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well there is this boy and he always stares at me and i mean ALWAYS but in a good way but too much and he makes me laugh and is really nice to me..well today was picture day and there were 3 sections you can get your picture taken there were 3 girls taking their pic at the same time in different corners of the room ..well he watched me get my picture taken..and in spanish class our seats are in rows and we got to choose our seats and he chooses the the next to mine but ONE Down ...im suspecting he has a crush on me...what do you think.. im so0o confused (link)
yea... well it definately sounds like hes got sumthing for you. he seems relly sweet. and you know that if he seems especially nice to you, (like compared to how he is to other girls) then there is a good chance that he relly relly likes you.
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one of my closest guy friends has been very very huggy since the first day of school. he is always coming up right behind me and throwing his arms around me and getting his face close enough for me to smell the shampoo in his hair. he carries my books from my locker to where we hang out waiting for our rides and today he started calling me "his princess".
i wouldnt think it was so... lovey dovey if he hadnt of said i was "his".
everybody notices that he hugs me alll the time and sometimes he leans on my shoulder and lets me cuddle him. my best friend even asked us to both of our faces if we were going out with each other. he had to go practice for his sport thing, so he never answered. but we drink after each other and i want to be his girlfriend..

but i'm not making the first move so dont even suggest that.

does he like me? do yall think he wants to be more too? i cant get him out of my head.
i recently broke up with my boyfriend because he thought that i was to huggy with the guy. and every time i mention his name he gets all jealous and protective. (link)
talk to him about it. unless you consider that making a first move... otherwise id suggest that you start being relly 'huggy' or w/e back to him. even if you already are, be even more so. try to get the idea across of being more than friends across to him.
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ok i have heard that if you put lemon juice in your hair and then go outside tha the sun makes the lemon juice make your hair lighter. is it true, and if not, what are some things that really do work. i dont want to color my hair, just make it lighter (link)
Yea it is true, lemon juice does work for lightening your hair. But the results of doing it do vary with different people. That's the natural way to do it but they're are also some products you can buy that aren't that expensive to lighten your hair. Try 'A Touch Of Sun'. I used it and it worked very well.
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hey to all you my chemical romance fans... does anyone know what frank ieros guitar says??? thanks a lot!

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pansy


Allright my friendboy Lynn kissed me in a hotel bed, but he has a girlfriend. I kissed him back but I don't know what I should do. So, what should I do?

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My first peice of advice is that you should probably not assume anything yet. Just, get YOUR feelings straight and then ask him about it. Bring it up casually. If he says it was just a friends thing then everything should jsut be normal again. If he says he has feelings for you, that might be more complicated. Just remember-her DOES already have a gf. Just make sure you're considering that, it doesn't mean you can't be with them. If he breaks up with her for you then I suggest you wait at least a little while before getting with him to make sure he still wants to go through with it all.
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Alright, i feel silly asking this question but sometimes i feel weird that my boyfriend is a bit shorter then me. I love him very much and he loves me back even more and a feel like this could last for a long time. Should i talk to him about this (but i guess its not like this is going to change it) or what should i do? Am i stupid for feeling like this? (link)
No, your not stupid for geeling like you do. It's actually completely normal and there's usually always something about who you're with that you wish you could change. But, it's not important enough to talk to him about, like you said, it's not like he can change it. Just remember that you love him and he loves you. Look at what you have and think about how stupid it would be to lose any of it over a height difference.
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Hey Im gettin a kitten sometime this week. I dont know what to name it yet or iwhat it looks like. i already have a cat named daisy well i might rate high?! i dunno (link)
Ok, if it's a white kitten then a think the citest name would be tighty-whitey! lol my friend named a stuffed white teddy bear that and I thought it was adorable. Other names is-
if its kinda mean or something you could name it Jafar. (thaz the bad guy on aladin)
sinbad
rajah
heather grey
if its black and white you can name it mini-moo
if you need any more just email me
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what is the evolutionary adventage of different color eyes. because i heard ppl only evolve things that they need. (link)
its like a pigment. they way it just is, just like different skin colors, different hair colors, different heights. all of it is ust decided individually by a persons genes or yes their needs. but eye color was not EVOLVED it has always been with people throughout history.
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you know how girls have their periods? well what do guys have? (link)
guys dont have anything like...periods. they do also go through puberty though.
sry i cant give out particular information. if you really want to know twhat they go through, drop one in my inbox.
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I just inserted my first tampon about an hour and 15 minutes ago. Well, half of the string is covered in blood and i still have blood dripping out into a pad. Why is it doing this? IS the tampon full already?? I used a playtex gentle glide regular if it helps. I also have a heavy flow. Should i take the tampon out or what? (link)
well sometimes (and this is probably the case since you said you have a heavy flow and your only using a regular) the tampon does get filled quickly and you should change it and put a new one in. also wut could be happening is that if you were lying down or were sitting at an angle or something, half the tampon(not the top or bottom half but like the left side or something) wil fill up and go down to the string and leak out. either way, yes, you should change it or just take it out.
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idk what to do...i was "together" with this guy.(im 13/f-hes 14/m) hes a grade older than me but we got to know eachother this year and started going "together" this march i think. well hes really really really busy w/ sports and we used to talk atleast like 3 hours everyday. now hes going to hs and hes been acting like a jerk lately. he hasnt talked to me in a long time, and he was talking to my friend and said that its not gonna work out, but he wont talk to me so hes leaving it up for me to figure it out even though i know already. what should i do, cus im having a hard time moving on...thanks.
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try your best to move on. i know itll be hard but you'll feel so much better if you jsut break up with him before he gets the chance to you. that'll just hurt you even more and it'll take longer for you to get over him if he's the one that breaks up with you. guys can be total jerks and it sounds like the guy you say youre 'having a hard time moving on' from isnt the same guy that he is now. hes changed, you'll find some one way better than him. and you definately deserve better than to be treated like this.
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ok so when your on the phone it REALLY sucks when you have awkward silences! so wut r some things yo an talk about? like lets say you want to make a list of topics to talk about, wuts r some things you could put on the list? pleas hurry! ill rate for fast asnweres (link)
ok (if your still in school right now...) ask about school-grades projects teachers hw, w/e. if you're talking about talking to some one of the opposite sex heres things you can talk about-
their gf/bf
their past gf/bfz
family stuff
where theyve lived before, where theyve been to or want to go to
who they like
wut they did 2day
wut theyre gonna do 2day
wutz theyre planz 4 summer vacation
if youre relly stuck and have NOTHING 2 talk about then this is wut u can do if youre desperate-
ask them to guess wut time is is
you guys can take turn asking ?z to each other(i do this alot and itz actually fun)
you can be like 'im thinking of a # one thru ten, guess wut it is. and take turns doing that. i used that once and it actually went on for over a half an hour.
hope some of my ideas helped at least a bit...
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whoz the author or the poem 'alone'? (link)
edgar allen poe
if youre talking about the one that starts with
'From childhoods hour i have not been as others were i have not seen...'
yea thats edgar allen poe


for theatre i hafta recite a poem and i wanna make a good selection. an original poem that no one has relly done before. any ideas? plz dont list any edgar allen poe poems, i luv his work but i'm already reciting one of his. thankz in advance! (link)
i did a poem recital last year in theatre too. my poem was 'sherwood' it was a great poem and no one else had ever heard it before. good luck on you recital!


ok well ive been going out with my boyfriend for 2 months,and we never go anywhere, and thats because of me, i just dont feel right around him but i like him and all, and im pretty sure he likes me more then i like him, and in the past couple of days, well ive been talking to this boy johnny, and hes absouloutly my type, and i told him i liked him and he said liked me back, he said he would wait till me and my boyfriend brake up, but i like my boyfriend to!, so i dont know what to do cause he likes me so much and i dont want to hurt his feelings, but i like him and johnny, please help im stuck (link)
well if you like johnny more than your bf then you need to break up with your him. it wont be right going out wiht him when you have some one else you always thinking of. jsut let your boyfriend no you like him but its just not working out. let him now youve felt this way for a while and nothings changed and you dont feel like dating him is gonna work. dont go out with johnny immediatly after, especially if ur bf ur have now knows johnny too. you dont want him to think you dumped him for sumone else. give it time after you break up and make sure this is what you want to do. i hope i was able to help.
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every girl i like doesnt like me back...they say they just like me as a friend...and i really need a girlfriend i just dotn know what to do...is there somethin im doin wrong...? (link)
no youre not doing anything wrong. it just happnes to be that the girls you like you've probably gotten to be pretty good friends with them before you asked them out or whatever. just be yourself and eventually the girl you like will see you as more than a friend. open yourself up more to try to show them you like them as more than that (jsut dont get all weird on them) and act differently around the than you do around other girls you DO just like as just friends. not the best answer but i hope i was able to help some how...
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what kind of music is this grateful dead, frank zappa, little feet, the who, rolling stones, led zepplin, pat b., santana, weird al, rage against the machine, jimmy hendrix ?? (link)
all rock.
the who, rolling stones, led zeppelin, and jimmpy hendrix are all classics. grateful dead more punk...santana is a mix, rage against the machine is in like a weird rap rock genre along with the beastie boys (even tho u didnt list them) the rest are all different kinds of rock as well.
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what is the quickest/fastest way to get rid of a pimple? (link)
pop the tip of ur pimple and get the pus out of it. if its not one that youre able to pop then wash your fash and dry it completely. but witch hazel on it and then a medicene you might have for pimples, like nuetrogena of sumthing.


my skin, like on most of my body is covered in (little) bumps. ive had them my whole like but i dont kno what they are and personally, all i want to do is get rid of them! i hate it. its not a rash or anything like that but it wont go away with lotions, exfoliation, or creams, or anything else i have tried. plz help me!!! i rate 5's!!!!! (link)
i'd suggest goin to see a dermatoligist. it doesnt sound like a rash (like u said) or hives or anything. and since uve had them for most of your life i doubt its a allergic reaction.
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awhile back i gave my boyfriend head, and i only did it once, but im deathly afraid i have an std. i dont want to tell my parents anything. he told me he didnt cum but im scared. i go to bed crying often because of it. do i have an std?
thanks. (link)
um... u didnt give us enough information for us to tell if you have an std or not. get tested, that is the smartest thing to do right now. and don't have sex again until you AND your boyfriend have been tested. hope ive helped
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