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ok im skinny but i have big and flabby thighs. Does anyone know any GOOD excersise to make your thighs smaller and less flabby?

I rate high!!!

well running helps a lot. or walking or even jogging, but you could do anything even juming on a trampoline if you have one anything envolving your legs helps. and volleyball helps alot too. hope i helped. xojess

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Already i might seem like a COMPLETE LAME for asking this.. im not a real computer person at all.. i only get on it to help people on this site or to do homework.. i wanted to know what is XANGA everybody mentions it on this site and i have no freakin clue what it is.. so if you explain to me ill be happy to rate high.. loves ya!

ok well a xanga is kind of like a live journal, you can type about like what you did today and stuff like that. hope i helped. xojess

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what is a good age to have sex at??

well there is no good age. you should have sex whenever you fell ready to but not like too young. i would say the youngest about 16. well thats just me but be safe if you do have sex. hope i helped. xojess

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Is the song "this is how a heart breaks" by rob thomas a remake? it sounds so familiar.
thanks

i dont think it is a remake but it does sound like another song. hope i helped. xojess

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Hi, I need some advice on how to lose about 5 pounds by the middle of August or sooner. Please help me!!

ok well 5 pounds isint much so just mabey take a walk a day or run or jog whatever or just go out and play a sport,swim whatever. and eat healthier. if you do a sport like soccer and you play it everyday youll lose avout 5 pounds in 1 week. i like swimming so try that it works your whole body. hope i helped. xojess

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ok does anyone know a good song that is about break ups? or to dance to?

We Belong Together - Mariah Carey

My Eyes Burn - Matchbook Romance

Behind These Hazel Eyes - Kelly Clarkson

Akon - Lonley

hope i helped ♥xojess♥

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whats a prude? is it a bad thing?

ok well its not a bad thing it keeps you from getting sick ( sorta ) but prude is basically when you dont kiss someone or you like refuse to and stuff. its hard to explain but hope i helped. xojess

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ok, i want to get into really good shape for the upcoming school year because i plan on working out hard over the course of the year. im trying to get my stomach to get really flat and its not working. i do sit ups every single day and i do a total of at least 4500 in a week. i stretch everyday too and i go on walks as often as possible, probably a few times a week. i swim twice or three times a week too but nothing seems to have any affect on my body. any advice? plz help! i rate high for any reasonable answer

ok well what worked for me was i swam in the pool everyday, walked istead of eating or going on the computer or phone,ate right,500 crunches every morning and night, and NO JUNK FOOD, well mabey you dont have to do all those things but it worked for me and i hope it works well for you. good luck and im trying to lose 20 pounds over the summer to so i'm going to do that to but i think what your doing is fine and it takes time. good luck and i.m. me to tell me how its working for you. xojess

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ok im here and every thing so where r u mindy.ok i have this friend mindy. she had sex w/ her b/f and now shes pregnated. the doc gave her pills to take. but i still wonder if shes lieing.u no about being pregnated. r u lieing mindy? what should i say 2 her?

ok well, if the doctor gave her pills then she has to be pregnant. and just say are you pregnant or not tell me the truth. good luck. xojess

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is it wrong to wear a thong? i want to get one but i dont want people to think of me as a hoe

no its not wrong at all. i wear them and im not a hoe just dont go showing them off and wear like white shorts with a black thong or show them off. just wear it and youll be fine. good luck.. xojess

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please read this and help me..i'll rate 5s..just please i desperately need help more than anything


i fell in love with a guy named harrison about 2 years ago, and we have been unseperable ever since then. we'd always have the occasional fights between us, and i was crazy about him, and he was about me too. i loved him more than anything in the world, and this was not just puppy love, this was the real thing. he was my first and possibly final love, and i lost my virginity to him. when he moved to iowa last year, we still loved each other and he never even attempted to go out with any other girl. he was the best thing that had ever happened to me, and i loved him..i truly mean it. he was always there for me, he was there when mother died, i lost my best friend, and when i had to have a heart surgery.


recently he died in a car accident. it wasn't his fault at all, it was horrible luck. he was driving on a highway and a drunk driver crashed into his car, killing him. i cried myself to sleep for months, and i just didn't care about anything but him. i was obsessing yes, but i loved him, and i know he loved me too. he was the only one for me, and i know he's gone now and i should move on and look for other guys, but i don't think i'll ever find anyone else like harrison. i will still of course try, but i cannot help but feel horrible. sometimes i feel i should kill myself so i can join harrison up in heaven, but i have never succeeded. i am hurt beyond words, and i don't know what to do anymore. please help me, anything will help right now. thank you so much for reading all of this.. love, lauren

omg i feel so bad i know what your going through but think would harrsion want you to be miserable he would want you to have fun and date other guys. not forget about him or push him out of your life completely just think if you died what you want him to do probaly be happy. so go date other guys but you will always remember him. hope everything works out. xojess

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I absolutely hate my hair. I have thick light brown hair with blonde highlights. When i say thick.. i mean really thick. I have anywhere from 5-10 minutes in the morning to do my hair. Besides the everyday ponytail... what can i do to my hair? I am taking coloring, cutting, and styling ideas.

you cold put it in a bun, put it in pigtails ( down low ), braid the pigtails, let it lose, like put moose in it and like make it frizzy

go to www.seventeen.com and look what they say.. good luck.xojess


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I am a dancer and when im home alone... i dance lol.. what are some good fast pace songs that are good to dance to?

ok fallout boy ( any of their songs ), holla back girl, lose control, 1,2 step ( you could make a little dance lol ) let me go, and i just put on mtv or vh1 and dance to all the songs, lol
have fun.xojess

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13/f--->Hey guys, i have a weight problem, i weigh about 215 and well i never realized how fat i was until i really looked in the mirror. I started to run and im doing volleyball so we have to run for like 2 and a half hours straight and i'm going to start excersizing with my friend.I also don't drink any soda or eat junk food now. Do you guys have any ideas, i know youve seen so many of these, but im talking about motivation. Also any websites, ive heard of teentone
Thanks i'll send feedback

ok well some motivations are like just picture your self the way you want and go for it but if you give up you may never become close and even if your not skinny or a twig your still beautiful in your own way. and i dont know if these help but i lost a lot of weight with my friend by doing 500 crunches a night and 100 pushups but you dont have to do the pushups i didnt because i broke my hand but it still worked and volleyball is great and so is running im me and tell me how its working. good luck. xojess

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ok so, i am only 13 years old. and i think i might be in love! my boyfriend is only 13 too. and i heard that he is like...an intch close to loving me! so now im scared bc i have never been in love before and i really dont want to get hurt. so do i break up with him before i get hurt or do i go with it and get hurt! i really need some help and ill rate high to anyone that gives some good advice.

ok well, if you really think your in love then go for it and theres always that chance that he will break your heart but he might not so if you dont give it a chance then you might miss out on someone you love so i say go for it and see what happens, good luck. xojess

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