all. But... there's one thing that's strange... you "heard" he's an inch close to loving you? That means he doesn't yet... so, maybe try to get to the point where you both love each other before you go too far in your relationship. Don't break up with him yet... Loving someone is not a reason to break up, but just assess your feelings and don't let yourself get hurt. The biggest mistake girls your age (and my age and pretty much any teenager) makes is to center their lives around a boy, so when he decides he's not so into her anymore, she falls apart. Don't let that happen to you by staying busy doing other things while still paying attention to him.
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I'm the same way. Im 13 and my boyfriend is 14 but play with your thoughts if he hurts you you just keep telling yourself that you werent really in love but if you really think your in love talk to him about your feelings and let him know not to hurt you because you feel different about him then any other guy ever. Im sure that will boost his ego! hoPe i HELped..lemme know if you need anything else! eMilee
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